> Is this stupid and unfair?
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Is this stupid and unfair? Yes. Have I ever been asked to leave one of these events, or gotten into any trouble? No. If you can't handle it, don't go to these types of events.
Isn't the reverse (un)fair as well? Don't go to nude events if you don't want to be oogled by creepy men.
I mean, the whole point of these things is to explore yourself and the world around you. sometimes there are risks to exploration. OP found that out the hard way.
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Is this stupid and unfair? Yes. Have I ever been asked to leave one of these events, or gotten into any trouble? No. If you can't handle it, don't go to these types of events.
Isn't the reverse (un)fair as well? Don't go to nude events if you don't want to be oogled by creepy men.
I mean, the whole point of these things is to explore yourself and the world around you. sometimes there are risks to exploration. OP found that out the hard way.
Sure, at some point we all have to realize that our actions may attract unwanted attention and take appropriate precautions. That being said, no means no. If a lady is obviously uncomfortable by your presence, put on the big boy pants and move on - don't try to argue your case or convince her of anything. Just move on and leave her the hell alone.
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Is this stupid and unfair? Yes. Have I ever been asked to leave one of these events, or gotten into any trouble? No. If you can't handle it, don't go to these types of events.
Isn't the reverse (un)fair as well? Don't go to nude events if you don't want to be oogled by creepy men.
I mean, the whole point of these things is to explore yourself and the world around you. sometimes there are risks to exploration. OP found that out the hard way.
Don't go to nude events if you don't want to be oogled by creepy men.
Do you want the nude beach to be a sausage fest? Because this is how you ensure that the nude beach is a sausage fest. Nudity =/= sexual to nudists so an expectation of being non-creepy is completely fair and reasonable.
