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is there is any Lemmy server that care about privacy(does not require email), Does not impose limits on community posts like my current instance and does not have high amount of restrictions?

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  • rglullis@communick.newsR [email protected]

    I've noticed you tend to always assume the worst before even trying to give the benefit of the doubt.

    There are very legitimate reasons to not want to give your email to any random website that asks. They can be hacked, the instance might be a front for some data aggregator, etc. And if your response is "just use a masking service" or "just use a disposable email address", then what is the point of validating the email address in the first place?

    Admins add email verification because this is one extra layer of protection against automated bots, but this is far from a guarantee they are protected. It might help them to give some paper trail in case someone does something nasty on their servers, but the best they can do is take an (easy to create) email address and report to the authorities along with the IP address.

    Compare with an instance that only accepts paying members:

    • no bot or spammer will be interested in paying a few dollars per month to send messages
    • if some spammer is stupid enough to sign up to the service and sends clear spam, then we point the ToS to them, kick them out and they will be left without any money
    • we have a much stronger paper trail (credit card payments, bank transfers) in case some user does something nasty.
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    I think your approach is a good one to ensure real users, reduce spam, and for the admins to be compensated for the service they provide. However, is giving your credit card or bank transfer information to a website less risky or more privacy-focused (one of OP's goals) than giving an email address?

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      that now has your IP address and your host string, as well as matching your ID to any sales trackers you happen to have, basically all you need to uniquely identify a user across sessions

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      #51

      All pretty easy to circumvent if you understand privacy. Guess you don't..

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      • rglullis@communick.newsR [email protected]

        My instance does not require email validation and so far I have zero spammers or bots. There is one thing I am doing different than everyone else. Can you guess what it is?

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        Why wouldn't you present your solution without the theatricals?

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        • F [email protected]

          As long as they're not back to back I don't mind. But what I HATE is people that spam out like 30 posts in one go. I don't want an entire page to be posts from one person/community.

          I especially hate it when it's the exact same link, but different communities (shouldn't be an issue for OP, but I hate that shit). Lemmy really needs to fix that. I don't mind people cross posting 30 times, but I only want to see the same link once per page.

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          #53

          https://piefed.zip/post/100161

          All comments from 5 crossposts in a single view

          A few options

          • https://piefed.social/ - flagship instance
          • https://piefed.zip/ - lemmy.zip team
          • https://piefed.ca/ - lemmy.ca team
          • https://feddit.online/

          [email protected]

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          • D [email protected]

            Omg, I agree. I hate seeing the same article posted to 10 different instances all lined up in a row.

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            #54

            https://piefed.zip/post/100161

            All comments from 5 crossposts in a single view

            A few options

            • https://piefed.social/ - flagship instance
            • https://piefed.zip/ - lemmy.zip team
            • https://piefed.ca/ - lemmy.ca team
            • https://feddit.online/

            [email protected] for an app

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            • rglullis@communick.newsR [email protected]

              You don’t need 5 posts a day for a community to survive here

              "Surving" != "Thriving".

              A couple of years ago, I noticed that the front page of HackerNews was consistently getting links from Mastodon posts. That was interesting because it showed that at least one significant part of the tech conversation had moved away from Twitter and into the Fediverse.

              No such thing has happened for Lemmy. There is no particular community which is thriving. There is no example of subreddit community that had successfully boycotted Reddit and transplanted here. We have the usual handful of posters, each one trying to maintain their communities "alive", but that is far from its true potential.

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              There is no example of subreddit community that had successfully boycotted Reddit and transplanted here.

              [email protected] is much more active than /r/fediverse

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                As long as they're not back to back I don't mind. But what I HATE is people that spam out like 30 posts in one go. I don't want an entire page to be posts from one person/community.

                I especially hate it when it's the exact same link, but different communities (shouldn't be an issue for OP, but I hate that shit). Lemmy really needs to fix that. I don't mind people cross posting 30 times, but I only want to see the same link once per page.

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                #56

                I make an exception to that rule for the /c/superbowl. I love seeing a bunch of owls suddenly appear in my feed 🙂

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                  I want to be part of the solution of the problems I see on Lemmy, that is why I opened my alt account at my current server to open new communities while fixing their issues.

                  I had been informed by the server admin that I should not post more than 5 posts in any local community which is guaranteed to kill my communities on my current server.

                  I am explaining the backstory here for people to understand my logic for my question.

                  So, I really appreciate any help here. If anyone can give me good servers to open my communities in.

                  My current communities:

                  • News: to lower the load on Lemmy. World server and to improve the Fediverse health.
                  • Europe: due to less than optimal moderation actions as documented in "power trippin " community.
                  • Misinformation/ Disinformation: Because there is no community to post research and news about this topic.

                  Thank you all for your help. I really would appreciate any lead here.

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                  #57

                  Email is optional on lemmy.sdf.org.

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                  • rglullis@communick.newsR [email protected]

                    My instance does not require email validation and so far I have zero spammers or bots. There is one thing I am doing different than everyone else. Can you guess what it is?

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                    #58

                    I would venture that you spun it up yourself.

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                      Why wouldn't you present your solution without the theatricals?

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                      #59

                      I did already. The solution is to charge a small payment from every user. I've been saying that for everyone that cares to hear since 2022.

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                      • S [email protected]

                        I would venture that you spun it up yourself.

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                        It's still open for registrations. The instance is not just for me.

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                          I think your approach is a good one to ensure real users, reduce spam, and for the admins to be compensated for the service they provide. However, is giving your credit card or bank transfer information to a website less risky or more privacy-focused (one of OP's goals) than giving an email address?

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                          However, is giving your credit card or bank transfer information to a website

                          You are not giving your payment information to the website. You'd be giving to a payment processor, which has to go through all the regulatory oversight. So, yes, I trust Stripe to handle my payment information more than I'd ever trust any random instance admin with my email.

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                            All pretty easy to circumvent if you understand privacy. Guess you don't..

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                            So because I posted cybersecurity standard practices, I don't understand privacy.

                            Please explain your logic

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                              If you're truly worried about that, turn the Internet off and never come back. What you are asking is impossible.

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                              #63

                              Incorrect.

                              Nobody has my IP, self-hosted vpn

                              My host string changes automatically every 3 minutes, and none of them report my actual system status

                              Every cookie and cache is purged on close except for a few whitelisted sites, and I regularly run diff scans for evercookies

                              So yes, it is possible, and is relatively easy to do

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                                They’re saying “free” email services. What they mean are disposable e-mail services. You go to a website, they provide you with a random e-mail address. You enter that address into the form, check for the verification code on the disposable e-mail site and you’re done with the disposable e-mail. You never visit the disposable site again. Do a search for “disposable email”.

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                                Son I've been using mailinator since before you learned to type

                                They still track your data, they still sell your usage, in fact THAT IS THE ENTIRE BUSINESS MODEL FOR DISPOSABLE EMAILS

                                It really staggers me how ignorant everyone in this thread seems to be about basic security practices

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                                  Incorrect.

                                  Nobody has my IP, self-hosted vpn

                                  My host string changes automatically every 3 minutes, and none of them report my actual system status

                                  Every cookie and cache is purged on close except for a few whitelisted sites, and I regularly run diff scans for evercookies

                                  So yes, it is possible, and is relatively easy to do

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                                  And are you also clearing the logs at your ISP? If not, you're still being tracked. Even vpns are not as secure as people think they are. It's all trackable at some level.

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                                  • blaze@lemmy.dbzer0.comB [email protected]

                                    There is no example of subreddit community that had successfully boycotted Reddit and transplanted here.

                                    [email protected] is much more active than /r/fediverse

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                                    Oh, wow. Thank you for a very good example for self-selection bias!

                                    Seriously, though: why is it that you feel this intense urge to dismiss any and everything I am saying? Don't you think that is a little bit sad that all you can do is this mindless pontification?

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                                      So because I posted cybersecurity standard practices, I don't understand privacy.

                                      Please explain your logic

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                                      Your username is incredibly apropos.

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                                      • S [email protected]

                                        And are you also clearing the logs at your ISP? If not, you're still being tracked. Even vpns are not as secure as people think they are. It's all trackable at some level.

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                                        #68

                                        So what you're saying is you don't know what a VPN is, gotcha.

                                        Maybe stop using the word then.

                                        The only person that knows the IP of my VPN is me because I built it and I am the only one who uses it, meaning my ISP doesn't even know its a VPN, and all the traffic is encrypted so it doesn't look any different than all the non-vpn cover traffic I create.

                                        Not even the hosting service knows its a VPN, and in any case my host doesn't keep logs of anything and is not subject to U.S. law

                                        If I was using a public VPN service? Yah I'd be compromised because the access list of every public VPN is constantly being monitored and every time a new IP range is added it is discovered and disseminated within minutes.

                                        So, tell me, I want to hear, how is it you think that I am being tracked. I'm genuinely curious.

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                                        • rglullis@communick.newsR [email protected]

                                          Oh, wow. Thank you for a very good example for self-selection bias!

                                          Seriously, though: why is it that you feel this intense urge to dismiss any and everything I am saying? Don't you think that is a little bit sad that all you can do is this mindless pontification?

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                                          I reply when I see absolutes such as "all communities on Lemmy are dead", "all mods are bad ", "all communities are about politics"

                                          It paints the platform in a bad light and it's not accurate.

                                          Don’t you think that is a little bit sad that all you can do is this mindless pontification?

                                          Another example of absolute.

                                          I help this platform grow by regularly posting and engaging with regular users.

                                          Stop using absolute statements and I'll stop replying.

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