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What's your creative solution to solve the loneliness epidemic?

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    Lets cap the population of cities to 10 000 and make everyone live in a small town.

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    1000 even, humans suck when the repercussions of their actions aren't immediately known and actionable by everyone around them.

    You're a lot less likely to get away with ripping someone off if your grocery store clerk and the local restaurant server will literally kick your ass to the curb when they find out.

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      Mandatory copulation every 14 hours.

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        My shitpost response is that I personally plan to be sluttier.

        My serious response is that social media needs to be more social.
        I hate Facebook because it’s just an advertising platform, but I don’t know what is going on if I avoid it. I wish there was a way to just share social calendars with all my friends. Like - I want a group tracker that one-click adds stuff that I find interesting. I want to only see stuff certain folks have added to their tracker, and have the ability to share with folks what stuff I’m sharing to share, vs what I’m sharing because I’m actually going to attend something. Make it easy to connect with folks, not advertisers.

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          Be comfortable being alone.

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            AI would be a good matchmaker between people who were honest, but I think that doesn't address the main problem with online dating. That problem (at least for heterosexuals) is that there are a lot more men than women participating. I think women don't like online dating because they get harassed by creeps and they're worried that even someone who seems nice will turn out to be a creep in real life. Creeps will be willing to lie to a matchmaking AI because they don't actually care about compatibility and just want the "one weird trick" that gets women to have sex with them.

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            Creeps are a problem for more than just women. I downloaded Scruff, a gay dating app, a few weeks ago and the very first interaction I had on there was a guy starting off the interaction asking about my genitals (🚩, but I tactfully disclose being trans in my profile...) and immediately after I explained he asked for pictures. And my profile says I don't do pics.

            Some men just suck.

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              For starters, Ubi, and then expansive and free public transit for all and accessible for all including disabled people, more free places to just go and exist, no facism and more community. That's just for the beginning though

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                Mandatory copulation every 14 hours.

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                  a government dating app that has no algorythm, no payment, punishes mass scrollers, and has a ton of admins who actually ban the idiots out. we have the technology, but its all enshitificated.

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                    a government dating app that has no algorythm, no payment, punishes mass scrollers, and has a ton of admins who actually ban the idiots out. we have the technology, but its all enshitificated.

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                    This would work approximately as well as all the current apps. The people you want to date are either already in relationships, date without using the apps, aren't dating right now, or simply don't want to date you because you aren't their type or aren't good enough for them. The idea that the evil corporations know exactly who your perfect match is and are keeping them from you is a fantasy. The fact is, dating apps don't work for most people because most people don't put the effort in to present themselves well and put themselves out there.

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                      My shitpost response is that I personally plan to be sluttier.

                      My serious response is that social media needs to be more social.
                      I hate Facebook because it’s just an advertising platform, but I don’t know what is going on if I avoid it. I wish there was a way to just share social calendars with all my friends. Like - I want a group tracker that one-click adds stuff that I find interesting. I want to only see stuff certain folks have added to their tracker, and have the ability to share with folks what stuff I’m sharing to share, vs what I’m sharing because I’m actually going to attend something. Make it easy to connect with folks, not advertisers.

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                      Then make it. Everyone fucking hates Facebook, the time is now!

                      Also, I'm totally on board with the slut strategy. From a utilitarian perspective, I'm making the world a better place one orgasm at a time

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                        Walkable neighborhoods with affordable places to hang out.

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                          Just have a war. Nothing brings people together like necessity and shared trauma.

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                            Is it too harsh to say to outside and interact with people?

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                              The reason there were mountain men in the old days is that they appreciated nature and they didn't feel alone though they often were. It's not that hard to rekindle that feeling you only have to work at it a little. I was taking walks in the woods back when I was in grade school and I seldom feel alone though it's harder to feel like that in a city.

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                                We turn the Internet off at the weekends

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                                  Is it too harsh to say to outside and interact with people?

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                                  it's lethally hot outside

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                                    Just have a war. Nothing brings people together like necessity and shared trauma.

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                                    Don't worry, that war isn't far off.

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                                      a government dating app that has no algorythm, no payment, punishes mass scrollers, and has a ton of admins who actually ban the idiots out. we have the technology, but its all enshitificated.

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                                      There are at least 2 open source dating apps that I've seen, although one of them has 4chan branding. Not sure about the other.

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                                        We turn the Internet off at the weekends

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                                        Please no

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                                          Nationalizing dating sites.

                                          These sites work great to match people when corpos aren't allowed to fuck with the algorithms

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