Skip to content
  • Categories
  • Recent
  • Tags
  • Popular
  • World
  • Users
  • Groups
Skins
  • Light
  • Brite
  • Cerulean
  • Cosmo
  • Flatly
  • Journal
  • Litera
  • Lumen
  • Lux
  • Materia
  • Minty
  • Morph
  • Pulse
  • Sandstone
  • Simplex
  • Sketchy
  • Spacelab
  • United
  • Yeti
  • Zephyr
  • Dark
  • Cyborg
  • Darkly
  • Quartz
  • Slate
  • Solar
  • Superhero
  • Vapor

  • Default (No Skin)
  • No Skin
Collapse
Brand Logo

agnos.is Forums

  1. Home
  2. Ask Lemmy
  3. When you buy stuff online, do you use your real name, or a false name/nickname/pseudoname?

When you buy stuff online, do you use your real name, or a false name/nickname/pseudoname?

Scheduled Pinned Locked Moved Ask Lemmy
asklemmy
30 Posts 25 Posters 0 Views
  • Oldest to Newest
  • Newest to Oldest
  • Most Votes
Reply
  • Reply as topic
Log in to reply
This topic has been deleted. Only users with topic management privileges can see it.
  • T This user is from outside of this forum
    T This user is from outside of this forum
    [email protected]
    wrote on last edited by
    #1

    I use my real name for packages in case I need support if there's a problem with the delivery, but like if I went to a restaurant, or order food delivery, I'd probably use a fake name so people don't be judging my fatass lol.

    ambiguousprops@lemmy.todayA M kolanaki@pawb.socialK appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.comA M 14 Replies Last reply
    4
    • T [email protected]

      I use my real name for packages in case I need support if there's a problem with the delivery, but like if I went to a restaurant, or order food delivery, I'd probably use a fake name so people don't be judging my fatass lol.

      ambiguousprops@lemmy.todayA This user is from outside of this forum
      ambiguousprops@lemmy.todayA This user is from outside of this forum
      [email protected]
      wrote on last edited by
      #2

      I use a fake name at restaurants and fast food, and if I know something is coming via FedEx or UPS, I also use a fake name for that too. Unfortunately USPS will only deliver packages to the listed names at your address, or I would use a fake name for everything.

      M G 2 Replies Last reply
      2
      • ambiguousprops@lemmy.todayA [email protected]

        I use a fake name at restaurants and fast food, and if I know something is coming via FedEx or UPS, I also use a fake name for that too. Unfortunately USPS will only deliver packages to the listed names at your address, or I would use a fake name for everything.

        M This user is from outside of this forum
        M This user is from outside of this forum
        [email protected]
        wrote on last edited by
        #3

        I have my Amazon orders come to a fake name to differentiate from my wife who orders under my name. I'm not saying you're wrong, but there is clearly a loophole.

        1 Reply Last reply
        0
        • T [email protected]

          I use my real name for packages in case I need support if there's a problem with the delivery, but like if I went to a restaurant, or order food delivery, I'd probably use a fake name so people don't be judging my fatass lol.

          M This user is from outside of this forum
          M This user is from outside of this forum
          [email protected]
          wrote on last edited by
          #4

          I don’t think I’ve ever used a fake name to order anything online.

          I can understand doing it for something potentially embarrassing or compromising, but until I saw this post it never even crossed my mind that there might be people that do it as a matter of course.

          T R 2 Replies Last reply
          5
          • T [email protected]

            I use my real name for packages in case I need support if there's a problem with the delivery, but like if I went to a restaurant, or order food delivery, I'd probably use a fake name so people don't be judging my fatass lol.

            kolanaki@pawb.socialK This user is from outside of this forum
            kolanaki@pawb.socialK This user is from outside of this forum
            [email protected]
            wrote on last edited by [email protected]
            #5

            Can't use a false name on the payment options, so I don't even bother with the address.

            Order food through an app, though, half of these things never let me enter a name and just use what is associated with the email I signed up with. So everything uses a nick name/alias and not my real name, since none of my email accounts use my real name for the real name field.

            S 1 Reply Last reply
            3
            • M [email protected]

              I don’t think I’ve ever used a fake name to order anything online.

              I can understand doing it for something potentially embarrassing or compromising, but until I saw this post it never even crossed my mind that there might be people that do it as a matter of course.

              T This user is from outside of this forum
              T This user is from outside of this forum
              [email protected]
              wrote on last edited by
              #6

              c/privacy has joined the chat

              C 1 Reply Last reply
              2
              • T [email protected]

                I use my real name for packages in case I need support if there's a problem with the delivery, but like if I went to a restaurant, or order food delivery, I'd probably use a fake name so people don't be judging my fatass lol.

                appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.comA This user is from outside of this forum
                appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.comA This user is from outside of this forum
                [email protected]
                wrote on last edited by
                #7

                Depends.
                Digital stuff? If I can my online nickname.
                Is it personal? I will maybe use real name
                Physical? Obviously legal name.

                1 Reply Last reply
                0
                • T [email protected]

                  I use my real name for packages in case I need support if there's a problem with the delivery, but like if I went to a restaurant, or order food delivery, I'd probably use a fake name so people don't be judging my fatass lol.

                  M This user is from outside of this forum
                  M This user is from outside of this forum
                  [email protected]
                  wrote on last edited by
                  #8

                  For things involving payments, the info should probably be real but I might use only a first name if I can get away with it. And if it's asking for an address for no good reason I'll give a fake address in the same city. No one's ever asked me for a name in a restaurant.

                  1 Reply Last reply
                  2
                  • M [email protected]

                    I don’t think I’ve ever used a fake name to order anything online.

                    I can understand doing it for something potentially embarrassing or compromising, but until I saw this post it never even crossed my mind that there might be people that do it as a matter of course.

                    R This user is from outside of this forum
                    R This user is from outside of this forum
                    [email protected]
                    wrote on last edited by
                    #9

                    Same here. If it ever got lost or I had to pick it up from the post office, it'd be pretty hard to prove I'm Fred Flintstone.

                    1 Reply Last reply
                    2
                    • T [email protected]

                      c/privacy has joined the chat

                      C This user is from outside of this forum
                      C This user is from outside of this forum
                      [email protected]
                      wrote on last edited by
                      #10

                      My name is on the credit card, so shipping it to a fake name isn’t doing anything but potentially drawing attention to myself.

                      T 1 Reply Last reply
                      5
                      • C [email protected]

                        My name is on the credit card, so shipping it to a fake name isn’t doing anything but potentially drawing attention to myself.

                        T This user is from outside of this forum
                        T This user is from outside of this forum
                        [email protected]
                        wrote on last edited by [email protected]
                        #11

                        privacy.com is available if you're in he US

                        But this is essentially shifting trust to them instead. Its like a VPN, but for payments. But given the nature of anti-money-laundering laws, its only safe from like amazon or your bank (provided you trust privacy.com to not sell your data); The government can definitely have no issues supoena all your purchases.

                        That and amazon lockers means you can kinda keep purchases somewhat secret. Like um.. adult stuff 😏

                        1 Reply Last reply
                        1
                        • T [email protected]

                          I use my real name for packages in case I need support if there's a problem with the delivery, but like if I went to a restaurant, or order food delivery, I'd probably use a fake name so people don't be judging my fatass lol.

                          radix@lemmy.worldR This user is from outside of this forum
                          radix@lemmy.worldR This user is from outside of this forum
                          [email protected]
                          wrote on last edited by
                          #12

                          Martavius Garantus Hawthorne IV is my real name, officer.

                          hossenfeffer@feddit.ukH 1 Reply Last reply
                          1
                          • T [email protected]

                            I use my real name for packages in case I need support if there's a problem with the delivery, but like if I went to a restaurant, or order food delivery, I'd probably use a fake name so people don't be judging my fatass lol.

                            robotzap10000@feddit.nlR This user is from outside of this forum
                            robotzap10000@feddit.nlR This user is from outside of this forum
                            [email protected]
                            wrote on last edited by
                            #13

                            My bank transactions already have my name plastered on every single one, and I certainly don't want any trouble with my courier due to me using a false name, so I don't do it. This doesn't mean that I don't make sure not to share my name online at all times.

                            T 1 Reply Last reply
                            1
                            • ambiguousprops@lemmy.todayA [email protected]

                              I use a fake name at restaurants and fast food, and if I know something is coming via FedEx or UPS, I also use a fake name for that too. Unfortunately USPS will only deliver packages to the listed names at your address, or I would use a fake name for everything.

                              G This user is from outside of this forum
                              G This user is from outside of this forum
                              [email protected]
                              wrote on last edited by
                              #14

                              I’ve lived in several states and USPS doesn’t care about your name. They want your legal name written on the mailbox (and will usually write it down if you don’t when you move in), but they will deliver to any ass name. I’ve used fake names for everything ever for a long time now and only had a problem once with an international shipment. You can mail random ass name to random ass address and they’ll put it at the address.

                              If USPS fails to deliver an international item that requires a signature, you need to show ID if they don’t try to redeliver. And your name must match or they won’t give it to you.

                              In my case, it was something that didn’t require a signature and even had a “no signature required” sticker on it from the sender because they do that enough apparently. And the USPS didn’t try to deliver it cause I have a cam. So the USPS person just gave it to me and told me to not fuck up again on international shipments and that was that!

                              In short, fake name good at all times except on international orders that require a signature.

                              undefined@lemmy.hogru.chU 1 Reply Last reply
                              0
                              • T [email protected]

                                I use my real name for packages in case I need support if there's a problem with the delivery, but like if I went to a restaurant, or order food delivery, I'd probably use a fake name so people don't be judging my fatass lol.

                                bishma@discuss.tchncs.deB This user is from outside of this forum
                                bishma@discuss.tchncs.deB This user is from outside of this forum
                                [email protected]
                                wrote on last edited by
                                #15

                                Years ago I used to sign up for free samples of things (found on a freebees sub) using the name Freema Balczak, because then I'd know if one of them sold my info... but mostly for shits and giggles.

                                1 Reply Last reply
                                1
                                • robotzap10000@feddit.nlR [email protected]

                                  My bank transactions already have my name plastered on every single one, and I certainly don't want any trouble with my courier due to me using a false name, so I don't do it. This doesn't mean that I don't make sure not to share my name online at all times.

                                  T This user is from outside of this forum
                                  T This user is from outside of this forum
                                  [email protected]
                                  wrote on last edited by
                                  #16

                                  Nice try, Rob.

                                  1 Reply Last reply
                                  1
                                  • T [email protected]

                                    I use my real name for packages in case I need support if there's a problem with the delivery, but like if I went to a restaurant, or order food delivery, I'd probably use a fake name so people don't be judging my fatass lol.

                                    joekrogan@lemmy.worldJ This user is from outside of this forum
                                    joekrogan@lemmy.worldJ This user is from outside of this forum
                                    [email protected]
                                    wrote on last edited by [email protected]
                                    #17

                                    Fake name and email and virtual card, unless legally required to give my real info. Businesses get hacked all of the time and i dont trust them.

                                    Also all of the grocery cards are all fake names too.

                                    1 Reply Last reply
                                    1
                                    • G [email protected]

                                      I’ve lived in several states and USPS doesn’t care about your name. They want your legal name written on the mailbox (and will usually write it down if you don’t when you move in), but they will deliver to any ass name. I’ve used fake names for everything ever for a long time now and only had a problem once with an international shipment. You can mail random ass name to random ass address and they’ll put it at the address.

                                      If USPS fails to deliver an international item that requires a signature, you need to show ID if they don’t try to redeliver. And your name must match or they won’t give it to you.

                                      In my case, it was something that didn’t require a signature and even had a “no signature required” sticker on it from the sender because they do that enough apparently. And the USPS didn’t try to deliver it cause I have a cam. So the USPS person just gave it to me and told me to not fuck up again on international shipments and that was that!

                                      In short, fake name good at all times except on international orders that require a signature.

                                      undefined@lemmy.hogru.chU This user is from outside of this forum
                                      undefined@lemmy.hogru.chU This user is from outside of this forum
                                      [email protected]
                                      wrote on last edited by
                                      #18

                                      I think it depends. I’ve noticed in newer developments that yes, they’ll only deliver to names of known recipients.

                                      But I’ve also lived in old-ass places most of my life and I can’t get them to stop delivering mail for someone who hasn’t lived here in 5+ years.

                                      1 Reply Last reply
                                      2
                                      • T [email protected]

                                        I use my real name for packages in case I need support if there's a problem with the delivery, but like if I went to a restaurant, or order food delivery, I'd probably use a fake name so people don't be judging my fatass lol.

                                        P This user is from outside of this forum
                                        P This user is from outside of this forum
                                        [email protected]
                                        wrote on last edited by [email protected]
                                        #19

                                        First time I ever order something from Amazon I used my user online user name Pac-Rat and couldn’t figure out why USPS put a hold on my package. When It arrived with Pacrat??? On the shipping label (and a week late) clued me in on what was wrong so I can’t recommend you do this for the sake of postal workers sanity.

                                        1 Reply Last reply
                                        2
                                        • kolanaki@pawb.socialK [email protected]

                                          Can't use a false name on the payment options, so I don't even bother with the address.

                                          Order food through an app, though, half of these things never let me enter a name and just use what is associated with the email I signed up with. So everything uses a nick name/alias and not my real name, since none of my email accounts use my real name for the real name field.

                                          S This user is from outside of this forum
                                          S This user is from outside of this forum
                                          [email protected]
                                          wrote on last edited by
                                          #20

                                          Yes you can use false names for billing info… zip code is often the only thing US processors check so if that’s right it’ll go through.

                                          rob_t_firefly@lemmy.worldR 1 Reply Last reply
                                          0
                                          Reply
                                          • Reply as topic
                                          Log in to reply
                                          • Oldest to Newest
                                          • Newest to Oldest
                                          • Most Votes


                                          • Login

                                          • Login or register to search.
                                          • First post
                                            Last post
                                          0
                                          • Categories
                                          • Recent
                                          • Tags
                                          • Popular
                                          • World
                                          • Users
                                          • Groups