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Do you feel sad for people born today?

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    I personally cringe when I hear a friend js having a kid. All I can think of is how bad theyre going to have it. Hell id definitely have been better off being born 20 years earlier, but these new kids are REALLY screwed unless they have super rich parents.

    "Nothing new under the sun" I suppose!

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    Fuck parents.

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      Fuck parents.

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      Specifically, MILFs

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        Maybe their children. I dont think its quite that bad yet.

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        https://www.nature.com/articles/s41586-025-09047-2

        by developing an ensemble of high-resolution global drought datasets for 1901–2022, we find an increasing trend in drought severity worldwide. Our findings suggest that AED has increased drought severity by an average of 40% globally. Not only are typically dry regions becoming drier but also wet areas are experiencing drying trends. During the past 5 years (2018–2022), the areas in drought have expanded by 74% on average compared with 1981–2017, with AED contributing to 58% of this increase. The year 2022 was record-breaking, with 30% of the global land area affected by moderate and extreme droughts, 42% of which was attributed to increased AED.

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          I personally cringe when I hear a friend js having a kid. All I can think of is how bad theyre going to have it. Hell id definitely have been better off being born 20 years earlier, but these new kids are REALLY screwed unless they have super rich parents.

          "Nothing new under the sun" I suppose!

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          Abortions should be legal at any term

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            But you just gave the same reasons people have been giving forever. That's not very nuanced. Things are measurably different now
            If you're using the same perspective thinking about this that our parents did, then we're truly getting nowhere

            Edit: Or maybe what you're saying is we need to have kids so they can be raised to be some kind of revolutionary super soldiers?

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            All I'm saying is the fight is coming whether you want it or not. Its at the point where this affects all living things, and the perpetrators don't care and won't stop. Whether you have kids or not, there will still be children. Therefore, you still have a choice to inspire hope in them or not even if you can't understand why people would have children in this time.

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              Unclear. Maybe things are going to get better; it's happened before right?

              It hasn't been all bad news lately, too. If you're not straight, cis, or from the the West, being a boomer wasn't such a great deal.

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              it’s happened before right?

              not what we've done to the ecosystem. we're in entirely uncharted territory.

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                Touch grass bro

                Like you are comparing me to a family as powerful as the kennedy family? You are delusional

                I'm not that rich or influential lmao

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                not like it matters. it can still apply on a smaller scale

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                  All I'm saying is the fight is coming whether you want it or not. Its at the point where this affects all living things, and the perpetrators don't care and won't stop. Whether you have kids or not, there will still be children. Therefore, you still have a choice to inspire hope in them or not even if you can't understand why people would have children in this time.

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                  Yeah, I know. I think it's asinine that people are out here having kids, pretending that the future is going to be status quo. That's kind of my whole point. I'm not, like, anti-humanity. I have nieces and nephews and I try to inspire them every single day. But I'm also real with them. I let them know that the future is fucked, that many things are past the point of no return, and that we should all be practicing resilience. Humanity will live on, and life will go on, but not the way that it is now. And saying any different is either lying to them or ourselves. That's not hope, that's delusion.

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                    Yeah, I know. I think it's asinine that people are out here having kids, pretending that the future is going to be status quo. That's kind of my whole point. I'm not, like, anti-humanity. I have nieces and nephews and I try to inspire them every single day. But I'm also real with them. I let them know that the future is fucked, that many things are past the point of no return, and that we should all be practicing resilience. Humanity will live on, and life will go on, but not the way that it is now. And saying any different is either lying to them or ourselves. That's not hope, that's delusion.

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                    How can we say the future is fucked when all climate scientists are still begging us to take action and saying every little bit will help? We can't. I know its glum. But you still can't tell kids they are fucked. They aren't yet, and right up until all climate scientists commit suicide from the insanity of this whole circus I will still be on the side of hope. Its not delusional. What else have we got to do? Only the wretched accept a bleak tomorrow. And I am still refusing.

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                      I personally cringe when I hear a friend js having a kid. All I can think of is how bad theyre going to have it. Hell id definitely have been better off being born 20 years earlier, but these new kids are REALLY screwed unless they have super rich parents.

                      "Nothing new under the sun" I suppose!

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                      I don’t. We all have to deal with the pain of existence.

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                      • sanctus@lemmy.worldS [email protected]

                        How can we say the future is fucked when all climate scientists are still begging us to take action and saying every little bit will help? We can't. I know its glum. But you still can't tell kids they are fucked. They aren't yet, and right up until all climate scientists commit suicide from the insanity of this whole circus I will still be on the side of hope. Its not delusional. What else have we got to do? Only the wretched accept a bleak tomorrow. And I am still refusing.

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                        Most climate scientists would agree that we're fucked, actually. But most climate scientists would also say that every little bit helps. It's not a binary switch. You and I? Our children and our children's children? They will not live in a safe, sane, or comfortable world. That shipped sailed a couple of years back. But you're right, there is hope. If every corporation and state stopped extracting right now, then in about a 100 years, with a lot of hard work and dedication and an international effort like never before seen, we will return to normal.

                        So yeah, teaching kids to be good people, and good stewards of the planet is an extremely important and necessary thing right now, but so is teaching them to grow their own food, mend their own clothing, build things, build community. Because that's the only way we get through.

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                          not like it matters. it can still apply on a smaller scale

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                          You out the gate accuse us of being bad people knowing nothing. Why?

                          I have like 1m cad so like a small percentage of power in this world lmao

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                            I personally cringe when I hear a friend js having a kid. All I can think of is how bad theyre going to have it. Hell id definitely have been better off being born 20 years earlier, but these new kids are REALLY screwed unless they have super rich parents.

                            "Nothing new under the sun" I suppose!

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                            no im jealous because i miss screaming and shitting and puking constantly

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                              Specifically, MILFs

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                              DILFs too, though

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                                I personally cringe when I hear a friend js having a kid. All I can think of is how bad theyre going to have it. Hell id definitely have been better off being born 20 years earlier, but these new kids are REALLY screwed unless they have super rich parents.

                                "Nothing new under the sun" I suppose!

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                                I choose not to. I can choose to be hopeful for the future without being unrealistic. I can see intrinsic value in human life and the human experience even knowing that every single one of us will die at some point, some peacefully, some during suffering. The moment of death doesn't have to define one's life. Even a baby who lives for six hours has spent infinitely more time living than dying. Would you be so nihilistic as to erase that life, just because it was short?

                                Your philosophy is valid; it's not necessarily correct.
                                Starting from the assumption that it is denies you the opportunity to see things from a different perspective.

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                                  it’s happened before right?

                                  not what we've done to the ecosystem. we're in entirely uncharted territory.

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                                  That's true, at least in our tenure as a species. We can project where it's going pretty well, though, and assuming your kids aren't in a Dhaka slum they'll be 'ight, if deprived of the opportunity to ever see coral reefs and with higher bills and taxes to compensate for the weather.

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                                    That's true, at least in our tenure as a species. We can project where it's going pretty well, though, and assuming your kids aren't in a Dhaka slum they'll be 'ight, if deprived of the opportunity to ever see coral reefs and with higher bills and taxes to compensate for the weather.

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                                    and assuming your kids aren’t in a Dhaka slum they’ll be 'ight

                                    you're an optimist.

                                    we're all going to cook, it's just a matter of how long it'll take to catch up to you.

                                    we're gonna cook because some fucks said "I don't care, I want more money."

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                                      I personally cringe when I hear a friend js having a kid. All I can think of is how bad theyre going to have it. Hell id definitely have been better off being born 20 years earlier, but these new kids are REALLY screwed unless they have super rich parents.

                                      "Nothing new under the sun" I suppose!

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                                      Windows 11 laptops requires a webcam. The internet now wants selfies to prove that you are a certain age.

                                      The kids now will grow up thinking that this is normal. That is what I am worried about.

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                                        I'm in canada so about 500k per apartment here on vancouver island

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                                          Word. Just because America is on a downward slide everyone acting like these are the worst times ever. LOL. The people need some history classes.

                                          When I was a kid, cancer was basically a death sentence. AIDS certainly was! Some of the tech I've experienced blows my mind. Wondering if my wife and I had finally caught COVID (we did 🤬), so I busted out the free laboratory kit I got in the mail. That was work for a hospital lab, and you were going to wait a few days. Sliced the side of my finger off, and they grew it back. I could go on forever.

                                          In the movie Armageddon (1998), talking about the age of the space station being 10-years old, "Most of us don't drive cars that old." A 10-yo car was trash, common knowledge. My truck is a 2004 and my wife's car is a 2014. Both run great. And I could go on for ages as to how much safer vehicles are. None of the things we take for granted like ABS, air bags, crumple zones, none of that existed when I was a kid. Hell, some cars didn't have safety glass!

                                          People will next tell me that global warming is a new threat that will kill us all. Friends and neighbors, we already survived an ice age.

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                                          Once you can't feed yourself, your children are dying, and the authorities are actively trying to kill you, how much worse of a times do you want!? People are being sent to concentration camps. The middle class is disappearing. Everyone not a billionaire is suffering.

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