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Have you ever hired someone just because they were more attractive?

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    No, but I assume it's why I've got every job I've ever had

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      Only that one time I was self employed.

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        Being competent is sexy what can I say

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          I'm not a handsome man (not ugly either, I ain't complaining!), but I have been told I have a "friendly face", like the face of someone you know you can ask for help, and since I've only worked front desk jobs after my short time in the army, it probably helped.

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            No, but I assume it's why I've got every job I've ever had

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            When I was younger, definitely. There is one job I didn't get because one of the women in the panel immediately turned against me, so I suppose it had its downsides sometimes.

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              Not personally but my old manager certainly did. I really wish I had reported to HR but I was still new, early in my career and the company wasn't very corporate - HR was just a lady who was an early hire without any real credentials.

              He (my manager) would regularly hand CVs around the team to see if they were a good fit skill wise but would also search for (and print off!) any facebook photos he could find that showed skin. He almost exclusively looked for and hired women. He later got sacked for bullying and generally being very inappropriate.

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                I was responsible for hiring some folks for a commercial spot. So yes, I literally picked them out of a binder the company had based on looks. Then we slapped fake glasses and white coats on them to ugly them up into the world's sexiest scientists. That day felt like it could have easily turned into a porno set.

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                  I get a lot of jobs that I interview for because I'm a solid 5/10. Then they get to know me and it makes them think I lied to them about my qualifications but no, they just equated average-to-medium looks with competence and neurotypicality

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                    I get a lot of jobs that I interview for because I'm a solid 5/10. Then they get to know me and it makes them think I lied to them about my qualifications but no, they just equated average-to-medium looks with competence and neurotypicality

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                    hah ! malicious incompetence. love it

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                      hah ! malicious incompetence. love it

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                      Actually I'm just not good at things. Not even being malicious

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                        I've never hired anyone.

                        But I take it for granted that in any public-facing position, the attractiveness of the candidate for hire will play a role, since it will also play a role in their job performance later.

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                          Only that one time I was self employed.

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                          Me, looking in the mirror

                          You're too ugly to work here. You're fired!

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                            Actually I'm just not good at things. Not even being malicious

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                            Ugh can we swap? I'm so good at what I do, but the only jobs I ever get are when my credential speak for themselves so much that the interview is basically just 'ok let me summarise the job duties; now let me know by Monday if you'll take the job'. I'm not even ugly, just autistic and visibly queer.

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                              anecdotaly, all the guys who've been hired recently at our company have really nice butts, but I doubt it's intentional lol

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                                I was a bar manager and used to get a flood of applicants every time I needed to hire people. I wasn't particularly picky since I was always happy to train people up to my standards since I usually had to untrain bad habits anyways, so I would only schedule one interview at a time and generally just hired the first person I interviewed to save myself the work unless their vibes were off.

                                The one time I interviewed someone where I thought "damn he's hot asf", seemed nice, could answer my questions and he was experienced in the role, so I hired him on the spot. I have never had to fire someone so fast. Dude lost his shit at another bartender for bumping into him, I gave him a warning and told him it would be his only one. Shit happens, it's a tight space.

                                Then a customer that was smoking in the alley after we shut asked him a question as we were leaving and he said "why the fuck are you talking to me". Had to tell him not to bother coming in for his next shift...

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                                  Ugh can we swap? I'm so good at what I do, but the only jobs I ever get are when my credential speak for themselves so much that the interview is basically just 'ok let me summarise the job duties; now let me know by Monday if you'll take the job'. I'm not even ugly, just autistic and visibly queer.

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                                  How about I do your job interviews for you? then we like, hit em with "The Prince and the Pauper"

                                  Fuck, maybe that should be my life calling

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                                    Everyone who has ever hired an attractive person at least subconsciously let it effect their decision.

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                                      Everyone who has ever hired an attractive person at least subconsciously let it effect their decision.

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                                      I agree.

                                      I think people should change their names for similar reasons. If you want to get a certain job or whatnot, change your name as that is one of the strongest ways to create a similar bias. Like if I want to be an electrical engineer, change my name to Max Watts. I bet the bias that creates is equivocal; just on the edge of plausibly deniable consciousness.

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                                        I agree.

                                        I think people should change their names for similar reasons. If you want to get a certain job or whatnot, change your name as that is one of the strongest ways to create a similar bias. Like if I want to be an electrical engineer, change my name to Max Watts. I bet the bias that creates is equivocal; just on the edge of plausibly deniable consciousness.

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                                        I chose to wear glasses instead of contacts because people respect me more when I am wearing glasses.

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                                          I was a hiring manager for years and my store manager did this.

                                          First 2 weeks as i was getting to know the crew, i noticed they were all in high school, mostly women, and on the better looking side. Then as the months we on, he put me in charge of hiring and i actually hired based on skill and personality since that's what matters in retail.

                                          He always had the final "approval" interview and i could tell he never liked the smart ones or ones that weren't blonde and white. He refused to hire several of them till i reminded him we pay $9 an hour and we have to take ANYONE who is willing to work for such a poor wage.

                                          I'll never forget the last hire he did before i quit. He had this like 18 year old girl come in for an interview since she shopped in the store with her parents a couple days before. He hired her ON THE SPOT without consulting me and i wasn't happy. The VERY next day, her parents send us an email saying she had a complete mental breakdown and is in the psych hospital being treated.

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