I subscribe to c/womensstuff and I've seen the messages to men who post there accidentally.

[mrsdoyle@sh.itjust.works]

I subscribe to c/womensstuff and I've seen the messages to men who post there accidentally. They go like this: "thanks for your comment, but unfortunately this community has a rule that only women are permitted to comment - hope you understand 🧡"

How is this "somewhat abusive"?

[tar_alcaran@sh.itjust.works]

Well, when you're used to privilege...