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What were you surprised to learn wasn't actually normal?

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      Excruciating period pain that would leave me fainting and vomiting every. Single. Time.

      "Every girl goes through this" said the doctor, convincing my parents that I was just "dramatic".

      Turns out I had huge polyps growing out of control! Left scarring in my uterus and high-risk when pregnant.

      Dealt with that hell every fucking month since I was 11 until I got onto birth control in my 20s.

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        Excruciating period pain that would leave me fainting and vomiting every. Single. Time.

        "Every girl goes through this" said the doctor, convincing my parents that I was just "dramatic".

        Turns out I had huge polyps growing out of control! Left scarring in my uterus and high-risk when pregnant.

        Dealt with that hell every fucking month since I was 11 until I got onto birth control in my 20s.

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        Sucks when doctors just assume things, it can cost lives.

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          Sucks when doctors just assume things, it can cost lives.

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          It's barbaric. They assume that if you're girl/woman, most problems are basically "female hysteria"!

          Not even "it could be [blank], you might want to keep an eye on that and report back if it doesn't go away." Nope! Diagnosis: dramatic.

          And women die from this shit. Or become disabled / handicapped. Or it affects their long-term future if they want children. It's awful.

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            It's barbaric. They assume that if you're girl/woman, most problems are basically "female hysteria"!

            Not even "it could be [blank], you might want to keep an eye on that and report back if it doesn't go away." Nope! Diagnosis: dramatic.

            And women die from this shit. Or become disabled / handicapped. Or it affects their long-term future if they want children. It's awful.

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            Some people did a thing with a specially configured tens machine where the woman would turn it the levels up and up until it was at the level of their normal period pain and then the man would go through the same levels stages and be gasping and writhing before it got there.

            Turns out men have been massively underestimating period pain for centuries.

            That said, some women experienced far, far higher levels than normal and were encouraged to take that data to a non-dismissive healthcare professional.

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              Some people did a thing with a specially configured tens machine where the woman would turn it the levels up and up until it was at the level of their normal period pain and then the man would go through the same levels stages and be gasping and writhing before it got there.

              Turns out men have been massively underestimating period pain for centuries.

              That said, some women experienced far, far higher levels than normal and were encouraged to take that data to a non-dismissive healthcare professional.

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              As a dude, I want to believe that it's less than it is because that's just wholly unreasonable that women have to put up with that.

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