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    You pay for the service of being waited on… don’t want to tip… then go to McDonald’s! wtf! 🤬

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    #158

    the restaurant pays for their staff… should you pay for having a table and chair too? staff is a basic requirement of a restaurant

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    • P [email protected]

      It was probably the percentage BEFORE a discount was given… just because a discount happens doesn’t mean you should skip out on the tip of a server… example, you have a $100 bill with a $50 discount, you DO NOT TIP ON THE DISCOUNT, you tip on THE TOTAL bill of service. You still all got the same amount of food and service, so stop with this short tipping staff!

      Can’t afford a tip then don’t fucking go to a damn restaurant! I make more as a server with half the hours than when I was a full time teacher! America is fucked but don’t fuck fellow people over because you can’t comprehend the tipping culture and are a cheap POS!

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      This may be a "hot take" but the service staff is employed by the restaurant, not me. It's not my job to pay the employees of the restaurant. It's the owners and employers job to pay the staff. I want to know the price of the thing I'm buying when I order it, not after taxes are added and in some places a "cost of living" fee on top of that. Then to expect the customer to pay even more on top of all the extra bs fees the house charges instead of just increasing the price of the food. No thanks

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      • P [email protected]

        It was probably the percentage BEFORE a discount was given… just because a discount happens doesn’t mean you should skip out on the tip of a server… example, you have a $100 bill with a $50 discount, you DO NOT TIP ON THE DISCOUNT, you tip on THE TOTAL bill of service. You still all got the same amount of food and service, so stop with this short tipping staff!

        Can’t afford a tip then don’t fucking go to a damn restaurant! I make more as a server with half the hours than when I was a full time teacher! America is fucked but don’t fuck fellow people over because you can’t comprehend the tipping culture and are a cheap POS!

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        #160

        You're right. Not sure why you'd be down voted, other than if people found your conclusion a bit heavy.

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        • P [email protected]

          You pay for the service of being waited on… don’t want to tip… then go to McDonald’s! wtf! 🤬

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          It's not a "service". All I want from the staff is to tell them what I want to order and to bring the food. That's all. I don't see what extra "service" I'm supposedly paying for

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          • M [email protected]

            This may be anecdotal, but I ran into this exact same issue a few weeks ago. The suggested 20% was significantly higher than the 20% on the bill. It took me a little bit to figure out, but we were at the restaurant for a steak special and happy hour. The 20% tip was for the non-special price. For example, the steak and two sides special was $18, but the normal price was $28. The drinks were $5 but the normal price was $8. So the suggested tip was 20% of $36, not 20% of $23. These aren't the exact numbers, and there were two of us, but you get the idea. The POS/Tip suggestion is setup so the servers don't get the shit end of the stick when the restaurant is doing a deal/special. I'm not sure I fully agree with it, and I have my own beef with tipping culture in general, but I'm just looking to explain what might be seen in OP's photo.

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            It's not hard to include a disclaimer tip prices based on full price if that's the case to avoid looking bad.

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            • A [email protected]

              Tipping is a holdover from slavery. It’s a way to control service workers.

              This doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t tip people who rely on tips, it means the system is fucking broken by design.

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              Tips are a big reason I stopped going out. Everybody wants one.

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              • P [email protected]

                You pay for the service of being waited on… don’t want to tip… then go to McDonald’s! wtf! 🤬

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                Do you tip for the service for customer tech support or similar customer facing industries as well?

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                  Always tip on the subtotal. If your server worked their ass off for your table but you had a coupon for, let's say, 50% off 2 entrees and a birthday dessert, that's just devalued their effort by about $50.

                  Also, the tipping culture is broken, and this is bonkers.

                  I came from a tipping-optional culture and worked foodservice. If I got good tips, they went back into the bar at the end of the shift, or into my savings jar at home. It was never make-or-break on whether I got to pay rent or not.

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                  The tip is not their salary, it's an optional gratuity. It doesn't devalue shit. They should get paid a living wage, and that's it. That or you better stop being a hypocrite and start tipping tech support as well.

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                    Tip your fellow workers. Agitate for companies to pay their workers a living wage, but in the meantime - tip your comrades.

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                    #166

                    Yeah sure, but the person already tipped 20%? How TF is that greedy?

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                      If your employees rely on tips to meet months end, your business model is shit.

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                      • P [email protected]

                        You pay for the service of being waited on… don’t want to tip… then go to McDonald’s! wtf! 🤬

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                        Is there an option to pick up my own food at the counter? I'd gladly do it.

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                          Tips are a big reason I stopped going out. Everybody wants one.

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                          Every single time I see a fucking Square cash register… One of these motherfuckers:

                          Every single time I see that piece of shit, I know I’m about to hear the “it’s just going to ask you a few questions” line. And those “few questions” will be asking me to tip 25 goddamned percent on something that I’ve never tipped for before.

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                            Yeah, what's likely happening here is that the tip numbers were calculated off the subtotal intentionally. So say you buy a "happy hour" drink and it is $3 instead of $6, they tip is calculated before the "discount".

                            Their machine could have actually been wrong, but using a total before discounts seems more likely.

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                            On the surface, I can understand this. It’s not the server’s fault that they got the happy hour rush when everything is 50% off. If anything, they had to work harder because it was busier. Why punish them for that extra work with lower tip calculations? The drinks aren’t any easier or faster to pour just because they’re half off. It should at least be transparent, but I at least understand the reasoning.

                            What does bug me is when the tip calculations are based on the after-tax total. Fuck that, I’m already getting taxed 10% on this, you don’t need your 18% calculated from that extra 10%.

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                            • A [email protected]

                              Fuck tips. 0 tips. Pay your people.

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                              #171

                              I’m all for refusing to tip, but be up-front about it. Let the server know ahead of time that you won’t be tipping. Hell, let the manager (or if it’s a smaller place, the owner) know too, so you can actually get your opinion heard by someone who may be able to effect change. Make it clear that your refusal to tip is not a reflection of the server, but a protest against tipping culture.

                              Hell, while talking to the manager, you should also ask if they require servers to tip out the back-of-house staff. If you’re refusing to tip, it’s entirely possible that your server is losing money on your order, because they’re required to pay the kitchen a percentage of your bill. If the server is required to tip out, be clear that you want your bill excluded from the tip out, since you’re refusing to tip based on strongly held personal beliefs. If the manager protests or says it isn’t possible (it is possible, but they’ll lie to try to get you to tip), then they can serve you personally.

                              You’ll still get served, but it’ll be with the level of service that the waiter thinks you should get, rather than with the level of service that you think you deserve. If you’re going to refuse to tip, at least take the mask off and be honest so your server can do the same.

                              If you’re willing to do that, then more power to you. Believe it or not, many servers will be chill about it, and treat you the same as any other customer. Especially if you’re there when it’s slow, and they don’t need to tip out the back of house staff. They’re not losing any money by serving you, and they aren’t super busy so they have no reason to ignore you. But if you’re afraid to be honest because you might get worse service, then you’re just a scab who is leeching from the tipping culture and only hurting the working class.

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                                On the surface, I can understand this. It’s not the server’s fault that they got the happy hour rush when everything is 50% off. If anything, they had to work harder because it was busier. Why punish them for that extra work with lower tip calculations? The drinks aren’t any easier or faster to pour just because they’re half off. It should at least be transparent, but I at least understand the reasoning.

                                What does bug me is when the tip calculations are based on the after-tax total. Fuck that, I’m already getting taxed 10% on this, you don’t need your 18% calculated from that extra 10%.

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                                I'll meet you half way, we'll not suggest you pay tips on taxes, but you will pay a $2.99 dining room fee to use our facilities. You can avoid this by doing pick up with a $1.99 convenience fee.

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                                  On the surface, I can understand this. It’s not the server’s fault that they got the happy hour rush when everything is 50% off. If anything, they had to work harder because it was busier. Why punish them for that extra work with lower tip calculations? The drinks aren’t any easier or faster to pour just because they’re half off. It should at least be transparent, but I at least understand the reasoning.

                                  What does bug me is when the tip calculations are based on the after-tax total. Fuck that, I’m already getting taxed 10% on this, you don’t need your 18% calculated from that extra 10%.

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                                  I don't really follow this reasoning, so a drink cost X but you calculate Y because at other times it costs Y.

                                  So if you go to a cheap restaurant you increase your tip because the restaurant next door has higher prices? The staff in the cheap restaurant works just as hard, maybe harder.

                                  This whole tip thing need to die ASAP. If everybody just stopped tipping staff would get a normal pay or a better paying other job. But if you don't tip, how do you show appreciation?? Well, do you tip your wife when she does something nice for you?? No, so people can show appreciation without money.

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                                    The whole tip thing is a scam to begin with.

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                                    • P [email protected]

                                      It was probably the percentage BEFORE a discount was given… just because a discount happens doesn’t mean you should skip out on the tip of a server… example, you have a $100 bill with a $50 discount, you DO NOT TIP ON THE DISCOUNT, you tip on THE TOTAL bill of service. You still all got the same amount of food and service, so stop with this short tipping staff!

                                      Can’t afford a tip then don’t fucking go to a damn restaurant! I make more as a server with half the hours than when I was a full time teacher! America is fucked but don’t fuck fellow people over because you can’t comprehend the tipping culture and are a cheap POS!

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                                      The problem is that because of the way it's written, it ends up being misleading.

                                      If there was a simple disclaimer like "tip based on non-discounted prices", it would've been fine.

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                                        whenever I see a "suggested tip for your inconvenience" I feel the urge to research (aka google) their reported earnings for the last economical year, calculate their profit margin and write that in the tip line and to pay their employees better instead of trying to shift the costs onto the customers with scammy guilty conscience. Fuck establishments like that, especially those who are then trying to conceive you ONTOP of the already bs tips

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                                        • N [email protected]

                                          It's not a "service". All I want from the staff is to tell them what I want to order and to bring the food. That's all. I don't see what extra "service" I'm supposedly paying for

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                                          I like prompt refills. I'm happy to tip for that.

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