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Am I the only one who thinks social media has destroyed the spirit of the internet?

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  • P [email protected]

    Cool table!

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    3rd one is obsolete now and has been replaced with affection

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    • realcalliopa@lemmy.worldR [email protected]

      The emergence of social media has destroyed all the small communities to standardize communication and information.

      It's a bit of a digital version of rural exodus. And since 2017/2018, I've noticed that everything that, in my opinion, represented the internet has disappeared.

      I've known Lemmy for a few hours and I feel like I'm back in the early spirit of the internet.

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      Social media is a great idea, honestly. What's ruined it is the same thing that ruins everything - money men.

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      • gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.deG [email protected]

        Most people aren't made for the internet.

        Most people can't handle the type of information. Most people fall for rage-bait, hate-inducing, right-wing propaganda.

        We need to find a way to make the internet a thing where there's only people on it who actually want to use the internet in a healthy way.

        One way to do this is to say no to commercialized parts of the internet. Say no to all commercial platforms selling ads or selling your data. These are full of rage-bait and only attract the worst in humans.

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        Reminder if you want this platform to continue to exist, you should donate to Lemmy. Devs, your instance, your favorite app, etc. If you can’t afford to donate, try and recruit a few of your friends to Lemmy.

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        • realcalliopa@lemmy.worldR [email protected]

          The emergence of social media has destroyed all the small communities to standardize communication and information.

          It's a bit of a digital version of rural exodus. And since 2017/2018, I've noticed that everything that, in my opinion, represented the internet has disappeared.

          I've known Lemmy for a few hours and I feel like I'm back in the early spirit of the internet.

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          Social media is just a symptom of the larger problem which is the corporations prefering to build walled gardens so they can control users rather than the open protocols that defined the early internet. Back in the day, I used to call it "everything becoming facebook".

          Social media is fundamentally a moat - a wall built around a set of consumers to keep them away from competitors. Investors love moats. If you whisper as quietly as you possibly can to yourself "I found a company with a wide moat that no one is talking about yet" JP Morgan himself will literally burst through your wall like the Kool Aid Man. They love it because it avoids competition, and as much as competition is the whole point of capitalism, it's the last thing an actual capitalist wants to deal with.

          A big part of what made the early internet super valuable was the opposite of moats: open protocols. For example how GMail can send email to Yahoo or any other email provider. If Google had their way, that's not how email would work at all - you'd need a google account to both send and receive emails. That's why these companies have been trying to kill email for ages, trying to get people to use their own proprietary messaging systems instead, where you can only send to others with an account. Then they could capture you and keep you all to themselves.

          Which brings us to the fediverse. The fediverse is an attempt to return to open protocols rather than creating a moat around a group of users. In many ways it's like email - your email provider might cut off a server if it's just sending spam all day, and this is basically defederation. But otherwise nothing stops you from communicating with anyone, and that's how it should be.

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          • realcalliopa@lemmy.worldR [email protected]

            The emergence of social media has destroyed all the small communities to standardize communication and information.

            It's a bit of a digital version of rural exodus. And since 2017/2018, I've noticed that everything that, in my opinion, represented the internet has disappeared.

            I've known Lemmy for a few hours and I feel like I'm back in the early spirit of the internet.

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            Which Douglas Rushkoff book is this concept again? I've lost track.

            The internet keeps dying again and again. It started as a research project turned into a way to aid research. Then the sphere grew as nerds found a space to connect with other nerds. It was a community space where people knew each other. The only big source of trouble was each year, in September, when a new crop of kids gained access to the internet at their college. They had to be educated in the social structures and ethos of the culture they were stepping into.

            Then, in the early nineties, the spirit of the internet died, in the Eternal September, as ISPs encouraged non-nerds to enter the cyber world. The community was flooded with more new people than could ever be trained to follow the cultural standards that had been established, and so they simply overwhelmed the capacity of the society to maintain itself.

            Then those people began creating a new culture, a multiculture, with communities and sites forming around anyone with a bit of passion they wanted to share with the world wide web. People taught themselves web development just to share pictures of their families and poetry about their favorite trees.

            But then, the spirit of the internet died. Advertisers wanted to take advantage of the new space to which everyone seemed to be devoting so much attention. They started monetizing sites. Creating sites became less and less about sharing your passion, and more and more about generating ad revenue.

            And the internet persisted. Despite the disgust of the users, nothing seemed to stop the influx of capital into the community. And then came encryption, allowing people to even buy and sell things online. The internet died again, becoming a giant mall, a place you went to find stuff to buy rather than people to talk to.

            And then came social media. It took the idea loved by so many of the early pioneers of the internet, that everyone could have their own site, dedicated to whatever they loved most, and centralized it. Friendster, sixdegrees, MySpace, and so on. With this change, the spirit of the web died again, commercializing even the idea of your personal page, your digital representation of yourself.

            It has died. It will die again. Nothing can be relied upon.

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            • realcalliopa@lemmy.worldR [email protected]

              The emergence of social media has destroyed all the small communities to standardize communication and information.

              It's a bit of a digital version of rural exodus. And since 2017/2018, I've noticed that everything that, in my opinion, represented the internet has disappeared.

              I've known Lemmy for a few hours and I feel like I'm back in the early spirit of the internet.

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              The old internet was just an intermediate stage between the standardised internet, and before the internet when you had to find a clear channel through the ionosphere. Congratulations, however old you are, you've lived long enough to be bitter that the world has changed.

              Now if we're talking about the specific way it's developed with a new generation of robber barons controlling everything, obviously few here will disagree.

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              • realcalliopa@lemmy.worldR [email protected]

                The emergence of social media has destroyed all the small communities to standardize communication and information.

                It's a bit of a digital version of rural exodus. And since 2017/2018, I've noticed that everything that, in my opinion, represented the internet has disappeared.

                I've known Lemmy for a few hours and I feel like I'm back in the early spirit of the internet.

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                Not social media. Capitalism.

                The internet was ALWAYS social (e.g. telnet). It wasn’t ruined by people using technology to connect, it was ruined by capitalism finding new, insidious ways to monetize the human social drive.

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                • realcalliopa@lemmy.worldR [email protected]

                  The emergence of social media has destroyed all the small communities to standardize communication and information.

                  It's a bit of a digital version of rural exodus. And since 2017/2018, I've noticed that everything that, in my opinion, represented the internet has disappeared.

                  I've known Lemmy for a few hours and I feel like I'm back in the early spirit of the internet.

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                  You really think you're the first one, much less the only one, to say that? Really?

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                  • monstrosity@lemm.eeM [email protected]

                    OP is asking about where to find cute, locally owned retailers & you are telling them they can find the same shit at the mall.

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                    No, I’m telling them that the cute, locally owned retailers are in the mall.

                    Take discord for example - I’m in a small group with like 120ish other people who play an old game online. I also used to be on the subreddit which was small and not garbage unlike the majority of reddit, until I left along with a lot of the others for discord.

                    The point is there are tonnes of small sub communities on the big platforms. It helps with visibility and user base.

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                    • B [email protected]

                      Not social media. Capitalism.

                      The internet was ALWAYS social (e.g. telnet). It wasn’t ruined by people using technology to connect, it was ruined by capitalism finding new, insidious ways to monetize the human social drive.

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                      i think the difference is that before the internet was a social mesh of countless websites.

                      while today it's just a handful of social media sites.

                      yhea, it's capitalism, but social media is the main tool capitalism used.

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                      • N [email protected]

                        You really think you're the first one, much less the only one, to say that? Really?

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                        just because someone wasn't the first to say something, doesn't mean they shouldn't say it

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                          just because someone wasn't the first to say something, doesn't mean they shouldn't say it

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                          That's nice. Don't know why you're telling me I never suggested remotely that.

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                          • realcalliopa@lemmy.worldR [email protected]

                            The emergence of social media has destroyed all the small communities to standardize communication and information.

                            It's a bit of a digital version of rural exodus. And since 2017/2018, I've noticed that everything that, in my opinion, represented the internet has disappeared.

                            I've known Lemmy for a few hours and I feel like I'm back in the early spirit of the internet.

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                            Yes. You are the only one in the entire fucking world.

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                              That's nice. Don't know why you're telling me I never suggested remotely that.

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                              You really think you're the first one, much less the only one, to say that? Really?

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                                You really think you're the first one, much less the only one, to say that? Really?

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                                You want to walk us through that one Magellan because I'm curious to see how you're gonna get from A to Z.

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                                • B [email protected]

                                  Not social media. Capitalism.

                                  The internet was ALWAYS social (e.g. telnet). It wasn’t ruined by people using technology to connect, it was ruined by capitalism finding new, insidious ways to monetize the human social drive.

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                                  This is why I'm finding more and more that it's easier to find local events the "old fashioned way" (word-of-mouth, flyers, local newspapers and zines, etc) rather than through social media. It used to be easier to see events local to me, but now the algorithm pushes events that I may like but aren't local at all. Sometimes I do actually see something local, but it's too late.

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                                  • realcalliopa@lemmy.worldR [email protected]

                                    The emergence of social media has destroyed all the small communities to standardize communication and information.

                                    It's a bit of a digital version of rural exodus. And since 2017/2018, I've noticed that everything that, in my opinion, represented the internet has disappeared.

                                    I've known Lemmy for a few hours and I feel like I'm back in the early spirit of the internet.

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                                      The old internet was just an intermediate stage between the standardised internet, and before the internet when you had to find a clear channel through the ionosphere. Congratulations, however old you are, you've lived long enough to be bitter that the world has changed.

                                      Now if we're talking about the specific way it's developed with a new generation of robber barons controlling everything, obviously few here will disagree.

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                                      Forums are dead, replaced by unsearchable fb and discord and searchable reddit.
                                      Discord being completely unsuitable and other two being propaganda platforms and most users use them to farm e-fame.

                                      And nobody agrees to drop them for any reason either. A few years back entire fb sized sites were dropped and replaced over the smallest of infractions.

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                                      • realcalliopa@lemmy.worldR [email protected]

                                        The emergence of social media has destroyed all the small communities to standardize communication and information.

                                        It's a bit of a digital version of rural exodus. And since 2017/2018, I've noticed that everything that, in my opinion, represented the internet has disappeared.

                                        I've known Lemmy for a few hours and I feel like I'm back in the early spirit of the internet.

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                                        social media has destroyed the spirit of the internet?

                                        I’ve known Lemmy for a few hours and I feel like I’m back in the early spirit of the internet.

                                        I mean, Lemmy is social media. You might dislike centralized social media or something, but...

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                                        • C [email protected]

                                          I fucking hate anyone on the internet who starts with "am I the only one..." Its so tired, lazy, lacks creativity, and has a touch of narcissism or inability to be self-aware.

                                          But this!

                                          Holy shit. For anyone to truly think they are the only ones to have considered social media to be such a bad thing with 7-8 billion of us and social media for 20 fucking years.

                                          Absolute garbage. Get a mirror and do some reflection OP. Holy fucking shit.

                                          And for the record.... NOBODY is the only one for anything. Pick a different I tro for once. Holy god damned shit.

                                          I can only hope some twatwaffle responds to me merely saying "This."

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                                          Am I the only who who thinks they are overreacting a little?

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