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Seriously what's that idea?

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  • P [email protected]

    This isn't about me, this is about what people from persecuted minorities have told me they need, when I bought this exact argument to them.

    I used to say what you're saying them they described to be the harassment that they face

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    This isn’t about me, this is about what people from persecuted minorities have told me they need, when I bought this exact argument to them.

    The same arguments apply, though.

    Your version of blocking doesn't exactly handle the problem you're describing well, either, as someone wishing to spread hate or "off-screen harassment" can block their direct target which, under the model, will mean they can't see it, and then post.

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    • R [email protected]

      That's why I love Voyager for mobile viewing. Not sure the feature's exclusivity, but you can tag people and add up or downvotes to their accounts total. For instance, you were at +70 upvotes from me. But if I didn't like you, I could add a tag to your account with why or whatever, and add -1000, effectively highlighting, for me, how much less I enjoy your input compared to others. It doesn't hide their bullshit but makes it super obvious who sucks complete ass!

      Along the vein of blocking, I like how lemmy does it. I can see the block person left a comment and choose to read it or ignore it.

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      And its on froid

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      • nichehervielleicht@feddit.orgN [email protected]

        Thanks that's useful!

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        You're +8 for me!

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        • F [email protected]

          Blocking someone is not a tool to silence them. It's a tool to ignore them.

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          I think communicating that someone is blocked is a useful part of blocking. Even if it's just a notification after comment "you have a blocked reply, it will not be visible to the poster".

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          • B [email protected]

            Bluesky differentiates between blocking and muting. Bluesky blocking is like what you describe, which is also how Reddit blocking works. Bluesky muting is like Lemmy blocking, where they can engage on your posts, you just won't see it.

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            However bluesky is not decentralized. This is handled by their appview, which other bluesky clients might change

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            • D [email protected]

              You're +8 for me!

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              And you cook better than you insult!

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              • nichehervielleicht@feddit.orgN [email protected]

                And you cook better than you insult!

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                That could be. I guess I've got a tag!

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                  That's why I love Voyager for mobile viewing. Not sure the feature's exclusivity, but you can tag people and add up or downvotes to their accounts total. For instance, you were at +70 upvotes from me. But if I didn't like you, I could add a tag to your account with why or whatever, and add -1000, effectively highlighting, for me, how much less I enjoy your input compared to others. It doesn't hide their bullshit but makes it super obvious who sucks complete ass!

                  Along the vein of blocking, I like how lemmy does it. I can see the block person left a comment and choose to read it or ignore it.

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                  How do you do that? I'm on voyager and didn't know about this. I would love tags

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                  • F [email protected]

                    Blocking someone is not a tool to silence them. It's a tool to ignore them.

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                    A block should also be able to prevent them from seeing your activity. That would not constitute silencing the blocked individual as they can still go anywhere and talk to/see anyone else on the fediverse, just not you.

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                    • P [email protected]

                      I'm generally trying to go off of a conversation I had with someone 2 years ago in lemmy. I was generally of the opposite opinion to my current stance, and they explained how the current "everything is public, dont even try to hide it from people" stance is problematic to persecuted minorities. It was 2 years ago so I'm a bit fuzzy on the details - I had to go look it up because someone didnt believe that the conversation even existed, but i didnt re-read the whole comment section.

                      their point was that, while total privacy in a federated service is likely impossible, you want to make it non-trivial for harassers to do harassment.

                      reporting is absolutely more appropriate than blocking, but blocking has a few advantages:

                      1. its immediate, you dont need to wait for mods/admin.
                      2. you don't need to prove to an admin that something that the harasser said about you is actually a lie.
                      3. mods/admins don't need to be up-to-date on all the current dogwhistles
                      4. it doesn't need to actually affect the harasser beyond you. they dont need to get banned from the whole community or instance, unless the community or instance feels like they should be. its lower impact. This is important for lemmy communities that represent real communities, like classes or teams or neighborhoods.
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                      If you can't see the replies how can you possibly be harassed by it?

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                        Someone else in this thread pointed out that this would just encourage bad actors to make sock puppet accounts to get around being blocked.

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                        • P [email protected]

                          How is "not letting you see what I personally wrote" consider to be "unilaterally silencing you" ?
                          What a mind bogglingly disingenuous response.

                          I'm not saying that the reddit style block is good.
                          I'm saying that the current "mute" style block hangs vulnerable people out to dry.

                          I'm ok trying something else, like maybe what you suggested.

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                          So say someone is a raging bigot. You rely on regular users to flag up things that cross the line for moderators to deal with and correct the record when they lie or post stuff without context eg to provide a balanced perspective. Unless they have blocked most of the active users who would be liable to do these things.

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                          • F [email protected]

                            Blocking someone is not a tool to silence them. It's a tool to ignore them.

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                            Yeah, by blocking them you are saying YOU don't want to see their posts. That doesn't mean you get to make that decision for everyone else. I don't see the problem here.

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                            • D [email protected]

                              That could be. I guess I've got a tag!

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                              But I know what I mean, have a good day!

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                              • L [email protected]

                                This is seriously excellent. Now I can tell who downvoted my comments. I had even previously tried to look through the public lemmy API to see if I could find this information. Thank you!

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                                Yeah, yw, it's very cool. Donate to the author!

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                                • jumping_redditor@sh.itjust.worksJ [email protected]

                                  that's fully expected, if you don't want to see someone's posts why would you be able to moderate those posts?

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                                  When you click on a report, it should bypass any block, it doesn't.

                                  This isn't organically viewing a post, it's responding to a report and it is visible when reported.

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                                  • A [email protected]

                                    A block should also be able to prevent them from seeing your activity. That would not constitute silencing the blocked individual as they can still go anywhere and talk to/see anyone else on the fediverse, just not you.

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                                    No, I don't think that would be good. So for example if there was a guy who thought we should all be eating lead. And every time he posts you put up facts about how eating lead was poisonous. And then the lead guy blocked you. Then every time the lead guy posts about how everyone should eat lead, you wouldn't see it and so you wouldn't be able to reply with how lead is poisonous.

                                    So if the lead guy blocked everyone who disagreed with him publicly. Then the lead guy can just post whatever they want and no who knew lead was poisonous would reply because they wouldn't see the post. So others who didn't know lead was poisonous would start seeing this guy posting about eating lead without being challenged. And so they might think it's a good thing.

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                                    • L [email protected]

                                      Yeah, by blocking them you are saying YOU don't want to see their posts. That doesn't mean you get to make that decision for everyone else. I don't see the problem here.

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                                      I never had a twitter account, but made a bsky account just to support people moving away from there even though I'd them they move to mastodon.

                                      Anyway, I saw a post claiming a certain fetish term was now forbidden because it was being used a slur. I commented that I've only ever heard it used to refer to a real person when the person in question was using it to describe themselves. I got some positive responses, but the ended up getting blocked from replying when they disagreed with me. Can 3rd parties see blocks or did it just look like I chickened out?

                                      I didn't care for that and I think these little "features" of twitter that people have gotten use to has twisted how to interact with other people. On reddit or lemmy, the topic is the main focus and the people managing the topic should be the only ones who control what gets said there. With twitter and bsky, the opening post is the main focus and they get control of what gets said. I prefer the former over that latter.

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                                      • R [email protected]

                                        Someone else in this thread pointed out that this would just encourage bad actors to make sock puppet accounts to get around being blocked.

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                                        Bad actors already do that.

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                                        • nichehervielleicht@feddit.orgN [email protected]

                                          They shouldn't be able to do that!

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                                          I'm more annoyed by losing the "Block Community" button when a sub's admin blocks me.

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