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What is something you never understood the hype for?

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  • leonixster@lemmy.blahaj.zoneL [email protected]

    There has only been one alcoholic drink that I've enjoyed and it was because it tasted more like juice than alcohol. Also I was 17 at the time (accompanied by trusted adults) so that might've influenced it.

    I get why people drink, and it's not like I'll care about any random person downing drinks left and right. What makes me mad is the overly-romanticized way it's depicted in media 99% of the time, and how normalized it is.

    To each their own, but fuck any depiction in media that romanticizes them.

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    Absolutely.
    Sadly some amazing tasting drinks contain alcohol. 😕
    And I'd prefer if they just tasted like that without the actual alcohol.

    Edit: Phrasing 😉

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      The Office

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      The TV Series or the real estate scam by the rich?

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        Mobile UI. It sucks. Yet the majority of people online are now connecting from it, and everything wants to be an app.

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        The keyboard is epic though. Totally designed in 6th circle of hell

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          Partying. The whole idea of dressing up to leave one’s home after dark to visit a dimly lit, overly crowded place with overpriced drinks and snacks and music so loud you can’t hear yourself think.

          Seems entirely unnecessary. I feel like social connection is so much easier when you can see and hear each other. Being able to get enough sleep and not needing to pay through the nose for 5 peanuts is also nice.

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            I was really rooting for Yuki the most and he lost so many places 😭
            granted they did switch something up on him without preparing him for it but still

            otherwise man I hope the FIA learns something from this race, it was bloody horrible. I would've had a more entertaining time going to church with my father and listening to someone preach for an hour and a half 🙃

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            You can tell it's a shit race when the coverage is mostly showing people in 14th-18th position. Normally I like Spa, and I like wet GPs because they're unpredictable. But this was a procession. Not as bad as Monaco, but nearly.

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              I can't help but wonder how much the popularity of reality TV led us to where we are now. I don't just mean how the US president used to have his own stupid show, but how many people grew up thinking that "watching people create drama" is peak entertainment.

              The same era saw the decline and demise of a number of educational channels and shows. Is it a coincidence? I don't know. All I know is there are lots of adults who grew up watching "reality" shows who now think politics are just a game to "win" and that when their opponents are upset, it's amusing. It's like the concept of empathy or working together don't even enter their minds. Everything is just for entertainment, no matter how serious it is or how many innocent people get screwed over by it.

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              “watching people create drama”

              Same reason soap operas are popular and why wrestling used to be huge (maybe wrestling still is huge, but I don't feel like I hear about it as much).

              People like drama. That it's contrived doesn't matter, it's still drama.

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                Vtubers. I get the cute anime girl thing and I like fan art of them as I do other anime. But the models move wayyyyyy to exaggerated. It hits uncanny valley for me.

                Also I don't get the parasocial relationship of chatting in a huge room of other followers. The chat is scrolling by at a hundred miles an hour and you're competing with everyone else for their attention.

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                I don't get the uncanny valley from them, but I guess that can vary from person to person, so that's fair.

                The thing about chats being filled with too many people for any one person to matter I agree with. But that's a big streamer thing, not exclusively a vtuber thing.

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                  The notion that working in the Trades is so great. Coming from a guy did a lot of construction work, trust me it can really suck… also most of the guys in that line of work are assholes.

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                  We're doing some renovation at the moment. We have a lead contractor who's managing all the trades 'cos I know nothing about construction.

                  Every trade we've had - electricians, bricklayers, drainage guy, plumber, carpenter, etc - come as a duo. There's a guy in his late 30s or older who does the thinking, and a kid in the late teens / early 20s who are effectively labourers and lift, push, carry, drill, dig, etc. The life of the senior guy in the pair seems to be pretty good and you know they're well paid. The kids are learning, and in 10 years time will have their own labourer.

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                    /shrug You can challenge that assumption, and it might be the case for you, but if you're a developer, or you're working in applications like DaVinci Resolve, or you're comparing multiple spreadsheets, or you're comparing a spreadsheet with your taxes, or the list goes on and on. For example, here is someone developing a game with Unity https://i.sstatic.net/TrHVR.png and they don't even have their IDE window up!

                    Here's a really good example 😉
                    https://www3.nasa.gov/specials/mcc360/

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                    Your first example is exactly what I’m talking about. 2/3 of screen space are wasted and literally show an empty void. And you’re telling me it’s essential to see that?

                    I grant you that this might change as development goes on, but as the screenshot stands now, it’s an argument in my favor.

                    As for the NASA image: I see that all these indicators may be open, so the user can immediately see when one flashes red. That isn’t so much the case for people who have discord (or task manager, WTF?) open on a full screen. Or a calendar, as I mentioned in another comment.

                    Also: Are you a NASA engineer?

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                      We're doing some renovation at the moment. We have a lead contractor who's managing all the trades 'cos I know nothing about construction.

                      Every trade we've had - electricians, bricklayers, drainage guy, plumber, carpenter, etc - come as a duo. There's a guy in his late 30s or older who does the thinking, and a kid in the late teens / early 20s who are effectively labourers and lift, push, carry, drill, dig, etc. The life of the senior guy in the pair seems to be pretty good and you know they're well paid. The kids are learning, and in 10 years time will have their own labourer.

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                      Listen to the seniors.. They will all say the same thing.

                      The last guy did it all wrong.

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                        Partying. The whole idea of dressing up to leave one’s home after dark to visit a dimly lit, overly crowded place with overpriced drinks and snacks and music so loud you can’t hear yourself think.

                        Seems entirely unnecessary. I feel like social connection is so much easier when you can see and hear each other. Being able to get enough sleep and not needing to pay through the nose for 5 peanuts is also nice.

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                        I feel like this is only one specific type or partying where you go to a business. There are many forms of DIY partying which involve spending less money and allow you to see and speak to people that you are parting with.

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                          Listen to the seniors.. They will all say the same thing.

                          The last guy did it all wrong.

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                          Hey, how did you know that's what they said?

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                            Dark Souls games.

                            Or Final Fantasy games.

                            Or GTA.

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                              Nirvana.
                              The band.

                              I missed the grunge movement in its peak but I got into Pearl Jam and Soundgarden. Just couldn’t get into Nirvana beyond a few songs that I do like. Musically, I feel like both Pearl Jam and Soundgarden dwarf Nirvana.

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                              I love Nirvana. I think a good case can be made that Nirvana were the only grunge band and that the others like you mentioned were grunge only in that they shared a fashion. They aren't really the same genre of music, just look. IMHO.

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                                Same reason some people are into watching video games, talent shows or even actors.

                                There's loads of interest to be found in spectating a skilled display of any activity if you truly engage with it IMO.

                                I sometimes watch sports I've barely got a grasp of the rules for just out of fascination. GAA hurling is the most recent one I can recall getting sucked into for an afternoon.

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                                i think there's some sports that are a bit acquired tastes, like I don't think the skill is immediately apparent the first time watching soccer, it's "just people running around". The strategy, technique etc is not immediately apparent. As opposed to like skateboard tricks or dry tooling/ice climbing competitions, which also have depth but are impressive without any prior knowledge, imo.

                                For me personally, it's the fan aspect I don't get. What's the point of projecting the us vs. them mentality on some team, "we won", and foflowing a team almost religiously, even building ones own identity around it, at least in part. In general, getting so emotionally invested in it, i don't understand. And it seems to mostly be a team sport thing.

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                                  I feel like this is only one specific type or partying where you go to a business. There are many forms of DIY partying which involve spending less money and allow you to see and speak to people that you are parting with.

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                                  Yeah, that I understand more. At least for people who are more extroverted than I am, lol. But being in a setting in which you can see and hear people while not needing to pay insane prices sounds way more reasonable.

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                                  • leonixster@lemmy.blahaj.zoneL [email protected]

                                    Alcohol. Or drugs for that matter. But alcohol is the one that actually pisses me off when depicted in media. It's always some character downing a glass of something and then having this super happy face and enjoying themselves. Like, fuck off? Anyone I know who drinks doesn't even enjoy the flavor of it, and it being romanticized into this fancy, social drink is genuinely infuriating.

                                    As for drugs, I just don't understand the reason why someone would want to alter their mental capabilities.

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                                    Trauma
                                    Trauma can easily make it where you can't stand your own thoughts or how you feel. So anything that augments that can be very attractive.

                                    I'd day mental health too, even if you don't have known traumas. Major depression, etc. But I know women who can't relax or aren't very intimate unless they drink. But as someone with an alcoholic father, alcohol has some big dark sides. Even if you are happy when you drink, it can really mess your brain up.

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                                      Having read Kurt's journals, they wanted to be mid. They were capitalizing on the success of other bands and implementing their styles. They weren't trying to change the world, they just wanted to get paid to make decent music

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                                      Not putting any of this on their feet. Maybe they wanted to be mid but that's not how history seems to remember them.

                                      Nirvana is still hyped as one of the greatest bands ever. Maybe it was revisionism after Kurt's death? But whatever it is, I feel like their music doesn't deserve the hype it gets today.

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                                        I love Nirvana. I think a good case can be made that Nirvana were the only grunge band and that the others like you mentioned were grunge only in that they shared a fashion. They aren't really the same genre of music, just look. IMHO.

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                                        Or that their music evolved with the times? I'll be the first to admit that I don't understand genres, but I feel like early Soundgarden albums sounded very close to Nirvana's sound, but later albums became more rock?

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                                          Not putting any of this on their feet. Maybe they wanted to be mid but that's not how history seems to remember them.

                                          Nirvana is still hyped as one of the greatest bands ever. Maybe it was revisionism after Kurt's death? But whatever it is, I feel like their music doesn't deserve the hype it gets today.

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                                          Whatever their intentions, they were massively influential and changed grunge forever and that's not something that should be understated

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