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why do you people delete your posts?

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      Because replies sometimes force me to facepalm too much. My face hurts.

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        I generally only delete posts when I double post on accident. I'm happy to leave my stupidity on display because fuck it.

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          deleted by creator

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            I regularly notice how some people simply delete their post because they don't like the way people are answering to it. It's fine they don't like those answers, it's not fair they are given the power to mute them.

            I find that behavior annoying. Not because someone deletes their post. I mean, they're free to do whatever they want, but because by doing so they also render the entire discussion unavailable.

            Like if all the other participants were submitted to their whims.

            Imho, a solution could be to let people delete their post but not the technical-something-whatever that made their post accessible to read and to answer. And so, no matter how shy or regretful the OP could ever be, people that have answered would not be dependent on their willingness to let them speak. And even if the OP was deleted other people would still be able to read the comments and maybe keep on discussing without te OP being involved.

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            • snotflickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zoneS [email protected]

              I generally only delete posts when I double post on accident. I'm happy to leave my stupidity on display because fuck it.

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              Sometimes I’ll downvote myself if that seems to be the popular consensus. Who am I to disagree?

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                I've deleted posts because while I was busy writing up a summary, someone else posted the same news. I'd rather one post get seen than have two posts splitting votes and possibly getting lost. I don't care who gets 'credit' for posting as long the news is visible. If the faster poster used a different link, I might comment something like, 'more details here' if indeed there are more details worth noting.

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                  I'll try and answer seriously, with some non-exclusive options, in no particular order:

                  • Feeling ashamed, mostly because they're realizing they're either wrong or sounding stupid.
                  • Not wanting controversial stuff related to them to be "saved" for others to find and use for scrutiny.
                  • Honest mistakes (wrong community, thread, etc.)
                  • The post becomes a cesspool in the comments.
                  • Other personal reasons (feeling threatened, wanting a clean inbox, question got answered and they don't care about historic purposes, etc.)

                  These are just my guesses though, and I try and not delete anything personally. I'm aware that anything I put on the internet will be immortalized, and that the healthiest thing I can do is own both my mistakes and my opinions, even if I'm convinced of my stupidity or ignorance at a later time. I'm only a human after all, and doomed to talk before I think. Best I can do is to learn as much as possible from it, and hope that others can also learn from my actions.

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                    I generally only delete posts when I double post on accident. I'm happy to leave my stupidity on display because fuck it.

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                    That's the spirit!

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                      I've only ever deleted one comment I've made. I was having a bad day, I was being overly pissy and inflammatory, and the comment didn't add anything to the conversation. If I had been the mod of that community, I would have deleted it and possibly banned myself. Since they didn't, I did. Once I came to my senses.

                      For the most part, though, I'm happy to leave my stupidity up for the future to see.

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                        Sometimes I’ll downvote myself if that seems to be the popular consensus. Who am I to disagree?

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                        Sweet dreams

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                          Cowardice and lack of accountability (even in a pseudonymous forum, which is just ridiculous, lol), usually. The polite and mature thing to do is to post something afterwards like "my bad, I misunderstood/was having a bad day/can be very silly at times/etc.". On the other hand, I'm using Redact on Reddit to change everything into nonsense because fuck Reddit. 🤷

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                            I deleted one once because I complained about someone by name, hoping someone else would have experience with them and could offer better advice.

                            I think it would have been relatively easy for them to find that post, which I didn't want to risk given that they could cause me harm by denying their services. It wouldn't have been hard to work out who I was given the context I provided.

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                              1. I was wrong

                              2. Connect went haywire and posted to a completely different thread than the one I actually posted in.

                              3. DELETED

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                                Because replies sometimes force me to facepalm too much. My face hurts.

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                                Agreed. Could be a relatively active post, excellent engagement and then:

                                doofus1: "Is this AI?" <it clearly isn't>

                                doofus2: "Now that you mention it....proceeds to launch 5 paragraphs as to how it's AI....blah, blah..." <it isn't AI>

                                experts1, 2, &3: "It's not AI"

                                doofuses 1& 2, whilst being downvoted into oblivion, push back ad nauseum despite admitting they could be wrong.

                                14 comments in the thread later, a mod removes some....

                                Original post succesully derailed.

                                OP deletes popular post, bc "Why bother?"

                                lather.rinse.repeat.

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                                  I'll try and answer seriously, with some non-exclusive options, in no particular order:

                                  • Feeling ashamed, mostly because they're realizing they're either wrong or sounding stupid.
                                  • Not wanting controversial stuff related to them to be "saved" for others to find and use for scrutiny.
                                  • Honest mistakes (wrong community, thread, etc.)
                                  • The post becomes a cesspool in the comments.
                                  • Other personal reasons (feeling threatened, wanting a clean inbox, question got answered and they don't care about historic purposes, etc.)

                                  These are just my guesses though, and I try and not delete anything personally. I'm aware that anything I put on the internet will be immortalized, and that the healthiest thing I can do is own both my mistakes and my opinions, even if I'm convinced of my stupidity or ignorance at a later time. I'm only a human after all, and doomed to talk before I think. Best I can do is to learn as much as possible from it, and hope that others can also learn from my actions.

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                                  the post becomes a cesspool in the comments.

                                  LPT - How to derail a post:

                                  Query as to whether it's AI (even when it isn't)

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                                    Because people treat their profile like an extension of their identity, and if they retrospectively decide that a post doesn't paint them in the right light, they just delete it.

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                                      Agreed. Could be a relatively active post, excellent engagement and then:

                                      doofus1: "Is this AI?" <it clearly isn't>

                                      doofus2: "Now that you mention it....proceeds to launch 5 paragraphs as to how it's AI....blah, blah..." <it isn't AI>

                                      experts1, 2, &3: "It's not AI"

                                      doofuses 1& 2, whilst being downvoted into oblivion, push back ad nauseum despite admitting they could be wrong.

                                      14 comments in the thread later, a mod removes some....

                                      Original post succesully derailed.

                                      OP deletes popular post, bc "Why bother?"

                                      lather.rinse.repeat.

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                                      Yup, not giving food to the "debate me" sea lion.

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                                        I generally don't, even when I am dead wrong - it was my opinion and I was an idiot, no need to hide away from my past mistakes.

                                        But I do delete my posts when I, for example, completely misunderstand what the OP is talking about, so I'm not adding anything to the conversation.

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                                          I've deleted a few, usually if I accidentally doxx someone or literally post the wrong place (like I intended to reply to one person but somehow the message was posted as a response to another)

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