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      If your relationships involve a "gut wrenching feeling 24/7" you might have other problems

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        You’re not supposed to have a gut wrenching feeling 24/7 when in a relationship.

        A relationship is a friend you do extra things with.

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          Op had a really bad relationship

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            Op had a really bad relationship

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            Never recovered at least thus far anyway

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              Never recovered at least thus far anyway

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              Honestly I get it, I've been single for 11 years now. I went through a series of toxic relationships and the last one broke me. After her I decided to take a break from dating a try to figure out why I kept attracting only toxic women.

              It's been 11 years and I still haven't figured it out, and now I'm in my 40's and don't really want to date again. What I'm trying to say is, take some time, heal, get your head straight, but get back out there sooner than later. It's easy to fall into the "I'm happier single" mindset, but difficult to get out of.

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                You’re not supposed to have a gut wrenching feeling 24/7 when in a relationship.

                A relationship is a friend you do extra things with.

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                Or, to bring Relational Anarchism to bear, a relationship is an ongoing interaction between people, sometimes even just with one's own self. Then, having established that a relationship exists, the participants of this relationship may choose to define said relationship using whatever terms and conditions they feel are fitting. And here's the clincher: nobody outside of the relationship gets to have any say in what ANY aspect of that relationship means. Friendship? That's literally got "ship" in it, but parenthood? Also a relationship. Professional, personal, inter-personal, monogamous, non-monogamous, poly, aromantic, FWB... All valid terms to use, and not a single one of them can possibly define a relationship by itself.

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                  If your relationships involve a "gut wrenching feeling 24/7" you might have other problems

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                  Clearly a euphemism for anal sex. Once or twice a day is fine, but 24/7 is far too much. I'd also be hiding in nature at that point

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                    jokes on you I have a gut wrenching feeling from being single

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