We really don't want to talk about our problems
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See but I had a psychiatrist as a kid that would literally report what I said to my mother (and not like harming others or myself like is legally required, just like, shit that I said I didn't like about my mom and then he'd tell her and she'd punish me about it.) Legally, he was allowed to do that since I was a child, I'm not now and so legally they can't even if they had her phone number, but now I can't trust them even if that distrust is slightly illogical. Double distrust due to incentive to make me return and keep paying, but y'know the childhood "trauma" (if you can call it that) of having it weaponized against me using the therapist is still there on that one too.
Reminds me of the plot line in early seasons of Mad Men where Betty would go to a shrink, then later that night Don would call the doc to see what all Betty said.
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To be fair we were breed to be lost at sea/forest/steppe, not live in a modern society. Like that's our natural place to live and die, not a city.
We’re not homo naledi. We’ve been living in increasingly modern societies forever, and definitely long enough for it to be more natural to us as a species than shitting in bushes and dying of dysentery.
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29 days "lost" at sea, is therapy for all of the external bullshit we deal with every fucking day.
By "we" I mean people in society, not just men. Everyone struggles with making their way in "this world" we built for ourselves. We made it to be this horrible.
When I was deployed it was nice, I didn't have bullshit to worry about. I did my job, I ate, I took shits, and I slept.
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I don't know many people that can afford a 29 day vacation (I'm in the US, and yes I'm jealous of what I hear about European benefits)
wrote on last edited by [email protected]I was mostly joking
But also here I am with 35 paid vacation days (I also have maybe 13 paid days of parental leave left, which was initially 210 days, per child).10/10 would recommend being born here.
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Quit crying. You'll be fine. Don't be such a crybaby. Man up. Put on your big boy pants. Boys don't cry. Boo hoo, gonna cry about it? Gonna cry like a little girl? Be a man. Face your problems like a man. Crying doesn't help anything. Take it like a man. Don't be a baby. You're acting like a girl. Grow a pair. Suck it up and move on.
Why will men do literally anything besides talk about their feelings?
There's a community here on lemmy to counter that.
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It sounds like you're telling me to stop caring about climate change cause I'd be happier
Oh geez, no sorry, I’m not telling anyone to stop caring about anything, and def not something like climate change. I'm just some idiot on the internet lol, not anyone who should be telling others how to live their lives.
I was just trying to explain that therapy, again good therapy, can help people find peace, let go when they need to, or figure out how to carry the things they care about without being crushed by them.
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Is this about his mental health, or just about his shit working conditions?
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A cursory glance implies a decent canoe starts at $2000, so my bank account is stopping me, at bare minimum
Your ethical choice to not just steal it is the only thing stopping you.
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Your ethical choice to not just steal it is the only thing stopping you.
wrote on last edited by [email protected]I think we're gonna have to call this one a skill issue actually, as I don't think I can discretely put a canoe into my pocket so I'm not sure how you expect me to actually get from canoe acquisition to open seas without arrest.
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Non heteronormative women are absolutely encouraged to die.
5150 holds (local code, idk how local) are like a rite of passage.
What is a 5150 hold exactly and how is it relevant? It seems it's a California thing, and I don't live in or have ever visited Los Estados Unidos.
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What is a 5150 hold exactly and how is it relevant? It seems it's a California thing, and I don't live in or have ever visited Los Estados Unidos.
Right. 72 hour involuntary inpatient suicide hold
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Right. 72 hour involuntary inpatient suicide hold
What does this have to do with gay women?
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What does this have to do with gay women?
I think i already answered that, feel free to scroll up!
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I think i already answered that, feel free to scroll up!
No you didn't. You said they were a rite of passage which doesn't make sense. Are you capable of explaining what on earth your talking about?
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No you didn't. You said they were a rite of passage which doesn't make sense. Are you capable of explaining what on earth your talking about?
wrote last edited by [email protected]are you capable of
Probably. Are you capable of figuring it out?
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are you capable of
Probably. Are you capable of figuring it out?
Are you trying to say that gay women get put on suicide holds for illegitimate reasons? If so why not just say that and stop being an ableist arsehole?
