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Did you attend your parents' wedding?

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      As a younger sibling.. nah :3

      I wasn't a reason for my parents misery, just a consequence of it

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        No, they married only once, and it was before my time.

        But later, they attended my wedding.

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          That’s a nice way to ask if I’m a bastard. No, not the insult. Literally, someone born out of wedlock.

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            They never married.

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              I was around 20 years too late.

              They didn't attend mine either, as it happens, on the grounds that they too were "late" by then.

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                I was around 20 years too late.

                They didn't attend mine either, as it happens, on the grounds that they too were "late" by then.

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                Hey, this almost exactly matches my situation. Neat.

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                  No...? But I did the math correctly, and for a certain interpretation of "attend", I am a day too late.

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                    In a way I did: shotgun marriage, she was 4 months already

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                      I was 3 when I attended my parents' wedding. I guess I should note not my dad and birth mom.

                      I met my birth mom many years later. She stressed how she and my dad were briefly married when I was born, so I wasn't a bastard, and that she gave birth in FL, not MI — the only home I remembered — so I wasn't a damn Yankee. Like she did me some kindness in both those cases.

                      That was the attitude that led me to be quite happy with my circumstances — acting like I was in her debt over things I had no care over. So yeah, I attended the wedding of my dad and the only woman I'll ever call mom.

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                        Our son was 14 at our wedding, his bio-dad died when he was 3.

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                          Nope, that was 18 years before I was born.

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                            Yes, I'm the firstborn, but I was oneish when they got married, so I'm a bastard 😃

                            Also attended my mum's second wedding, about 7 years after her divorce from my dad. My mum and stepdad are still married 🥰

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                              The first wedding I ever attended was my father’s. The second ever was my mother’s. The third was mine.

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                                The first wedding I ever attended was my father’s. The second ever was my mother’s. The third was mine.

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                                Congratulations!

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                                  In China where my parents are from, people aren't supposed to have sex before marriage, so I couldn't possibly have been conceived before the marriage/wedding. Typical conservatism lol

                                  (Btw porn is illegal in like many area of the world, westerners are lucky to be able to enjoy... content... 🤭)

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                                    my parents were never married

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                                      My dad got remarried but I didn't attend that. Didn't see any point in honoring a ceremony that he already proved is meaningless.

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                                        My dad got remarried but I didn't attend that. Didn't see any point in honoring a ceremony that he already proved is meaningless.

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                                        Did he cheat on his first wife?

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                                          I would love to, but I wasn't born yet.

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