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  • chozo@fedia.ioC [email protected]

    Pretty bad. I found out recently that my roommate has been lying to me and spent the rent money I gave him on something else. He hid it from me long enough for it to be irreparable. I can't get my roommate to be honest with me, and the apartment management are refusing to share any information with me (despite me still being on the lease) and won't even accept a payment from me or even tell me what our debt is, so now I'm almost certainly going have to go to court soon to be evicted.

    I'm bipolar, so usually a major event like like this would send me either into a manic or a depressive episode. But for the first time that I can recall, I've been finding myself going rapidly between the two states throughout the day.

    I know I will be fine. But right now, I'm not fine.

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    That's unfair to you, and does sound a little bit illegal on their side NGL, good luck to you

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    • jordanlund@lemmy.worldJ [email protected]

      Been better... Started a liquid diet today as I'm having surgery on Wednesday. 😞

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      Oof, here's wishing you a big feast when you're able

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        That's unfair to you, and does sound a little bit illegal on their side NGL, good luck to you

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        Thanks, and I agree. I'm not sure what grounds they have to withhold that sort of information from a lessee on. The lack of information from all angles makes it really difficult to prepare, because I have no idea what I need to be preparing for. It's been a very difficult week. 😞

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          Not great, Bob!

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            That sounds unpleasant. Courage.

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            Keeping it together so far, distracting myself with projects I've been putting off. Keeping my mind and hands occupied.

            Bonus: Getting shit done!

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              Oof, here's wishing you a big feast when you're able

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              I need to figure out what I'm going to eat on Wednesday, but at the same time, I don't want to think about food until then. LOL.

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                Personally I'm alright. Trying to not get too affected by the world falling apart. I have mixed feelings about my relationship with my gf. Work is going pretty well but I kinda feel like my career is stagnating. Could be better, could be a lot worse.

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                • chozo@fedia.ioC [email protected]

                  Thanks, and I agree. I'm not sure what grounds they have to withhold that sort of information from a lessee on. The lack of information from all angles makes it really difficult to prepare, because I have no idea what I need to be preparing for. It's been a very difficult week. 😞

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                  Check and see if there's an organization in your area called Legal Aid. They're in the SF bay area (and other places) and they do a lot of landlord/tenant stuff pro-bono.

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                    Physically? Not great.

                    Mentally? Bad.

                    But existentially? Also quite unwell.

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                      Just started my first vacation week, I'll be back in the salt mines next week, then I'll have two weeks off after that, I normally try and get four weeks off in a row during summer (legally employers here in Sweden have to grant you four continous weeks off during summer if you have enough days) but I took an early week off this spring and want to be able to take a week off during christmas as well

                      So, I am fine I guess...

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                        I think I'm supposed to be dead, but mere alive because of Quantum Immortality.

                        Thete are 99% of timelines where I'm dead already, this is the only one left. My existence is an anamoly.

                        https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Quantum_suicide_and_immortality

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                            Very accurate. Just that I dont drink and instead have a pile of work for 10ppl I do by myself

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                              I'm dealing with the worst stomach flu of my life and I have a 10 hour train ride in a few hours. Wish me luck!

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                              I would never 🫥

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                                I have never felt so conflicted in my life ever before.

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                                  Not good. Pretty sure I’ve lost my social circle. It’s my fault, for the most part. I think I’m better off alone, as far as having friends goes. I still have my son, who lives with me, so I’m not totally alone. As long as I have him, that’s all I need.

                                  I asked for the dose of one of my meds to be increased. We’ll see if that will help things at all. Probably not. It would be nice to not really feel things, or at least feel them less. Like tranquilized in a way.

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                                    I'm really angry. My oldest son's school sent me an email this afternoon lecturing me on his attendance and how it affects his grades and how it makes the school look bad, etc...

                                    We had a few weeks off earlier this year when my grandfather and my mother-in-law died (both suddenly and unexpectedly) within two weeks of each other.

                                    My younger son's school offered assistance, counselling and anything else that they could think of to offer. They were very supportive. My older son's school has just berated us for grieving and supporting each other, our friends and our family. I'm so fucking angry. They know that bereavement was the reason for his absence. Cunts.

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                                      I think I'm supposed to be dead, but mere alive because of Quantum Immortality.

                                      Thete are 99% of timelines where I'm dead already, this is the only one left. My existence is an anamoly.

                                      https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Quantum_suicide_and_immortality

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                                      That's darkly solipsistic. Risky sort of thought to entertain. Life is chaos and it's all real. Just do your best and be kind to yourself, and others.

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                                        Same as it ever was; shithouse.

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                                          How you all doing rn?

                                          We don't call it 'doing', as it's a little sexist. And stop asking for advice how to hit on nurses: they're busy enough.

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