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The best thing you can do for the fediverse is just be kind

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  • cris_color@lemmy.worldC [email protected]

    The fediverse is small, and thats both a blessing and a curse - one of its several blessings is that in a smaller space we all individually have a bigger impact on what the culture of this space is like.

    On this comm (and on lemmy broadly) there's a lot of discussion about how to grow the fediverse, what to improve, but an easy thing you can do for the fediverse is right in front of us-

    • Be kind

    • Ask people what they think, and why

    • Approach folks you disagree with with curiosity rather than hostility

    • Engage sincerely

    • Ask yourself if there's something nice you can say

    • Make this small space worth being in

    A platform lives or dies by what's available on said platform and often we have this conversation in the context of "content" or posts - and we may never have as much content as reddit does. But content and posts aren't the only thing this kind of platform offers- it also offers people. It offers community, and human interaction.

    Culture and community is lemmy and the fediverse's biggest differentiator, and we all have a role to play in shaping the culture of this space.

    The biggest thing you can do to help the fediverse is make it a place worth being.

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    Okay I agree, so let's start from Linux related any post, tell them if somebody asks a problem don't tell them just install mint , or how one is crazy because they are facing the problems in Linux or if you are not using Linux what idiot are you.
    I stopped participating because

    1. Linux dude bros are just idiots troubling me
    2. I can't find content which is though not niche is just is plain not news or Linux
    3. It's very confusing to use fedverse as I don't know of i can go all subs via my boost app or do i need something else , if so where to access them.

    So let's make it ACCESSIBLE, NON DERAGORTY FOR ANON LINUX USERS ALSO

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      Yes -- you should definetely segment away politics from some parts of your life. You should not fully disengage with it, but take a breather every now and then. Go for a walk, talk with some people about a hobby you enjoy despite your differences or just take a prolonged toilet break.

      I find it infinitely exhausting that it seems like everything online these days evolves into a political discussion. I recently saw someone asking about how they can make more time for reading in their day -- someone mentioned that they read in the morning when working from home to have their morning coffee. And someone barged in and were like "Oh MuSt Be NiCE to HAve ThE TiMe FOR ThaT! No, soMe of Us Have To CommUTE 2 HouRS each way DaiLY BeCAuSe Of LAte StAGe CaPItalisM". And then it evolved into some revolutionary eat the rich stuff from there -- which i for the most part can follow.

      But it was a post about asking how to make more time for reading... How did it end up with revolution? I personally believe the main problem with injecting politics into everything is that it becomes predictable and bland. Just like my example above. It's an interesting discussion for sure! But perhaps don't force it down everyone's throat all the time. It's like that friend who has a hobby that they just wont stop talking about all. the. fucking. time. It dissolves the seriousness of the discussion and makes other people tired of it.

      Again, i'm not saying abstain or fully disengage from politics. But for gods sake, let people take a break every now and then if they're able to do so, and for five minutes just focus on something joyful eventho everything is going to shit at the moment.

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      Strawman from 'we shouldn't segment away politics' to 'we must inject politics positively everywhere.

      Intellectual dishonesty at its finest.

      What a great reason to block feddit.dk

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      • cris_color@lemmy.worldC [email protected]

        1 billion percent agree, not everyone you disagree with is acting in bad faith

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        when you're dealing with fundamentalists or extremists things turn nasty very quickly because you're questioning their fantasy world

        doesn't matter if they're good or bad faith, often they will just ban you

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          Strawman from 'we shouldn't segment away politics' to 'we must inject politics positively everywhere.

          Intellectual dishonesty at its finest.

          What a great reason to block feddit.dk

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          Wait how? I'm not sure i follow - if i committed such a stupid mistake i'm genuinely interested in understanding how 🙂 Btw don't block feddit.dk it's just a danish focused instance with a lot of kind folks 🙂

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            I'll add: "be supportive and helpful if you can, and just shut up if you can't".

            Fediverse is sometimes suffering from the same kind of people that Linux has - "oh you have a problem? Well, here's the GitHub repo and a project Wiki, figure it out".

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            RTFM is always a good strategy, the manual/wiki/source code will almost always have more info than a comment can reasonably contain.

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              MAGA wasn't formed until 2016, the party was much different before Trump. But who cares I guess. It seems people just want to hate the other side here. Which is no better than them.

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              It really wasn't different before Trump, it was just a little more articulate in its rhetoric.

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                I'm just going to ask you a question. Do you think Mitt Romney was a fascist?

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                Not them, but yes, absolutely

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                  Lemmy.ml and lemmy.world are infested with tankies though. It is probably going to make me leave Lemmy. I've already started to discourage people in my life from joining because of how bad political and technological communities are.

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                  Lol. How fucking faaaaar right do you have to be to consider .world tankie.

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                    they're not capable of self reflection

                    You missed the part where I said it is for the readers, not the cultists. It is not about convincing these ideologues, it is to warn the readers why the ideas of these cultists are bad.

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                    If you look at their past interactions with "tankies", they're all the opposite of what you say they should be: it's the "tankie" calmly and reasonably making their points while SoftestSaphic immediately descends into an incoherent raging tantrum.

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                      You will never be accepted in this space no matter how many alt accounts you make to downvote people.

                      This isn't reddit you fascist, your tactics don't work here.

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                      Calling an admin an alt account is a bold play.

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                        You will never be accepted in this space no matter how many alt accounts you make to downvote people.

                        This isn't reddit you fascist, your tactics don't work here.

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                        Calling an admin an alt account is a bold play.

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                        • cris_color@lemmy.worldC [email protected]

                          The fediverse is small, and thats both a blessing and a curse - one of its several blessings is that in a smaller space we all individually have a bigger impact on what the culture of this space is like.

                          On this comm (and on lemmy broadly) there's a lot of discussion about how to grow the fediverse, what to improve, but an easy thing you can do for the fediverse is right in front of us-

                          • Be kind

                          • Ask people what they think, and why

                          • Approach folks you disagree with with curiosity rather than hostility

                          • Engage sincerely

                          • Ask yourself if there's something nice you can say

                          • Make this small space worth being in

                          A platform lives or dies by what's available on said platform and often we have this conversation in the context of "content" or posts - and we may never have as much content as reddit does. But content and posts aren't the only thing this kind of platform offers- it also offers people. It offers community, and human interaction.

                          Culture and community is lemmy and the fediverse's biggest differentiator, and we all have a role to play in shaping the culture of this space.

                          The biggest thing you can do to help the fediverse is make it a place worth being.

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                          Best I can do is rewind.

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                            Watch it, bub!

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                            Don't call me bub, guy!

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                              I just hope people won't turn it into another 4chan

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                              as long as lemmygrad or hexbear don't become urban terrorists

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                                These days everyone who is not ultra-left easily gets labelled as Nazi, similarly everyone who brings up any rather left argument will be called a woke snowflake.

                                What the hell are you smoking? Have you turned on the news? Paid attention to politicians? Check in with how exactly companies chose to sustain and expand DEI (A <- where did the accessibility go we wonder?) after Trump and DOGE attacked it?

                                You are so wrong, if the universe repeated at the edge of itself like in the old Asteroids arcade game, you would have long ago crossed into Very Right by slamming straight past the most extreme extent of Completely Wrong.

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                                Wow, keep your emotions at bay, will you?

                                Not even sure what to respond, except for what I wrote previously: A lot of discourse is broken by calling people whatever and not listening.

                                You are somewhat setting an example of what I am talking about, since I am not even disagreeing with the opinion that I am infering from your writing.

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                                • cris_color@lemmy.worldC [email protected]

                                  The fediverse is small, and thats both a blessing and a curse - one of its several blessings is that in a smaller space we all individually have a bigger impact on what the culture of this space is like.

                                  On this comm (and on lemmy broadly) there's a lot of discussion about how to grow the fediverse, what to improve, but an easy thing you can do for the fediverse is right in front of us-

                                  • Be kind

                                  • Ask people what they think, and why

                                  • Approach folks you disagree with with curiosity rather than hostility

                                  • Engage sincerely

                                  • Ask yourself if there's something nice you can say

                                  • Make this small space worth being in

                                  A platform lives or dies by what's available on said platform and often we have this conversation in the context of "content" or posts - and we may never have as much content as reddit does. But content and posts aren't the only thing this kind of platform offers- it also offers people. It offers community, and human interaction.

                                  Culture and community is lemmy and the fediverse's biggest differentiator, and we all have a role to play in shaping the culture of this space.

                                  The biggest thing you can do to help the fediverse is make it a place worth being.

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                                  Tell that to the people who make a dozen sockpuppet accounts to insult me just because I disagreed with them.

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                                    Lol. How fucking faaaaar right do you have to be to consider .world tankie.

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                                    Keep spouting that tankie rhetoric. "Anyone who calls me out for my similarities to MAGA surely are the far right ones!" Lmao

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                                      Keep spouting that tankie rhetoric. "Anyone who calls me out for my similarities to MAGA surely are the far right ones!" Lmao

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                                      Least incoherent anti-communist

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                                        If you look at their past interactions with "tankies", they're all the opposite of what you say they should be: it's the "tankie" calmly and reasonably making their points while SoftestSaphic immediately descends into an incoherent raging tantrum.

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                                        Every time I engage with you tankies it results in mockery, lies, trolling, genocidal denial, intolerance, and pushing mostly Russian propaganda. You really aren't welcome here.

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                                          Lol. How fucking faaaaar right do you have to be to consider .world tankie.

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                                          Oh and I keep getting comments removed by mods just for calling out a tankie, but sure lemmy.world isn't infested with y'all.

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