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  • cactus_head@programming.devC [email protected]

    As some with ADHD, my interest fluantuats wildly. How does an average person choose a job thats suppose to be for life and not worry about loss of interest, let alone some with ADHD.

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    Wanted to be an officer in Navy. Ended up enlisted, in the engineering department as a mechanic. Got out and use those skills to fix ships as a civilian. Have had a couple other jobs outside of marine repair, but currently working in a ship repair facility.

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    • cactus_head@programming.devC [email protected]

      As some with ADHD, my interest fluantuats wildly. How does an average person choose a job thats suppose to be for life and not worry about loss of interest, let alone some with ADHD.

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      I found I could not make enough money in the profession I chose that I had a passion for and my interest also fluctuates wildly. I went into tech for better pay (at the time). Tech jobs very often do not last and I do not compromise on pay for anything I have done before but will for roles where I will be working with something new. Thats a bit tough in a time like now where the places are asking for the moon and paying minimally but anyway given the way tech is you can find yourself working with new things.

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      • cactus_head@programming.devC [email protected]

        As some with ADHD, my interest fluantuats wildly. How does an average person choose a job thats suppose to be for life and not worry about loss of interest, let alone some with ADHD.

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        How I chose:

        Look up something I love deeply on the US Bureau of Labor Statistics website, and then go to that most applicable job, then look at jobs that are related in some way and rabbit holed until something made a comfortable amount of money but also seemed interesting enough.

        Then I don't burn out on my passions and have a good paying job that's cool enough

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        • cactus_head@programming.devC [email protected]

          As some with ADHD, my interest fluantuats wildly. How does an average person choose a job thats suppose to be for life and not worry about loss of interest, let alone some with ADHD.

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          Lucked into it, kinda.

          I wanted to be an industrial designer, but there are only a few schools that offer that degree in my country and I didn't get in, because I didn't have the illustration skills.

          My fallback (a close 2nd) was to go into engineering, so that's what I initially went to university for. But I struggled with the calculus.
          During my time in engineering, we had to take a programming class, and I was really good at it (compared to my engineering classmates). So I switched my major from engineering to computer science.

          I graduated with my degree in computer science and I've been a coder ever since (last 15 years or so)

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          • cactus_head@programming.devC [email protected]

            As some with ADHD, my interest fluantuats wildly. How does an average person choose a job thats suppose to be for life and not worry about loss of interest, let alone some with ADHD.

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            Try a bunch of stuff, find something you don't hate and that pays enough to survive on. Try something new if you get bored. I've had quite a few different jobs, or the same job in vastly different places. Sometimes I like them and sometimes I don't.

            I remember taking a career quiz in high school (on scantron, lol) and being told I should be a librarian. I was so confused? It's been more than 25 years and I'm now thinking yeah, maybe that was the job for me lol.

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            • cactus_head@programming.devC [email protected]

              As some with ADHD, my interest fluantuats wildly. How does an average person choose a job thats suppose to be for life and not worry about loss of interest, let alone some with ADHD.

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              I like my job but I don't really think its the norm. I loved physiology and anatomy, bio based sciences and was watching a lot of House MD during my senior year of high school (interestingly enough, since then I never had interest in any medical shows ever anymore. Also house wasn't that great but HS me liked it).

              Chose nursing and was blessed to have always worked around others that actually fucking cared about patients. If working in other hospitals with more jaded or burnt out nurses im sure my experience would be different. Make money too while helping them navigate the current healthcare system. So good pay, nice coworkers, and interest in what I do. Likely never going to be laid off. Most people are not as fortunate.

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              • cactus_head@programming.devC [email protected]

                As some with ADHD, my interest fluantuats wildly. How does an average person choose a job thats suppose to be for life and not worry about loss of interest, let alone some with ADHD.

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                I took the first job I could get, and then when I was tired of that I took the next first job I could get.

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                • cactus_head@programming.devC [email protected]

                  As some with ADHD, my interest fluantuats wildly. How does an average person choose a job thats suppose to be for life and not worry about loss of interest, let alone some with ADHD.

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                  Needed a job in high school. Went to university and decided I didn’t want to be in the field I had chosen when I graduated. Focused on first job field and got very good at it. Moved up the ranks. Got an offer at a company in a different industry from a former peer and leap frogged to the next pay band while getting out of my 20 year industry.

                  My hobby is technology. I decided against going that route when in school as I didn’t want to kill my love for it. But that meant sticking with an industry I didn’t love for a long time. Found I love developing people through it all and management was my thing. Great news about that is people are people and managing them doesn’t change from industry to industry so I can go pretty much anywhere.

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                    stay focused

                    😅

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                    • cactus_head@programming.devC [email protected]

                      As some with ADHD, my interest fluantuats wildly. How does an average person choose a job thats suppose to be for life and not worry about loss of interest, let alone some with ADHD.

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                      Well, i knew how to build a computer relatively early in life. I was advised to go for a specific cert (security+), got it, got hired into a service desk role just about immediately (DoD), and I just kinda went from there i guess?

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                        I took the first job I could get, and then when I was tired of that I took the next first job I could get.

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                        This was me. New job every year, eventually stretching to every two years. Bonus is getting a pay rise each time.

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                        • cactus_head@programming.devC [email protected]

                          As some with ADHD, my interest fluantuats wildly. How does an average person choose a job thats suppose to be for life and not worry about loss of interest, let alone some with ADHD.

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                          I picked it because I was good at it, and there were multiple facets to expand to. I fell into a niche for a few years and then promoted to a generalist position where I am basically half department head and half principal engineer. I basically quit jobs every 2 years, and had a high track record of being hired back to the same teams I quit when I ran out of money.

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                            Well, i knew how to build a computer relatively early in life. I was advised to go for a specific cert (security+), got it, got hired into a service desk role just about immediately (DoD), and I just kinda went from there i guess?

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                            IT has a pretty simple pipeline that can be a lot more granular than a degree program. Early certs are not too difficult and their courses are much shorter than college or other programs. The tricky part is that getting past the "Hello, this is IT. Im here because you broke something" phase, without burning out. You really need to specialize or market yourself as a subject matter expert, the path becomes much more (and less) defined by certs.

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                            • cactus_head@programming.devC [email protected]

                              As some with ADHD, my interest fluantuats wildly. How does an average person choose a job thats suppose to be for life and not worry about loss of interest, let alone some with ADHD.

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                              Dropped out of college. Parents said DO SOMETHING OR MOVE OUT. I needed the whip cracked in all fairness. Went to school to become a stengroapher. Burned through the program, been doing it for 17 years now.

                              I was more concerned about AI before AI really showed up, and now I'm okay.

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                                IT has a pretty simple pipeline that can be a lot more granular than a degree program. Early certs are not too difficult and their courses are much shorter than college or other programs. The tricky part is that getting past the "Hello, this is IT. Im here because you broke something" phase, without burning out. You really need to specialize or market yourself as a subject matter expert, the path becomes much more (and less) defined by certs.

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                                Yup, its pretty straightforward. Biggest thing holding me back IMO is lack of foundational knowledge of both scripting logic and networking. I can do CLI interaction just fine but trying to write out a cohesive script I just fall flat on my face. In my last job everyone could (and did) script circles around me.

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                                • cactus_head@programming.devC [email protected]

                                  As some with ADHD, my interest fluantuats wildly. How does an average person choose a job thats suppose to be for life and not worry about loss of interest, let alone some with ADHD.

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                                  Job hopped until I settled into something I finally enjoy.

                                  I highly recommend making a good impression and being a team player. About half of my jobs came from recommendations from people I had worked with at other jobs.

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                                  • zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zoneZ [email protected]

                                    Yup, its pretty straightforward. Biggest thing holding me back IMO is lack of foundational knowledge of both scripting logic and networking. I can do CLI interaction just fine but trying to write out a cohesive script I just fall flat on my face. In my last job everyone could (and did) script circles around me.

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                                    The advice I have on the scripting practice is to just do home lab stuff. A bucket of pis or a few VMs to get something working where your not afraid to break things. (Im not good at it either, but practice is the key takeaway).

                                    As for the networking, they got certs for that, and said home lab will make applying your new skills easier until you find them relavent for an employer.

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                                      As some with ADHD, my interest fluantuats wildly. How does an average person choose a job thats suppose to be for life and not worry about loss of interest, let alone some with ADHD.

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                                      I guess I kind of got lucky.

                                      I always liked computers, and I like solving problems. Got hired as a database administrator for a small research center in a large university.

                                      I've changed jobs a couple times over the years (decades, actually). As it turns out, computer nerds who like to solve problems are valuable, and I've been generally left alone to solve problems ever since.

                                      Current leadership team doesn't want to solve problems or work more efficiently now because if you depend on one person to make the team more efficient, and that one person leaves, you'll have to hire someone to replace him.

                                      So instead, you just hire 10 people for the same pay to do the extra work they have to do when you don't have someone making everything easier.

                                      Oh well.

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                                        Dropped out of college. Parents said DO SOMETHING OR MOVE OUT. I needed the whip cracked in all fairness. Went to school to become a stengroapher. Burned through the program, been doing it for 17 years now.

                                        I was more concerned about AI before AI really showed up, and now I'm okay.

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                                        I was more concerned about AI before AI really showed up, and now I'm okay.

                                        HA!

                                        "Oh no! AI is gonna replace us!"

                                        "Here's the AI."

                                        "Um... Ok, never mind. I'm fine."

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                                        • cactus_head@programming.devC [email protected]

                                          As some with ADHD, my interest fluantuats wildly. How does an average person choose a job thats suppose to be for life and not worry about loss of interest, let alone some with ADHD.

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                                          Mostly due to necessity but my wife told me I should consider psychology so I'm now in training to work in the field. I think I'm a natural at talk-therapy, at least compared to most other things I've tried, lol, so I can only thank her for the recommendation and support. It was either that or philosophy, but I couldn't properly think on how to monetize it. 🤷

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