Sexting
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I had a short-term ex say that and it really turned me off every time. If the relationship went on longer, I would've eventually said something. It really weirded me out, especially knowing that her dad died of cancer a year prior. It's like, what the hell is going on in your head? Get that checked out.
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It's just playing along with a partner's fantasy. No effort and it makes them happy.
Literally just did what they wanted me to, asking a lot of questions first
️At least I crossed that off my bucket list.
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same. is it mostly an American thing? cause none of my friends would ever think to call their boyfriends "daddy"
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Yeah, I hear it's amazing when the famous purple stuffed worm in flap-jaw space with the tuning fork does a raw blink on Harakiri Rock.
I have no fucking idea what this means, so I will take offense and assume it's a movie quote. GOOD DAY!!
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same. is it mostly an American thing? cause none of my friends would ever think to call their boyfriends "daddy"
No we say "papa"
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same. is it mostly an American thing? cause none of my friends would ever think to call their boyfriends "daddy"
"father"
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I used to be in the same camp (and it's still not for me) but it started to make more sense to me when I realized it's kind of been a thing we've been doing for a while.
There's the well known Papi, in Spanish, but, even as far back as the 1930s in The Grapes of Wrath, you have Pa Joad refer to Ma Joad as "Ma". Even in The Year without a Santa Clause (for a more modern but still older reference), Santa refers to Mrs. Clause as "Ma".
The idea of using these titles for anyone other than my own parents was not something that's intuitive to me, at all, but clearly it's a thing humans have been doing for (at least) a century. Not all those examples are in sexual contexts but I imagine that a nickname you have for your partner isn't not going to end up continuing into the bedroom, at least not for everyone.
In that context, it started to make more sense to my brain.
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I used to be in the same camp (and it's still not for me) but it started to make more sense to me when I realized it's kind of been a thing we've been doing for a while.
There's the well known Papi, in Spanish, but, even as far back as the 1930s in The Grapes of Wrath, you have Pa Joad refer to Ma Joad as "Ma". Even in The Year without a Santa Clause (for a more modern but still older reference), Santa refers to Mrs. Clause as "Ma".
The idea of using these titles for anyone other than my own parents was not something that's intuitive to me, at all, but clearly it's a thing humans have been doing for (at least) a century. Not all those examples are in sexual contexts but I imagine that a nickname you have for your partner isn't not going to end up continuing into the bedroom, at least not for everyone.
In that context, it started to make more sense to my brain.
Hey thanks for the history lesson. That makes sense, and if Freud was right, it is in fact a primal impulse. But I don't think Feud was right. To the best of my knowledge, saying my parent's name or title as a sex thing is definitely not my cup of tea
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Hey thanks for the history lesson. That makes sense, and if Freud was right, it is in fact a primal impulse. But I don't think Feud was right. To the best of my knowledge, saying my parent's name or title as a sex thing is definitely not my cup of tea
Oh, I didn't mean it was a primal instinct; just that it seems to be a common cultural one.
I definitely feel you, though; it's very much not mine, either.
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It's not the typing that's the issue. It's the lack of blood going to the brain.
How to say you've got a big schlong without saying you've got a giant schlong /j
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I'm good with it as long as it doesn't leave the bedroom or turn towards something really wrong. Otherwise, I respect the kink.
"Daddy, could you pass the salt?"
My hand touches the salt shaker, so does her father's.
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It's the effort that counts
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It's just playing along with a partner's fantasy. No effort and it makes them happy.
You're a nice person.
