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What are some backhanded compliments that are very subtle?

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    I may need to say something that is (seemingly) nice about someone, but I’d prefer it be very subtly backhanded or nearly believable hyperbole.




    Edit: I realized that I was imagining something like how the Colbert Report was done where it’s easy to believe I’m agreeing when really I’m spoofing.

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    • zachariah@lemmy.worldZ [email protected]

      I may need to say something that is (seemingly) nice about someone, but I’d prefer it be very subtly backhanded or nearly believable hyperbole.




      Edit: I realized that I was imagining something like how the Colbert Report was done where it’s easy to believe I’m agreeing when really I’m spoofing.

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      “ bless your heart”

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      • zachariah@lemmy.worldZ [email protected]

        I may need to say something that is (seemingly) nice about someone, but I’d prefer it be very subtly backhanded or nearly believable hyperbole.




        Edit: I realized that I was imagining something like how the Colbert Report was done where it’s easy to believe I’m agreeing when really I’m spoofing.

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        "I hope the rest of your day is as pleasant as you are"

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        • zachariah@lemmy.worldZ [email protected]

          I may need to say something that is (seemingly) nice about someone, but I’d prefer it be very subtly backhanded or nearly believable hyperbole.




          Edit: I realized that I was imagining something like how the Colbert Report was done where it’s easy to believe I’m agreeing when really I’m spoofing.

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          (i subtlety downvoted you)

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          • zachariah@lemmy.worldZ [email protected]

            I may need to say something that is (seemingly) nice about someone, but I’d prefer it be very subtly backhanded or nearly believable hyperbole.




            Edit: I realized that I was imagining something like how the Colbert Report was done where it’s easy to believe I’m agreeing when really I’m spoofing.

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            You remind me of myself

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            • zachariah@lemmy.worldZ [email protected]

              I may need to say something that is (seemingly) nice about someone, but I’d prefer it be very subtly backhanded or nearly believable hyperbole.




              Edit: I realized that I was imagining something like how the Colbert Report was done where it’s easy to believe I’m agreeing when really I’m spoofing.

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              "Wow you look good today."

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              • zachariah@lemmy.worldZ [email protected]

                I may need to say something that is (seemingly) nice about someone, but I’d prefer it be very subtly backhanded or nearly believable hyperbole.




                Edit: I realized that I was imagining something like how the Colbert Report was done where it’s easy to believe I’m agreeing when really I’m spoofing.

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                You seem like management material.

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                • zachariah@lemmy.worldZ [email protected]

                  I may need to say something that is (seemingly) nice about someone, but I’d prefer it be very subtly backhanded or nearly believable hyperbole.




                  Edit: I realized that I was imagining something like how the Colbert Report was done where it’s easy to believe I’m agreeing when really I’m spoofing.

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                  Oh, your hair is (pause) fine.

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                  • zachariah@lemmy.worldZ [email protected]

                    I may need to say something that is (seemingly) nice about someone, but I’d prefer it be very subtly backhanded or nearly believable hyperbole.




                    Edit: I realized that I was imagining something like how the Colbert Report was done where it’s easy to believe I’m agreeing when really I’m spoofing.

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                    Find reasons to agree with someone. Things like "You are so right", "I never thought of that", " I loved the way you put that", "I remember what you said x days/weeks/years ago; it still makes me smile/encourages me"...

                    Few things are as uplifting as making someone else feel special. Be genuine about it and the recipients day (or more) will brighten.

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                    • zachariah@lemmy.worldZ [email protected]

                      I may need to say something that is (seemingly) nice about someone, but I’d prefer it be very subtly backhanded or nearly believable hyperbole.




                      Edit: I realized that I was imagining something like how the Colbert Report was done where it’s easy to believe I’m agreeing when really I’m spoofing.

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                      I'm nostalgic of the time when I haven't met you

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                      • zachariah@lemmy.worldZ [email protected]

                        I may need to say something that is (seemingly) nice about someone, but I’d prefer it be very subtly backhanded or nearly believable hyperbole.




                        Edit: I realized that I was imagining something like how the Colbert Report was done where it’s easy to believe I’m agreeing when really I’m spoofing.

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                        "I've never heard anyone express an option like that out loud before."

                        "What a unique approach to the problem!"

                        "I bet you played football in highschool, right?"

                        "Has anyone ever told you that you'd look good in a uniform?"

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                          Find reasons to agree with someone. Things like "You are so right", "I never thought of that", " I loved the way you put that", "I remember what you said x days/weeks/years ago; it still makes me smile/encourages me"...

                          Few things are as uplifting as making someone else feel special. Be genuine about it and the recipients day (or more) will brighten.

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                          What do you think the word "backhanded" means?

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                            Find reasons to agree with someone. Things like "You are so right", "I never thought of that", " I loved the way you put that", "I remember what you said x days/weeks/years ago; it still makes me smile/encourages me"...

                            Few things are as uplifting as making someone else feel special. Be genuine about it and the recipients day (or more) will brighten.

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                            "Thank you for your contribution."

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                            • zachariah@lemmy.worldZ [email protected]

                              I may need to say something that is (seemingly) nice about someone, but I’d prefer it be very subtly backhanded or nearly believable hyperbole.




                              Edit: I realized that I was imagining something like how the Colbert Report was done where it’s easy to believe I’m agreeing when really I’m spoofing.

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                              The series Ted Lasso is chock full of these, but my favorite was after Jade meets Rupert and he leaves, she says, "Well, he seems rich."

                              Like it almost sounds like a compliment, but only if you lack the self-awareness and empathy of someone who isn't rich.

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                              • zachariah@lemmy.worldZ [email protected]

                                I may need to say something that is (seemingly) nice about someone, but I’d prefer it be very subtly backhanded or nearly believable hyperbole.




                                Edit: I realized that I was imagining something like how the Colbert Report was done where it’s easy to believe I’m agreeing when really I’m spoofing.

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                                "I never thought of it that way."

                                "That's a new perspective."

                                "I love your confidence!"

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                                • zachariah@lemmy.worldZ [email protected]

                                  I may need to say something that is (seemingly) nice about someone, but I’d prefer it be very subtly backhanded or nearly believable hyperbole.




                                  Edit: I realized that I was imagining something like how the Colbert Report was done where it’s easy to believe I’m agreeing when really I’m spoofing.

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                                  Most of the comments here seem very British. This is entirely the British way......saying something good isn't just taken at face value as a positive; instead it is taken to mean that every other time was very negative.

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                                    What do you think the word "backhanded" means?

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                                    My backhand in tennis is much more powerful than my forehand, so it must mean "strong" or "powerful", it only makes sense

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                                      What do you think the word "backhanded" means?

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                                      I think they thought it meant “veiled compliments” and not “veiled insults.”

                                      Which isn’t hard to confuse really.

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                                        I may need to say something that is (seemingly) nice about someone, but I’d prefer it be very subtly backhanded or nearly believable hyperbole.




                                        Edit: I realized that I was imagining something like how the Colbert Report was done where it’s easy to believe I’m agreeing when really I’m spoofing.

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                                        Why do you need to? Arent there enough assholes already?

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                                        • zachariah@lemmy.worldZ [email protected]

                                          I may need to say something that is (seemingly) nice about someone, but I’d prefer it be very subtly backhanded or nearly believable hyperbole.




                                          Edit: I realized that I was imagining something like how the Colbert Report was done where it’s easy to believe I’m agreeing when really I’m spoofing.

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                                          You're at the top of the bell curve!

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