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USUAL in your country but NOT anywhere else.

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  • bruncvik@lemmy.worldB [email protected]

    Thanking the bus drivers when exiting the bus.

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    Happens where I live in Denmark

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      In Canada, people do not run from the rain... if they are out and about and it starts raining, they just ignore it, they don't walk faster, rarely improvise coverage, etc

      In Venezuela, my country of origin, people run from the rain like it's lava falling from the sky

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      When I visited London (around the year 2000), I noticed that every man walking in the streets either wore a hat or carried an umbrella.

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        Ireland?

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        Got it in one 🙂

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        • routhinator@startrek.websiteR [email protected]

          Poutine.

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          Poutine should be normal everywhere and I am devastated that it's not.

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          • bruncvik@lemmy.worldB [email protected]

            Thanking the bus drivers when exiting the bus.

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            i always have, even as a grade school kid--back then the bus rides to and from school were so long, i saw the bus driver more on school days than my family.

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            • bruncvik@lemmy.worldB [email protected]

              Thanking the bus drivers when exiting the bus.

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              Depends on the bus type though. A lot of buses have a rear door, and sometimes it's kinda rude to go out through the front when there's a lot of people coming in through the front. So then you end up leaving through the rear and it would be awkward to shout 'Thank you!' to the driver, over everyone's head.

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                Damn i just heard one person doing that today first time in my life..

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                That's a lot of thanks. It's in a highly populated city.

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                • starlinguk@lemmy.worldS [email protected]

                  They don't protect you against the sun, unless you've got one with a special layer on it.

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                  Sri Lankan sun burns should change your mind.

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                  • princessnorah@lemmy.blahaj.zoneP [email protected]

                    Kangaroos littering the side of the road (they have about 4 neurones and all of then are suicidal)

                    To be fair to them, cutting across the path of a predator is pretty effective right up until the predator is a two-tonne death machine.

                    Walking down the street at night. In the UK and USA it was apparently just not a thing you did. Here I will walk home at 2am no worries, and tonnes of people walk home from the pub drunk enough to not always make it home and sometimes just pass out on the footpath. Never had a problem, never been mugged or similar in that situation, and after living in the UK and visiting the USA I can definitely say I would never do that there.

                    Still pretty dangerous for women, I've gotten plenty of harassment at night. But definitely far safer than the US.

                    People do talk about politics and religion here, but not with random people and not in public. If someone isn't interested you are generally going to back off quickly and leave it be. Religion and politics are mostly private and the few people who do talk tend to not be too intense about it. Certainly most don't become a registered Labor or Liberal party member with the group identity associated. It is much more loosely held and less culturally relevant.

                    I think it depends. People are still fairly likely to talk about what they think is a "fair go", and we've had some massive political protests lately. But it feels like each party has to meet in the middle a lot more, so stuff isn't as polarising, and things that are don't get talked about as openly.

                    Also in the US they have to register for a party when they register to vote. Feels like they heard about the concept of the secret ballot from us and then just failed completely on the execution.

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                    Most states in the US don't require you to register for a party, although there are some that do.

                    Also, there are places in the US that are incredibly safe, but most of the big cities are not. But the US is very large and diverse.

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                    • slvrdrgn@lemmy.worldS [email protected]

                      Depends on the bus type though. A lot of buses have a rear door, and sometimes it's kinda rude to go out through the front when there's a lot of people coming in through the front. So then you end up leaving through the rear and it would be awkward to shout 'Thank you!' to the driver, over everyone's head.

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                      It was like this in the Bay Area when I lived there, like in Alameda county at least. People exited at the rear doors and gave a thank you to the driver. Became a habit for me.
                      I moved to Norway a few years ago and absent-mindedly said “Takk!” as I exited and I was quickly educated that, we don’t do that here.

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                        what is that you usually do or see in your country or area but is weird to do in other area you have traveled or vice versa??
                        like it is unusual to wear footwear indoors in asia.

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                        Congratulate everyone with someone else's birthday. Netherlands.

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                          Germany: Workers have rights, and can go to court easily if needed.

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                          You're not alone in that, sincerely, a dutchie

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                          • slvrdrgn@lemmy.worldS [email protected]

                            Depends on the bus type though. A lot of buses have a rear door, and sometimes it's kinda rude to go out through the front when there's a lot of people coming in through the front. So then you end up leaving through the rear and it would be awkward to shout 'Thank you!' to the driver, over everyone's head.

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                            In Dublin, everyone would enter and leave via the front door. Only Covid changed that, and drivers started opening the second doors in the middle of the bus. Still, people are used to exit through the front, or shout their thank-yous from the other door.

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                            • princessnorah@lemmy.blahaj.zoneP [email protected]

                              Switzerland has more guns per capita.

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                              27.6 per 100 people vs US, which is 120.5. Where are you sourcing that from?

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                              • salamencefury@lemmy.worldS [email protected]

                                Abundance of guns does not indicate that the country is more prone to violence, though. Switzerland has significantly laxer laws on who can own a gun than over 20 US states, EVERYONE is obligated to own a fully automatic SG550 from their military service, and a vibrant gun culture, and yet, no one's going around shooting people. It's a result of right wing extremism, decades of propaganda running on people's TVs, toxic right wing gun culture that is not countered by responsible gun culture from the left because liberals hate guns (and only because it became a problem for them after school shootings became common), and the refusal of government to address those issues. To add to that, white liberals literally take over ANY gun control talk and make it about their white feelings. That's exactly what's happening here with you. Despite minorities being the lead in support for gun control, we literally do NOT ever get to talk about our experiences. The only thing that matters in gun control discussions is white liberals putting their feelings and their feelings ONLY in the table, and advocating for assault weapon bans (which wouldn't matter), universal background checks (that already exist) and "common sense gun control" (which they change the definition every time to suit what they think). And liberal politicians also add fuel to the fire by EXCLUDING COPS FROM CERTAIN BANS and giving them more and more budget to "fight crime" every year.

                                There is no such thing as a "mass shooting problem" because it literally kills less people per year than GETTING STRUCK BY LIGHTNING. The media turns every single one of those into a spectacle and that's why the majority of people think it's such a problem. Police violence, on the other hand, is NOT statistically insignificant, and especially not for POC. After the assassination of the UHC CEO, the media literally turned every other time a CEO died into just a damn footnote, BECAUSE THEY DID NOT WANT COPYCATS. The media can stop making those mass shootings a spectacle, but they won't, because IT GIVES THEM MONEY.

                                The gun control movement has a HUGE problem with white supremacy, including from people who THINK they're not being racist, and then proceed to support liberal politicians with tough on crime policies who give 12 gorillion dollars to the cops of big cities so they can purchase MRAPs, IFVs, fully automatic rifles and tons of other shit they don't fucking need. And the SCOTUS ruling doesn't matter, just get yourselves a SCOTUS that would rule cops have an obligation to help and investigate everything.

                                Please listen to us. Common sense cop control WILL solve all of this shit you mentioned without ever touching gun laws.

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                                Not sure why you're being downvoted. I'll try and do a better response later when I have some time.

                                In an ideal world we could replace SCOTUS members who, for example, lied under oath to congress. That would allow a lot of problems that seem impossible to solve to be pretty easily solved. I think the US is an example of a cascading system of measures to make it hard to undo the rot. For example: We need better rulings on cops, so we need a better supreme court, so we need to pack the court or get rid of the fascists on it, so we need a majority progressive congress, so we need campaign finance reform, so we need more people to vote, so we need laws against electioneering... I mean there are things that could be done that ate lynch pins for huge progress, but the system is certainly stacked against us. Not a reason to give up, but it explains a lot of the nihilism generally in our culture.

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                                  Wearing thongs (flip flops) in a grocery store.

                                  Kangaroos littering the side of the road (they have about 4 neurones and all of then are suicidal)

                                  The only place I have seen young kids (think 6 years old) swear similarly to here in Australia is in Scotland, and they are just as feral as we are.

                                  Walking down the street at night. In the UK and USA it was apparently just not a thing you did. Here I will walk home at 2am no worries, and tonnes of people walk home from the pub drunk enough to not always make it home and sometimes just pass out on the footpath. Never had a problem, never been mugged or similar in that situation, and after living in the UK and visiting the USA I can definitely say I would never do that there.

                                  Wearing swimmers (bikini or budgie smugglers) and going for food and drink on the same trip. The number of times I've gotten coffee, had lunch, or jumped into the bank while dressed for the beach is uncountable, but never ever outside Australia.

                                  Hitting your kids is rare here. Spanking is not really normal and is definitely not common in public compared to my visit to the USA or my time in the UK. In both of those people would cuff their kids or slap their hand when they were being unruly. That is uncommon here and I have seen people intervene when someone was hitting their kid in public on more than one occasion. The same goes for animals, people don't like you hitting your dog either. Not to say it doesn't happen, but it is not considered OK.

                                  Healthcare. We have it. We love it. In the UK the NHS was OK, not great, and the USA is terrifying. My meds would cost me about $310 per month but end up costing a max of $38, unless I spend $1200 in the year at which point the rest are free. As in, no cost, just pick them up, zero dollars. Mine are half medically necessary and half for better function, but for some people they are way more necessary and I am so happy they can just go get them, no risk of rationing meds.

                                  People do talk about politics and religion here, but not with random people and not in public. If someone isn't interested you are generally going to back off quickly and leave it be. Religion and politics are mostly private and the few people who do talk tend to not be too intense about it. Certainly most don't become a registered Labor or Liberal party member with the group identity associated. It is much more loosely held and less culturally relevant.

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                                  First of all,
                                  You fuckers need to bring out your own dictionary.
                                  Budgie smugglers? I thought that's Australian for Gum Boots. Turns out, it kinda is actually, but for your Johnson & co.
                                  Secondly,
                                  When wearing a thong (the real sexy kind) in a grocery store becomes a norm in your part of planet, I'm moving there permanently.
                                  Third,
                                  Lunch\Cafe in your beachwear?
                                  Bro, you should've started with this.
                                  Imma land there now.

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                                  • rammer@sopuli.xyzR [email protected]

                                    Almost everyone has a sauna or at least access to one at or near their home.

                                    Finland for those wondering.

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                                    So you get naked for using the sauna in your home?
                                    You sluts!

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                                      Being very touchy and physical.

                                      Cheek kisses are usual for strangers. And it's normal to touch people you barely know or have a small friendship.

                                      Country is Spain.

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                                      How small does the friendship need to be for me to casually smooch all the pretty members of your society?

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                                        Losing a ground war against flightless birds.

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                                        @[email protected] , meet @[email protected]...
                                        dude's airing your dirty laundry in public.
                                        I'm more than happy to replace him in your country. I'll blend in 'swimming-costume-wearing-at-lunch' in no time.

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                                        • routhinator@startrek.websiteR [email protected]

                                          Poutine.

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                                          I was in Canada and I wanted to poutine. I could hardly find any. Ask I had just gravy on fries

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