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Seriously what's that idea?

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    How is "not letting you see what I personally wrote" consider to be "unilaterally silencing you" ?
    What a mind bogglingly disingenuous response.

    I'm not saying that the reddit style block is good.
    I'm saying that the current "mute" style block hangs vulnerable people out to dry.

    I'm ok trying something else, like maybe what you suggested.

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    So say someone is a raging bigot. You rely on regular users to flag up things that cross the line for moderators to deal with and correct the record when they lie or post stuff without context eg to provide a balanced perspective. Unless they have blocked most of the active users who would be liable to do these things.

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      Blocking someone is not a tool to silence them. It's a tool to ignore them.

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      Yeah, by blocking them you are saying YOU don't want to see their posts. That doesn't mean you get to make that decision for everyone else. I don't see the problem here.

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        That could be. I guess I've got a tag!

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        But I know what I mean, have a good day!

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        • L [email protected]

          This is seriously excellent. Now I can tell who downvoted my comments. I had even previously tried to look through the public lemmy API to see if I could find this information. Thank you!

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          Yeah, yw, it's very cool. Donate to the author!

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          • jumping_redditor@sh.itjust.worksJ [email protected]

            that's fully expected, if you don't want to see someone's posts why would you be able to moderate those posts?

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            When you click on a report, it should bypass any block, it doesn't.

            This isn't organically viewing a post, it's responding to a report and it is visible when reported.

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              A block should also be able to prevent them from seeing your activity. That would not constitute silencing the blocked individual as they can still go anywhere and talk to/see anyone else on the fediverse, just not you.

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              No, I don't think that would be good. So for example if there was a guy who thought we should all be eating lead. And every time he posts you put up facts about how eating lead was poisonous. And then the lead guy blocked you. Then every time the lead guy posts about how everyone should eat lead, you wouldn't see it and so you wouldn't be able to reply with how lead is poisonous.

              So if the lead guy blocked everyone who disagreed with him publicly. Then the lead guy can just post whatever they want and no who knew lead was poisonous would reply because they wouldn't see the post. So others who didn't know lead was poisonous would start seeing this guy posting about eating lead without being challenged. And so they might think it's a good thing.

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              • L [email protected]

                Yeah, by blocking them you are saying YOU don't want to see their posts. That doesn't mean you get to make that decision for everyone else. I don't see the problem here.

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                I never had a twitter account, but made a bsky account just to support people moving away from there even though I'd them they move to mastodon.

                Anyway, I saw a post claiming a certain fetish term was now forbidden because it was being used a slur. I commented that I've only ever heard it used to refer to a real person when the person in question was using it to describe themselves. I got some positive responses, but the ended up getting blocked from replying when they disagreed with me. Can 3rd parties see blocks or did it just look like I chickened out?

                I didn't care for that and I think these little "features" of twitter that people have gotten use to has twisted how to interact with other people. On reddit or lemmy, the topic is the main focus and the people managing the topic should be the only ones who control what gets said there. With twitter and bsky, the opening post is the main focus and they get control of what gets said. I prefer the former over that latter.

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                • R [email protected]

                  Someone else in this thread pointed out that this would just encourage bad actors to make sock puppet accounts to get around being blocked.

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                  Bad actors already do that.

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                  • nichehervielleicht@feddit.orgN [email protected]

                    They shouldn't be able to do that!

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                    I'm more annoyed by losing the "Block Community" button when a sub's admin blocks me.

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                    • A [email protected]

                      A block should also be able to prevent them from seeing your activity. That would not constitute silencing the blocked individual as they can still go anywhere and talk to/see anyone else on the fediverse, just not you.

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                      There is a need for more precise terminology. We should refer to "block" as stopping someone from interacting with you or your submissions/comments and "mute"/"ignore" as making it so that the person's own actions cannot be seen by you.

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                      • D [email protected]

                        No, I don't think that would be good. So for example if there was a guy who thought we should all be eating lead. And every time he posts you put up facts about how eating lead was poisonous. And then the lead guy blocked you. Then every time the lead guy posts about how everyone should eat lead, you wouldn't see it and so you wouldn't be able to reply with how lead is poisonous.

                        So if the lead guy blocked everyone who disagreed with him publicly. Then the lead guy can just post whatever they want and no who knew lead was poisonous would reply because they wouldn't see the post. So others who didn't know lead was poisonous would start seeing this guy posting about eating lead without being challenged. And so they might think it's a good thing.

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                        I see what you mean. Personally I'm gonna side with the folks that need the block functionality as a defense against stalking/harassment though.

                        The lead eater can ban anyone they want but that doesn't stop others from posting direct challenges to the lead eater's rhetoric elsewhere. I think its better to help those in need than to leave them vulnerable with less than ideal tools to protect themselves.

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                        • B [email protected]

                          The way Reddit does is abusive. I called out a guy for spamming, he blocked me, he's the one who creates TV discussion threads, I can't participate anymore.

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                          The way Reddit does is abusive.

                          Yes, but counterpoint: it was also petty and satisfying as fuuuuck hammering someone with your last point and then blocking them so that after they write up their long-ass reply outlining why eugenics is the true path to a glorious white future, they end up getting an error message.

                          Yah, it was very bad for actual discourse, but that ship has sailed. people don't care about debate and discourse anymore, on almost every social media site people post things as stand-alone displays to viewers for points, never engaging with each other unless there's a contentious point that can be leveraged for up-arrows and thumbs.

                          We have to get back to talking to each other in real life and stop pretending having introversion or social anxiety is anything but an obstacle to community and a better world

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                            I never had a twitter account, but made a bsky account just to support people moving away from there even though I'd them they move to mastodon.

                            Anyway, I saw a post claiming a certain fetish term was now forbidden because it was being used a slur. I commented that I've only ever heard it used to refer to a real person when the person in question was using it to describe themselves. I got some positive responses, but the ended up getting blocked from replying when they disagreed with me. Can 3rd parties see blocks or did it just look like I chickened out?

                            I didn't care for that and I think these little "features" of twitter that people have gotten use to has twisted how to interact with other people. On reddit or lemmy, the topic is the main focus and the people managing the topic should be the only ones who control what gets said there. With twitter and bsky, the opening post is the main focus and they get control of what gets said. I prefer the former over that latter.

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                            Reddit also blocks you from replying. Not just to that person, but to the comment thread in general. So many people do the insult-block to "win" a conversation.

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                            • R [email protected]

                              How do you do that? I'm on voyager and didn't know about this. I would love tags

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                              Settings>User Tags>Track Votes!
                              😄

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                                Settings>User Tags>Track Votes!
                                😄

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                                Awesome! Ty!

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                                • nichehervielleicht@feddit.orgN [email protected]

                                  They shouldn't be able to do that!

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                                  Why not, exactly? I think with the way the fediverse works, this would be a needless hassle for them to program this in. IIRC, posts are all separate and are just referring to another post. I think it'll be up to their server on whether or not to honour that block (your server could possibly sever the link on it's frontend, but that won't change that the person linked your post to theirs)

                                  And even if you could, they could still post a screenshot locally or write stuff about you.

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                                  • M [email protected]

                                    Because it would allow people to push narratives and not get called out if they block everyone against them.

                                    Imagine a civil transphobe pushing some narrative that flies below the radar of whatever mods are moderating that comm. If they block all the trans users they cannot get called out on their stuff anymore.

                                    I think there was some discourse on this on black mastodon?

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                                    Excellent point tbh

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                                    • E [email protected]

                                      There is a need for more precise terminology. We should refer to "block" as stopping someone from interacting with you or your submissions/comments and "mute"/"ignore" as making it so that the person's own actions cannot be seen by you.

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                                      Discord recently made this distinction; it makes sense imo

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                                      • A [email protected]

                                        I see what you mean. Personally I'm gonna side with the folks that need the block functionality as a defense against stalking/harassment though.

                                        The lead eater can ban anyone they want but that doesn't stop others from posting direct challenges to the lead eater's rhetoric elsewhere. I think its better to help those in need than to leave them vulnerable with less than ideal tools to protect themselves.

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                                        But even that case doesn't work because someone could use a different account (or no account at all) to do the stalking.

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                                        • J [email protected]

                                          Reddit also blocks you from replying. Not just to that person, but to the comment thread in general. So many people do the insult-block to "win" a conversation.

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                                          The mods of the sub are the ones to decide who gets blocked though. Not the person you're auguring with, unless you're arguing with is a mod.

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