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Do you ever go out, and while you're out, you think, ‘this is exactly why I don't go out’?

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    Every time I'm in a mall or restaurant and see a flock of yelling and otherwise poorly behaved kids and their useless parents.

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      Every. Single. Time.

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        It sounds like your wife just likes to party! Cuz I can assure you Manilla is filled with shitty dive bars too haha. It's just also filled with amazing people who love to love and love to party. Filipinas rock! You two must have so much fun

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        LOL, I assumed so! And she's from Manila! Seems redneck dive bars are novel for some reason. And despite the bars we've hit being full-on poor rednecks, no one blinks at the Asian chick, everyone very nice.

        We haven't been for awhile. The one we like just can't stay in business for long. Too far outside town, and we're on the edge, but not far enough to be the only bar.

        You've inspired me to take her out tomorrow night! We're broke, but we can blow a bit on pool and beers.

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          That feeling of all the bars being so similar was an early prelude to stopping going out all the time for me. I always thought it was weird that I never missed something I spent 5 - 7 days a week doing for over a decade. When the novelty wore off it was so easy to just never go back.

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          Now that I'm older, and laid off the bar scene for a decade+, it's like coming home. Still, only fun a couple of times a year. And now I don't smoke, and we can't smoke inside, so I'm not coughing my lungs out the next morning.

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            Nope. I usually think "I should go out more" and then when I'm still recovering two days later I think "Ah, this is why I don't go out more."

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            Yep. It's somewhat ingrained in UK culture, at least for people of my gen. I'm 48 this weekend, and plan on staying in with my fam and maybe having a few beers. But that's only because I'm off for a city break with friends next week to see The Beta Band and basically eat and drink for 2 days. Can't wait.

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              Tribal mentality. A lot of people conform to the 'Hate them... not you though, you're one of ours' mindset.

              "Fucking hate poofs. Not Barry though, he grew up around here, he's alright."

              "We should shoot all the [insert racist bollocks here]. Not Abdul who runs the corner shop though, he calls me 'boss' when I go in."

              Etc. If only their sense of tribe extended a bit further.

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              Funny but relevent:

              https://www.instagram.com/reel/DLfT0ULotrs/

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              • dasus@lemmy.worldD [email protected]

                If an empty bank account is unobserved, is it truly empty?

                The amount of money I don't have remains the same, does it not?

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                Banks charging you for not having enough in your bank account, then "protecting" you from that overdraft for 40 dollars tells us an empty bank account contains approximately -100 dollars.

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                  people have been more gross since they lifted mask protocols, they dont cover thier mouths when they cough excessively, and they are spreading colds and covid around. cant challenge them, because of how politicla it has beocme they become hositle.

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                    Leave house

                    Immediately have to get in car, risk life, risk money, spend spend all my attention, wait a long time, just to have to take up valuable square footage downtown parking the damned thing

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                      LOL, I assumed so! And she's from Manila! Seems redneck dive bars are novel for some reason. And despite the bars we've hit being full-on poor rednecks, no one blinks at the Asian chick, everyone very nice.

                      We haven't been for awhile. The one we like just can't stay in business for long. Too far outside town, and we're on the edge, but not far enough to be the only bar.

                      You've inspired me to take her out tomorrow night! We're broke, but we can blow a bit on pool and beers.

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                      yes!! Live!!

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                        Every time someone nearly changes lanes into me, or slams their brakes, or whatever. I like operating a motor vehicle. I hate other drivers.

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                          I try to remember what I don't like doing so that I can do something that I like doing instead next time

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                            All the fucking time.

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                              Hey baby, wanna bone?

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                                Most of the time I have the opposite. I dread going out, and hope that the plans get canceled. But when I'm there I really do enjoy it, and I'm glad I didn't pussy out.

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                                  Only if I wind up around a lot of other people. People’s behavior in crowds and public transport tends to piss me off to an irrational degree.

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