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    So it's all about marketing your flesh bag to the highest bidder? Ah so ironic.

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    I mean, yeah? That's all job interviews are.

    Even not considering the visuals - you're just marketing yourself as more valuable to the corpo than others vying for the same place, regardless of whether you're a man or woman.

    But for women there's an extra barrier. Many men, especially on the older side literally do not believe a woman can actually be on-par with a man in your usual blue collar job, nevermind exceed one, they cannot be convinced as such no matter what.

    These are the types of men to give you a lecture about how you're not given a voice, but then literally never let you get a word in. This behaviour is so deeply ingrained and internalised it's just not really changeable.

    What you can do though is distract from whatever they think your value is by being "nice to look at". Their overall impression will be positive then when it comes to deciding these things at least.

    This same strategy has a less commonly needed equivalent of men having a good shot at giving female interviewers a good impression by being charming and sociable.

    Lookism is alive and well, always has been, probably always will be.

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      Me: if I DIY I'll save money!

      My 30 bottles of nail polish plus files and oils:

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      Well I don't do it because I don't really care. I work from home and when I need to go out I use sticker nails. They work wonders for up do 5 days if they are short enough and 1 pack lasts 3 different events. It works for me but it's not for everyone

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        Well I don't do it because I don't really care. I work from home and when I need to go out I use sticker nails. They work wonders for up do 5 days if they are short enough and 1 pack lasts 3 different events. It works for me but it's not for everyone

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        Valid to not care!

        I have fun with my nails, I don't see them as expected/socially required maintenance. In my field it's actually seen as less professional to have long nails, especially in noticable polish. I get excited when I get to work from home for a week because that means I can go crazy with nails and makeup.

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