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Netherlands: 18 year old Ryan al-Najjar was tied up, beaten, and drowned by her father and brothers for being too Westernized

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  • R [email protected]

    And of course, there it is.

    Ryan’s murder is horrifying. She deserved safety, freedom, and support—but instead, she was failed by the people closest to her and by institutions meant to protect her. What happened to her wasn’t about Islam—it was about patriarchal control and deadly misogyny cloaked in the language of religion.

    And that’s not unique to Islam. In ultra-Orthodox Jewish communities, women have been attacked for dressing “immodestly” or denied divorces for years. In some conservative Christian circles, honor, shame, and purity culture have been used to justify abuse, disownment, or worse. This kind of violence is rooted in power, not faith.

    It is fundamentalist religion in general that puts women at risk. No single one is devoid of such attacks.

    It’s wrong to exploit Ryan’s death to stoke Islamophobia. Doing so ignores the broader pattern of gender-based violence that exists across cultures and religions. If we really care about preventing tragedies like this, we should be talking about how to hold abusers accountable, how to recognize warning signs, and how to protect women and girls from systems that excuse control as “tradition.”

    Blaming one single faith just distracts from real solutions.

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    All religions are a monstrous evil.

    If you believe otherwise, you are comically naive and attitudes like yours are partly responsible for this child’s death.

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    • R [email protected]

      And of course, there it is.

      Ryan’s murder is horrifying. She deserved safety, freedom, and support—but instead, she was failed by the people closest to her and by institutions meant to protect her. What happened to her wasn’t about Islam—it was about patriarchal control and deadly misogyny cloaked in the language of religion.

      And that’s not unique to Islam. In ultra-Orthodox Jewish communities, women have been attacked for dressing “immodestly” or denied divorces for years. In some conservative Christian circles, honor, shame, and purity culture have been used to justify abuse, disownment, or worse. This kind of violence is rooted in power, not faith.

      It is fundamentalist religion in general that puts women at risk. No single one is devoid of such attacks.

      It’s wrong to exploit Ryan’s death to stoke Islamophobia. Doing so ignores the broader pattern of gender-based violence that exists across cultures and religions. If we really care about preventing tragedies like this, we should be talking about how to hold abusers accountable, how to recognize warning signs, and how to protect women and girls from systems that excuse control as “tradition.”

      Blaming one single faith just distracts from real solutions.

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      #89

      It is fundamentalist religion in general that puts women at risk.

      Yeah, I get it, fundamentalists are terrible.

      But this one was a Muslim and leftists, for some reason, like to platform Islam while this bullshit happens.

      Islam, and pretty much every other religion, is an absolute plague on humanity.

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      • R [email protected]

        Killed for not acting the way men expect them to act? That sounds pretty USian to be honest.

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        #90

        It sounds like the Abrahamic cults, whose tentacles are all over the western world.

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        • V [email protected]

          Islam is a plague.

          I dont understand why leftists try and platform this terrible religion.

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          The idea of using your religion as an excuse to kill people is not exclusive to Islam. There are actually quite a few instances in the christian bible where people kill due to religion.

          If you actually want to get away from religious killing, as a society, we must denounce religion as a whole. Blaming one religion is just stirring the pot.

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          • anonomouswolf@lemmy.worldA [email protected]

            A Syrian refugee who fled to the Netherlands has reportedly confessed to murdering his 18-year-old daughter and dumping her body in a canal before fleeing the country in an apparent admission note sent to a Dutch newspaper.

            Father-of-nine Khaled al-Najjar, 52, wrote in an email sent to De Telegraaf that he had killed his 18-year-old daughter Ryan al-Najjar, urging the publication to report 'I am the one who killed'.

            The confession did not specify exactly why he had decided to murder his daughter, with al-Najjar writing only that he was 'very angry with her', adding: 'The reason is between me and the judge. I will read that in court'.

            But neighbours and friends suspect Ryan's death came as the result of an honour killing, with one claiming they had previously sheltered her when she had fled the family home in fear of retribution from her father.

            Requesting anonymity to prevent any backlash, they told De Telegraaf that Ryan had a Dutch boyfriend, wanted to stop wearing a headscarf and had been beaten by her father who disagreed with her adoption of a Western lifestyle.

            Source:

            1. https://nltimes.nl/2025/06/30/brothers-still-deny-involvement-18-year-old-sisters-honor-killing

            2. https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13501735/Syrian-refugee-murders-Westernised-daughter-18-honour-killing-dumps-canal-started-dating-local-Dutch-boy-wanted-stop-wearing-headscarf.html

            3. https://www.atheistrepublic.com/news/fatal-traditions-shocking-honor-killing-netherlands

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            #92

            First question, why the fuck did they flee or move to the Netherlands? Money and excellent public services. Bosnia-Herzegovina or Turkey would be the more suited choices to maintain the Sharia rules.

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            • G [email protected]

              First question, why the fuck did they flee or move to the Netherlands? Money and excellent public services. Bosnia-Herzegovina or Turkey would be the more suited choices to maintain the Sharia rules.

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              #93

              Not everyone has the privilege to choose where they move.

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              • V [email protected]

                Islam is a plague.

                I dont understand why leftists try and platform this terrible religion.

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                #94

                Lmao funny how fascist pos suddenly care about women's right when it comes to shitting on brown people

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                • G [email protected]

                  First question, why the fuck did they flee or move to the Netherlands? Money and excellent public services. Bosnia-Herzegovina or Turkey would be the more suited choices to maintain the Sharia rules.

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                  #95

                  Indoctrination is a hell of a thing, might escape it physically, but still being trapped mentally.

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                  • V [email protected]

                    It is fundamentalist religion in general that puts women at risk.

                    Yeah, I get it, fundamentalists are terrible.

                    But this one was a Muslim and leftists, for some reason, like to platform Islam while this bullshit happens.

                    Islam, and pretty much every other religion, is an absolute plague on humanity.

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                    #96

                    Ever heard of freedom of religion you dumb cunt?

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                    • M [email protected]

                      The idea of using your religion as an excuse to kill people is not exclusive to Islam. There are actually quite a few instances in the christian bible where people kill due to religion.

                      If you actually want to get away from religious killing, as a society, we must denounce religion as a whole. Blaming one religion is just stirring the pot.

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                      #97

                      Oh yeah, im very aware.

                      But this article is about Islam, so im going to talk about Islam.

                      Weird how that works huh?

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                      • Y [email protected]

                        All religions are a monstrous evil.

                        If you believe otherwise, you are comically naive and attitudes like yours are partly responsible for this child’s death.

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                        #98

                        Yeah exactly. Actually I would even go as far to say we should trial and lock up every religious people ever for this crime.

                        You dumb idiot

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                        • D [email protected]

                          Only religions give permission for people to kill their children.

                          Don't think that this is the only religion that does this. They all do. They all do this shit. "My fictional god is more important than my child". "No matter what I do, my fictional god will forgive me!"

                          It's fucking disgusting, and you are too if you support religions.

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                          "Do not kill" is a commandmant in Islam too idiot. Misoginy kills.

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                          • misterowl@lemmy.worldM [email protected]

                            The religion demands all who don't follow the rules be put to death. Especially if you're a woman.

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                            That's as true as Catholicism requiring to rape kids. The fact 5 scumbags already upvoted you really tells you the average bigotted mentality of the worldist.

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                            • F [email protected]

                              Yeah exactly. Actually I would even go as far to say we should trial and lock up every religious people ever for this crime.

                              You dumb idiot

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                              lock up every religious people [sic] for this crime

                              Religiosity isn’t a crime. There’s a shitload of evil in this world, and almost none of it is (or can ever be) “criminalized.”

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                              • M [email protected]

                                The idea of using your religion as an excuse to kill people is not exclusive to Islam. There are actually quite a few instances in the christian bible where people kill due to religion.

                                If you actually want to get away from religious killing, as a society, we must denounce religion as a whole. Blaming one religion is just stirring the pot.

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                                #102

                                What is whataboutism, Alex?

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                                • F [email protected]

                                  Back to Syria then

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                                  #103

                                  We should send you back to the ocean you disguisting pos

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                                  • Y [email protected]

                                    lock up every religious people [sic] for this crime

                                    Religiosity isn’t a crime. There’s a shitload of evil in this world, and almost none of it is (or can ever be) “criminalized.”

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                                    #104

                                    Yeah fuck you

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                                    • artisian@lemmy.worldA [email protected]

                                      This is making a classic media literacy mistake.

                                      The argument being made is that we can disregard the source if the thing that the headline is about is a real phenomena, regardless of if the actual anecdote is true. I don't think you can ever disregard the source; we should always ask who told this story and why.

                                      Also, OP definitely made a choice providing this url instead of another. Sensationalist headline? Mistake on their part? Lack of English language alternative?

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                                      #105

                                      If three sources corroborate the same fact then all three sources are credible in that instance.

                                      Now that's basic fucking media literacy..

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                                      • S [email protected]

                                        No. There may be reliable sources available instead. Racist media should not be referenced in any way except critically. They deserve no platform.

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                                        #106

                                        Yeah sure. Doesn't take away the importance of the reported fact, no matter the source..

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                                        • anonomouswolf@lemmy.worldA [email protected]

                                          A Syrian refugee who fled to the Netherlands has reportedly confessed to murdering his 18-year-old daughter and dumping her body in a canal before fleeing the country in an apparent admission note sent to a Dutch newspaper.

                                          Father-of-nine Khaled al-Najjar, 52, wrote in an email sent to De Telegraaf that he had killed his 18-year-old daughter Ryan al-Najjar, urging the publication to report 'I am the one who killed'.

                                          The confession did not specify exactly why he had decided to murder his daughter, with al-Najjar writing only that he was 'very angry with her', adding: 'The reason is between me and the judge. I will read that in court'.

                                          But neighbours and friends suspect Ryan's death came as the result of an honour killing, with one claiming they had previously sheltered her when she had fled the family home in fear of retribution from her father.

                                          Requesting anonymity to prevent any backlash, they told De Telegraaf that Ryan had a Dutch boyfriend, wanted to stop wearing a headscarf and had been beaten by her father who disagreed with her adoption of a Western lifestyle.

                                          Source:

                                          1. https://nltimes.nl/2025/06/30/brothers-still-deny-involvement-18-year-old-sisters-honor-killing

                                          2. https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13501735/Syrian-refugee-murders-Westernised-daughter-18-honour-killing-dumps-canal-started-dating-local-Dutch-boy-wanted-stop-wearing-headscarf.html

                                          3. https://www.atheistrepublic.com/news/fatal-traditions-shocking-honor-killing-netherlands

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                                          This is not about religion. Islam is being used to justify their actions. Simply put, these people are sick! 😡

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