I'm embarrassed about being a slob.

[pleasestopasking@reddthat.com]

I'm embarrassed about being a slob. I'm definitely messy and it's a point of friction in my marriage. (I'm trying to get better but it's hard to reprogram stuff from childhood.)

I dated a woman for 13 years who absolutely, positively, would not clean, and didn't know how to use a garbage can. Would drop trash on the floor and leave it there until I finally got sick of it and cleaned it up.

Fuck. I feel like an army drill sergeant now in comparison.