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Do you understand love?

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    Personally, I think Heinlein said it best: "Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own."

    Love is also a choice that you need to make every day.

    Next week my wife and I will be celebrating our 20th wedding anniversary. I love her more now than I did back then.

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    • daft_ish@lemmy.dbzer0.comD [email protected]

      I don't get it.

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      Lonely internet nerds.

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      • daft_ish@lemmy.dbzer0.comD [email protected]

        Ah the infinite loop.

        Some lyrics should help.

        Should I try to hide

        The way I feel inside

        My heart, for you?

        Would you say that you

        Would try to love me too?

        In your mind

        Could you ever be

        Really close to me?

        I can tell the way you smile

        If I feel that I

        Could be certain, then

        I would say the things

        I want to say tonight

        But 'til I can see

        That you'd really care for me

        I will dream

        That someday you'll be

        Really close to me

        I can tell the way you smile

        If I feel that I

        Could be certain, then

        I would say the things

        I want to say tonight

        But 'til I can see

        That you'd really care for me

        I'll keep trying to hide

        The way I feel inside

        Just recognize it and break the cycle.

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        I think you misread the meme. So I'll point you in the direction; the shirts are pride flags.

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          Only the parts Haddaway taught me

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            Only the parts Haddaway taught me

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              Lonely internet nerds.

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              Awe, they are full of love.

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                I think you misread the meme. So I'll point you in the direction; the shirts are pride flags.

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                Its a cycle. You can break it at any point. You might need to quit dreaming.

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                • daft_ish@lemmy.dbzer0.comD [email protected]

                  Its a cycle. You can break it at any point. You might need to quit dreaming.

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                  Oh, so you didn't go and learn I was playing on the fact that I am Aro-ace?

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                    Only the parts Haddaway taught me

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                    baby don't hurt me

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                      Do you know what love is? A chemical. Electrons in your brain sending signals. Are you familiar with Ophiocordyceps unilateralis? It's a fungus that infects ants. It's amazing, really. The spores take over their central nervous systems and force them to climb to a high point, and then the fungus begins to grow up, bursting from the tops of their heads like a branch. And it kills them, of course. All so it can spray new spores over the jungle, infecting more ants. When people say love, that's what I think of.

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                      • gnomesaiyan@lemmy.worldG [email protected]

                        Do you know what love is? A chemical. Electrons in your brain sending signals. Are you familiar with Ophiocordyceps unilateralis? It's a fungus that infects ants. It's amazing, really. The spores take over their central nervous systems and force them to climb to a high point, and then the fungus begins to grow up, bursting from the tops of their heads like a branch. And it kills them, of course. All so it can spray new spores over the jungle, infecting more ants. When people say love, that's what I think of.

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                        Good thing cordyceps can't survive in humans due to our higher body temperature.

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                          I like Zizeks idea of love being a violent event. Check the yt video by Julian de madeiros which should explain the idea.

                          You could also read/ listen to zizek talk about it

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                            Do you know what love is? A chemical. Electrons in your brain sending signals. Are you familiar with Ophiocordyceps unilateralis? It's a fungus that infects ants. It's amazing, really. The spores take over their central nervous systems and force them to climb to a high point, and then the fungus begins to grow up, bursting from the tops of their heads like a branch. And it kills them, of course. All so it can spray new spores over the jungle, infecting more ants. When people say love, that's what I think of.

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                            So, manipulative, infectious, subjugative, and fatal?

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                              Oh, so you didn't go and learn I was playing on the fact that I am Aro-ace?

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                              Ok, ok, I see. There are other forms of love other than romantic love, tho. And the lyrics arent exclusively romantic.

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                              • daft_ish@lemmy.dbzer0.comD [email protected]

                                Ok, ok, I see. There are other forms of love other than romantic love, tho. And the lyrics arent exclusively romantic.

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                                Huh, you are quite obtuse.

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                                  Huh, you are quite obtuse.

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                                  Am I the obtuse one? Are you aro-ace or just combative?

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                                    Am I the obtuse one? Are you aro-ace or just combative?

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                                    Okay. I tried to make a joke with my orientation, but this exchange has wrung all of the humour out.

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                                      Okay. I tried to make a joke with my orientation, but this exchange has wrung all of the humour out.

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                                      Sorry to bother you.

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                                      • daft_ish@lemmy.dbzer0.comD [email protected]

                                        Sorry to bother you.

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                                        Its a cycle. You can break it at any point. You might need to quit dreaming.

                                        For future reference this is an incredibly shitty thing to say in the context of the post and thread.

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                                          Its a cycle. You can break it at any point. You might need to quit dreaming.

                                          For future reference this is an incredibly shitty thing to say in the context of the post and thread.

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                                          What would you know about it?

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