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  • H [email protected]

    You just have to enable it in your client, presuming your instance supports it.

    On Voyager it’s in Settings -> Appearance -> Other -> Display Votes -> Separate.

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    What I mean is that I would like to see the usernames of everyone who downvoted.

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    • P [email protected]

      I agree it has problems, but that doesn't mean that anything is better.

      Reporting someone is good, but isn't that subject to the exact same reasons why "it won't work"? If reddit style blocking someone isn't effective anyways, why would admin bans be effective?
      This assumes that admins and mods even have the capacity to deal with all this shit, which seems to be very uncertain.

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      I don't understand what you mean. Moderator bans do work, that's a moderator's job.

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      • m0op0o@mander.xyzM [email protected]

        Report is good, but why should I have to let other people read my content? Why is this a hill you want to die on?

        Why should you have to let other people read what you post on a public site?! Is that really the hill you want to die on?

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        Yes, it is.

        Because it's my content.
        Because it's not just a public site, public/private is a false dichotomy.
        Because social networks need to provide effective anti-harassment tools, and if admins/mods are too overworked then that needs to be self-serviced.

        Defederation exists
        Instance bans exist
        Community bans exist
        Why are all of those good, but individual bans aren't?
        Why are all of those effective (at least partially), but not for individuals?
        Or is the argument that all of those should be disposed of, too?

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        • P [email protected]

          "won't someone think of the children" isn't always wrong.

          What's absolutely crazy to me is that you say "blocking won't work because they can get a new account" and then in the very same breath suggest that reporting is a viable strategy. Either it is or it isn't, which is it?

          Public/private discourse is a false dichotomy. What are your thoughts on a community's ability to ban someone? Should groups lose that ability, since apparently it's both ineffective and toxic, apparently?

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          “won’t someone think of the children” isn’t always wrong.

          It is always wrong to frame an argument in this fashion, its a emotional ploy for a weak argument. Instead use a better line of reasoning.

          What’s absolutely crazy to me is that you say “blocking won’t work because they can get a new account” and then in the very same breath suggest that reporting is a viable strategy. Either it is or it isn’t, which is it?

          I never said that, likely you have me confused with someone else.

          Public/private discourse is a false dichotomy. What are your thoughts on a community’s ability to ban someone? Should groups lose that ability, since apparently it’s both ineffective and toxic, apparently?

          Mod log exists for this reason and communities are often defederated for abusing this power. And I have made no comment on the effectiveness or toxicity of mod powers. You sound like you want to be a mod but the worst kind of biased one.

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            When did an appreciation for free speech become the exclusive domain of the Libertarians? I don't want you to be able to unilaterally silence me, therefore I'm a Libertarian?

            Minor nitpick with your comment: there's a semantic difference between "Libertarian" and "libertarian", and I suspect you want the latter.

            Small-l "libertarian" is used to refer to the political ideology.

            Big-L "Libertarian" is used to refer to the Libertarian Party.

            The same sort of convention also shows up elsewhere, like "democrat" and "Democrat", "republican" and "Republican", etc.

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              #127

              Easier job to do when you're actually getting reports.

              • Reporting = this breaks the rules please moderate
              • Blocking = Fuck them, even if they rechnicly abide by the rules I don't want them near me
              • Muting = I don't want to see what this person does but don't want to hurt them beyond that
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                How is "not letting you see what I personally wrote" consider to be "unilaterally silencing you" ?
                What a mind bogglingly disingenuous response.

                I'm not saying that the reddit style block is good.
                I'm saying that the current "mute" style block hangs vulnerable people out to dry.

                I'm ok trying something else, like maybe what you suggested.

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                • P [email protected]

                  Yes, it is.

                  Because it's my content.
                  Because it's not just a public site, public/private is a false dichotomy.
                  Because social networks need to provide effective anti-harassment tools, and if admins/mods are too overworked then that needs to be self-serviced.

                  Defederation exists
                  Instance bans exist
                  Community bans exist
                  Why are all of those good, but individual bans aren't?
                  Why are all of those effective (at least partially), but not for individuals?
                  Or is the argument that all of those should be disposed of, too?

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                  No, it is not.

                  Because as soon as you post, it is not your content.
                  Because it is a site build around public discourse, there is no dichotomy here let alone a false one.
                  Because there are anti-harassment tools in place, you just want a new way to harass.

                  Defederation exists

                  Instance bans exist

                  Community bans exist

                  Why are all of those good, but individual bans aren’t?

                  Why are all of those effective (at least partially), but not for individuals?

                  Or is the argument that all of those should be disposed of, too?

                  Because they are not done by end users in a vacuum. You can go and make your own instance and do all of these things, and are encouraged to do so.

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                    #130

                    It's hard to tell exactly what you mean, but there are different sucky effects.

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                    • kolanaki@pawb.socialK [email protected]

                      If I block them, I want to stop them from engaging with me.

                      That's exactly what happens. They can no longer engage with YOU because YOU no longer see THEM.

                      It's a curtain, not a door.

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                      Engaging with me is more than my ability to respond.
                      Them replying to my content is still engaging with me, no matter if I can see it. Them telling misinformation to other people in my thread is still engaging with me.

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                      • P [email protected]

                        Yeah, fuck those minorities, amirite? They don't deserve to use Lemmy anyways\

                        • you, a couple min ago
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                        Please go make your own place where those minorities (whoever they are) can do whatever they want.

                        • Them before you put words in their mouth to make a terrible argument.
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                        • nichehervielleicht@feddit.orgN [email protected]

                          They shouldn't be able to do that!

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                          Because the alternative is easily abused, see all the issues Reddit has with this type of block mechanism.

                          The core of the problem as I see it is, this gives every user limited moderation powers in every sub, the extent of that power is determined mainly just by how much they post and comment (blocked users can't comment under their posts, and can't reply to any comment in a chain started by the blocker), and the extent to which it is happening is invisible to most users. People advocating for this seem to assume it will be used mostly defensively, to prevent harassment, but the feature has way more utility offensively, and it's totally unaccountable. If there is something someone is saying (not even necessarily to you) that you don't like for whatever reason, whether or not it's against the rules and regardless of what anyone else thinks about it, you can partially silence them by blocking and then working to get engagement in the same spaces they comment in. Think about if this was implemented on Lemmy, lots of communities have only one or a few people making all the posts, if one or more of them blocked you that's almost the same as a ban. It doesn't make it better that the people making those posts are often also moderators, because it would be a way to pseudo ban people without it showing up in the mod log.

                          Moderation of online discussion spaces should be transparent and accountable, it shouldn't be a covert arms race between users.

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                          • P [email protected]

                            Engaging with me is more than my ability to respond.
                            Them replying to my content is still engaging with me, no matter if I can see it. Them telling misinformation to other people in my thread is still engaging with me.

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                            You are (I know this is a shock) not the centre of the internet. Your inability to police what other people say is not a bug, but a feature.

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                              The problem you've solved is that they're not harassing you in your spaces, and your communities.
                              If they wanna cry about me in their basement with their own friends, that's ok. But I want to put hurdles, at least some inconveniences, between myself and their ability to harass me in my communities. Force them to manage 30 accounts, etc.

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                              they're not harassing you in your spaces, and your communities.

                              They would be, though. That's exactly what they're saying could happen - you just wouldn't be able to see it. In effect, what they described is exactly what you're claiming to be a problem, except worse because it's exclusively in control of the harasser.

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                                Lemmy communities and irl communities are different things that only sometimes overlap.

                                For example, the irl trans community could be harassed in a Lemmy gaming community. If mods aren't sympathetic, then they're torn between just accepting the harassment, or forking the gaming community. While this is what Lemmy was meant to do, practically most Lemmy communities aren't large enough to meaningful support more than one instance, so one of the instances is going to wither on the vine. And most Lemmy mods seem overworked, besides.

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                                • P [email protected]

                                  The problem you've solved is that they're not harassing you in your spaces, and your communities.
                                  If they wanna cry about me in their basement with their own friends, that's ok. But I want to put hurdles, at least some inconveniences, between myself and their ability to harass me in my communities. Force them to manage 30 accounts, etc.

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                                  It sounds like what you want is for moderators to ban people for you, which they will do if you report them and the moderators agree that what they are doing is unwanted in the community.

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                                  • P [email protected]

                                    I used to agree with you until I actually spoke with people from communities that get regularly harassed.

                                    Muting is great if all you want to do is hide content you don't like. But if you need to defend yourself against a campaign of harassment, this only gives power to the harassers.

                                    Yes all the have to do is make a new account, but it's another hurdle they have to cross. Better than no hurdle and also blindfolding yourself

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                                    I mean...

                                    I am describing a technical reality of how lemmy works.

                                    You can 'disagree' with that, but uh, you would just be wrong.

                                    Not in the sense of 'I do not have enough empathy to consider the plight of a regularly harassed person'.

                                    More in the sense of ... ok, then don't use lemmy, if you don't like how it works.

                                    Or... make it work the way you want it to work, by actually coding it.

                                    Like, I wasn't joking when I basically said 'I am reasonbly confident it is impossible to make lemmy work the way you want it to.'

                                    Thats not my opinion, in a... how should things work in an ideal world, sense of 'opinion'.

                                    It is my opinion, as a person who understands a bit (certainly not all) about how the code just actually works.

                                    If you can figure it out, I'd be impressed.

                                    Alternatively, if you'd like to pay me $50 an hour to attempt to develop that, I may have some room in my schedule.

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                                    • W [email protected]

                                      It sounds like what you want is for moderators to ban people for you, which they will do if you report them and the moderators agree that what they are doing is unwanted in the community.

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                                      They would likely not like or agree with what the moderator decided, as moderators are ether fairly hands off unless needed or hated by the community. They want the ability to police others just due to them conversing with them.

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                                      • m0op0o@mander.xyzM [email protected]

                                        They would likely not like or agree with what the moderator decided, as moderators are ether fairly hands off unless needed or hated by the community. They want the ability to police others just due to them conversing with them.

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                                        Then they complain about the moderators, and if enough of the community agrees, things will change.

                                        If the moderators won’t change, the community moves.

                                        If they don’t agree with the community, they should find a different community.

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                                        • nichehervielleicht@feddit.orgN [email protected]

                                          They shouldn't be able to do that!

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                                          This is how it should work. You block someone so you don’t have to see them. Why do you care if they can reply to you if you can’t see it?

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