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Am I the only one who thinks social media has destroyed the spirit of the internet?

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  • monstrosity@lemm.eeM [email protected]

    OP is asking about where to find cute, locally owned retailers & you are telling them they can find the same shit at the mall.

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    No, I’m telling them that the cute, locally owned retailers are in the mall.

    Take discord for example - I’m in a small group with like 120ish other people who play an old game online. I also used to be on the subreddit which was small and not garbage unlike the majority of reddit, until I left along with a lot of the others for discord.

    The point is there are tonnes of small sub communities on the big platforms. It helps with visibility and user base.

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      Not social media. Capitalism.

      The internet was ALWAYS social (e.g. telnet). It wasn’t ruined by people using technology to connect, it was ruined by capitalism finding new, insidious ways to monetize the human social drive.

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      i think the difference is that before the internet was a social mesh of countless websites.

      while today it's just a handful of social media sites.

      yhea, it's capitalism, but social media is the main tool capitalism used.

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        You really think you're the first one, much less the only one, to say that? Really?

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        just because someone wasn't the first to say something, doesn't mean they shouldn't say it

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          just because someone wasn't the first to say something, doesn't mean they shouldn't say it

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          That's nice. Don't know why you're telling me I never suggested remotely that.

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          • realcalliopa@lemmy.worldR [email protected]

            The emergence of social media has destroyed all the small communities to standardize communication and information.

            It's a bit of a digital version of rural exodus. And since 2017/2018, I've noticed that everything that, in my opinion, represented the internet has disappeared.

            I've known Lemmy for a few hours and I feel like I'm back in the early spirit of the internet.

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            Yes. You are the only one in the entire fucking world.

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              That's nice. Don't know why you're telling me I never suggested remotely that.

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              You really think you're the first one, much less the only one, to say that? Really?

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                You really think you're the first one, much less the only one, to say that? Really?

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                You want to walk us through that one Magellan because I'm curious to see how you're gonna get from A to Z.

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                  Not social media. Capitalism.

                  The internet was ALWAYS social (e.g. telnet). It wasn’t ruined by people using technology to connect, it was ruined by capitalism finding new, insidious ways to monetize the human social drive.

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                  This is why I'm finding more and more that it's easier to find local events the "old fashioned way" (word-of-mouth, flyers, local newspapers and zines, etc) rather than through social media. It used to be easier to see events local to me, but now the algorithm pushes events that I may like but aren't local at all. Sometimes I do actually see something local, but it's too late.

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                  • realcalliopa@lemmy.worldR [email protected]

                    The emergence of social media has destroyed all the small communities to standardize communication and information.

                    It's a bit of a digital version of rural exodus. And since 2017/2018, I've noticed that everything that, in my opinion, represented the internet has disappeared.

                    I've known Lemmy for a few hours and I feel like I'm back in the early spirit of the internet.

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                      The old internet was just an intermediate stage between the standardised internet, and before the internet when you had to find a clear channel through the ionosphere. Congratulations, however old you are, you've lived long enough to be bitter that the world has changed.

                      Now if we're talking about the specific way it's developed with a new generation of robber barons controlling everything, obviously few here will disagree.

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                      Forums are dead, replaced by unsearchable fb and discord and searchable reddit.
                      Discord being completely unsuitable and other two being propaganda platforms and most users use them to farm e-fame.

                      And nobody agrees to drop them for any reason either. A few years back entire fb sized sites were dropped and replaced over the smallest of infractions.

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                      • realcalliopa@lemmy.worldR [email protected]

                        The emergence of social media has destroyed all the small communities to standardize communication and information.

                        It's a bit of a digital version of rural exodus. And since 2017/2018, I've noticed that everything that, in my opinion, represented the internet has disappeared.

                        I've known Lemmy for a few hours and I feel like I'm back in the early spirit of the internet.

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                        social media has destroyed the spirit of the internet?

                        I’ve known Lemmy for a few hours and I feel like I’m back in the early spirit of the internet.

                        I mean, Lemmy is social media. You might dislike centralized social media or something, but...

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                          I fucking hate anyone on the internet who starts with "am I the only one..." Its so tired, lazy, lacks creativity, and has a touch of narcissism or inability to be self-aware.

                          But this!

                          Holy shit. For anyone to truly think they are the only ones to have considered social media to be such a bad thing with 7-8 billion of us and social media for 20 fucking years.

                          Absolute garbage. Get a mirror and do some reflection OP. Holy fucking shit.

                          And for the record.... NOBODY is the only one for anything. Pick a different I tro for once. Holy god damned shit.

                          I can only hope some twatwaffle responds to me merely saying "This."

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                          Am I the only who who thinks they are overreacting a little?

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                          • realcalliopa@lemmy.worldR [email protected]

                            The emergence of social media has destroyed all the small communities to standardize communication and information.

                            It's a bit of a digital version of rural exodus. And since 2017/2018, I've noticed that everything that, in my opinion, represented the internet has disappeared.

                            I've known Lemmy for a few hours and I feel like I'm back in the early spirit of the internet.

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                            Yeah its definitely just you...

                            https://medium.com/@darianoneil/because-the-internet-how-social-media-ruined-music-ec2022282aa4

                            https://www.reddit.com/r/changemyview/comments/18tm3i8/cmv_social_media_is_destroying_western_society/

                            https://listverse.com/2021/05/24/top-10-ways-social-media-is-ruining-the-world/

                            https://www.bernsteinresearch.com/CMSObjectBR/Files/Recruiting/Global Internet - Has TikTok Ruined The Internet.pdf

                            https://www.theatlantic.com/technology/archive/2024/01/long-youtube-videos-tiktok/677130/

                            https://knowyourbest.com/social-media-ruined-society/

                            https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/how_social_media_brings_out_the_worst_in_us

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                              The idea (from around 2010ish) was that every platform is an app and every app is everything. A company buys up other smaller companies until you have a payment system, a marketplace, a VOIP system, advertising, job posting boards, 4 different waya to share media, etc. etc.

                              You're describing AOL. This is nothing new. And just as AOL failed and faded, so will the social media giants.

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                              I understand what you're saying, but AOL had the opposite problem. The internet at that time was hard to use in general, so it was more about trying to provide enough of anything to get commercial viability for regular people. At one point, AOL was 30% of the entire internet. Seriously, it hosted almost a third of everything online. The alternatives were CompuServe or Prodigy or simply not being online at all. But you paid for it up front as an ISP. AOL didn't provide anything for free up front.

                              The Web 2.0 walled garden approach is about preventing you from wandering out onto the wide open spaces of the rest of the internet out there and not seeing the content curated to make the platform provider money. And making the 10% of daily internet content composed of idiotic FB comments and posts seem like it's worth all your time when you can easily use one of 5 or 6 search engines to find alternative content. Making staying in the garden so cost effective and frictionless that even using a search engine seems "hard" to do.

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                              • realcalliopa@lemmy.worldR [email protected]

                                The emergence of social media has destroyed all the small communities to standardize communication and information.

                                It's a bit of a digital version of rural exodus. And since 2017/2018, I've noticed that everything that, in my opinion, represented the internet has disappeared.

                                I've known Lemmy for a few hours and I feel like I'm back in the early spirit of the internet.

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                                It's not 2017-18 social media, friend. It's just late state capitalism.

                                And the lion's share of it can be traced to increasing real estate and rent prices.

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                                • realcalliopa@lemmy.worldR [email protected]

                                  The emergence of social media has destroyed all the small communities to standardize communication and information.

                                  It's a bit of a digital version of rural exodus. And since 2017/2018, I've noticed that everything that, in my opinion, represented the internet has disappeared.

                                  I've known Lemmy for a few hours and I feel like I'm back in the early spirit of the internet.

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                                  It's not social media that did it. It's monopolistic, unregulated, greedy, giant tech corporations that made the internet shitty.

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                                  • tigeruppercut@lemmy.zipT [email protected]

                                    I also like zombocom

                                    https://zombo.com/

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                                    Shoutout for https://www.marginalia.nu/ too!

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                                    • realcalliopa@lemmy.worldR [email protected]

                                      The emergence of social media has destroyed all the small communities to standardize communication and information.

                                      It's a bit of a digital version of rural exodus. And since 2017/2018, I've noticed that everything that, in my opinion, represented the internet has disappeared.

                                      I've known Lemmy for a few hours and I feel like I'm back in the early spirit of the internet.

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                                      Does anybody not think that?

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                                      • realcalliopa@lemmy.worldR [email protected]

                                        The emergence of social media has destroyed all the small communities to standardize communication and information.

                                        It's a bit of a digital version of rural exodus. And since 2017/2018, I've noticed that everything that, in my opinion, represented the internet has disappeared.

                                        I've known Lemmy for a few hours and I feel like I'm back in the early spirit of the internet.

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                                        You don't consider Lemmy to be social media?

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                                        • realcalliopa@lemmy.worldR [email protected]

                                          The emergence of social media has destroyed all the small communities to standardize communication and information.

                                          It's a bit of a digital version of rural exodus. And since 2017/2018, I've noticed that everything that, in my opinion, represented the internet has disappeared.

                                          I've known Lemmy for a few hours and I feel like I'm back in the early spirit of the internet.

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                                          Nah. Just corpos.

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