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Would you hangout with yourself?

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  • K [email protected]

    Just came across this question on reddit and tbh....i don't know

    People have always told me(including my parents) that i am very antisocial, i don't know how to speak, i don't smile often, i'm shy, i look very judgemental or i'm just too egotistic....so i don't know if i'm actually someone worth hanging out with

    And no i didn't make all these things up i have heard it all my life from my parents, teachers, friends etc.

    I don't know if its just my luck or something about my looks or the way i speak but people don't really hold back against me

    So what about y'all?

    gon@lemm.eeG This user is from outside of this forum
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    #10

    Well, that's a complicated question.

    On one hand, I do already hang-out with myself basically all the time. I talk to myself a lot and I'm my own wall to throw stuff at.

    On the other hand, I'm also very antisocial. I would definitely not enjoy spending this time that I spend with myself with another, physical person.

    So, that.

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    • K [email protected]

      Just came across this question on reddit and tbh....i don't know

      People have always told me(including my parents) that i am very antisocial, i don't know how to speak, i don't smile often, i'm shy, i look very judgemental or i'm just too egotistic....so i don't know if i'm actually someone worth hanging out with

      And no i didn't make all these things up i have heard it all my life from my parents, teachers, friends etc.

      I don't know if its just my luck or something about my looks or the way i speak but people don't really hold back against me

      So what about y'all?

      pika@sh.itjust.worksP This user is from outside of this forum
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      #11

      I would hang out with myself, but I feel like it would be a very quiet meeting because we both would just be doing our own thing because unless someone else is spearheading the conversation or as a topic that I'm passionate about, I generally stick to myself anyway.

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      • K [email protected]

        Just came across this question on reddit and tbh....i don't know

        People have always told me(including my parents) that i am very antisocial, i don't know how to speak, i don't smile often, i'm shy, i look very judgemental or i'm just too egotistic....so i don't know if i'm actually someone worth hanging out with

        And no i didn't make all these things up i have heard it all my life from my parents, teachers, friends etc.

        I don't know if its just my luck or something about my looks or the way i speak but people don't really hold back against me

        So what about y'all?

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        #12

        Yes indeed. Not to be braggy but I'm super friendly and fun and loving.

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        • K [email protected]

          Just came across this question on reddit and tbh....i don't know

          People have always told me(including my parents) that i am very antisocial, i don't know how to speak, i don't smile often, i'm shy, i look very judgemental or i'm just too egotistic....so i don't know if i'm actually someone worth hanging out with

          And no i didn't make all these things up i have heard it all my life from my parents, teachers, friends etc.

          I don't know if its just my luck or something about my looks or the way i speak but people don't really hold back against me

          So what about y'all?

          ripandterror@sh.itjust.worksR This user is from outside of this forum
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          Yeah. I would. I've been asking myself that for a long time and I've tried to become someone I would get along with.

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          • K [email protected]

            Just came across this question on reddit and tbh....i don't know

            People have always told me(including my parents) that i am very antisocial, i don't know how to speak, i don't smile often, i'm shy, i look very judgemental or i'm just too egotistic....so i don't know if i'm actually someone worth hanging out with

            And no i didn't make all these things up i have heard it all my life from my parents, teachers, friends etc.

            I don't know if its just my luck or something about my looks or the way i speak but people don't really hold back against me

            So what about y'all?

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            #14

            Probably yes, I talk to myself all the time and my sense of humour happens to be pretty similar to mine. At the very least is worth a try.

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            • K [email protected]

              Just came across this question on reddit and tbh....i don't know

              People have always told me(including my parents) that i am very antisocial, i don't know how to speak, i don't smile often, i'm shy, i look very judgemental or i'm just too egotistic....so i don't know if i'm actually someone worth hanging out with

              And no i didn't make all these things up i have heard it all my life from my parents, teachers, friends etc.

              I don't know if its just my luck or something about my looks or the way i speak but people don't really hold back against me

              So what about y'all?

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              #15

              I'm apparently best enjoyed in small doses; nobody else really seems to enjoy my company long-term, so why would I be any different?

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              • K [email protected]

                Just came across this question on reddit and tbh....i don't know

                People have always told me(including my parents) that i am very antisocial, i don't know how to speak, i don't smile often, i'm shy, i look very judgemental or i'm just too egotistic....so i don't know if i'm actually someone worth hanging out with

                And no i didn't make all these things up i have heard it all my life from my parents, teachers, friends etc.

                I don't know if its just my luck or something about my looks or the way i speak but people don't really hold back against me

                So what about y'all?

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                #16

                I would definitely jam in a band with three of my other selves. We'll be able to make music pretty quickly because we literally have the same minds.

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                • S [email protected]

                  In that order, right?

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                  I don't see how "kill" could be in any other place than last.

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                  • E [email protected]

                    I don't see how "kill" could be in any other place than last.

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                    • N [email protected]

                      One-on-one? Sure, I'm hilarious.

                      In a group? No. I'm an attention hog, I don't need the competition.

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                      Maybe use the opportunity to audit your behavior. Give others some room and shit. Could be a thing.

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                      • S [email protected]

                        Probably not. I don't really want to be around people who act like me. I've done a decent job of reigning in my most asocial behaviours, but they still get through.

                        On the flip side, other people seem to like the version of myself that I currently project, so I think I'm doing a good enough job.

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                        people seem to like the version of myself that I currently project

                        The more times I read this, the deeper it gets.

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                        • K [email protected]

                          Just came across this question on reddit and tbh....i don't know

                          People have always told me(including my parents) that i am very antisocial, i don't know how to speak, i don't smile often, i'm shy, i look very judgemental or i'm just too egotistic....so i don't know if i'm actually someone worth hanging out with

                          And no i didn't make all these things up i have heard it all my life from my parents, teachers, friends etc.

                          I don't know if its just my luck or something about my looks or the way i speak but people don't really hold back against me

                          So what about y'all?

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                          I would marry me if I could

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                          • K [email protected]

                            Just came across this question on reddit and tbh....i don't know

                            People have always told me(including my parents) that i am very antisocial, i don't know how to speak, i don't smile often, i'm shy, i look very judgemental or i'm just too egotistic....so i don't know if i'm actually someone worth hanging out with

                            And no i didn't make all these things up i have heard it all my life from my parents, teachers, friends etc.

                            I don't know if its just my luck or something about my looks or the way i speak but people don't really hold back against me

                            So what about y'all?

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                            #22

                            Yeah, I'd hang myself.

                            ...

                            Oh "hang out".
                            No.

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                            • K [email protected]

                              Just came across this question on reddit and tbh....i don't know

                              People have always told me(including my parents) that i am very antisocial, i don't know how to speak, i don't smile often, i'm shy, i look very judgemental or i'm just too egotistic....so i don't know if i'm actually someone worth hanging out with

                              And no i didn't make all these things up i have heard it all my life from my parents, teachers, friends etc.

                              I don't know if its just my luck or something about my looks or the way i speak but people don't really hold back against me

                              So what about y'all?

                              callyral@pawb.socialC This user is from outside of this forum
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                              assuming this means hanging out with an exact clone of myself:

                              we would play a game of chance to see who gets the laptop and who gets the pc, then we would play minecraft together.

                              we could also play card games, chess, or some board game, although i wouldn't really talk to the other one since there wouldn't really be a point or anything new to learn that i couldn't learn by just thinking (as we would be the same person).

                              oh, we could also watch shows or a movie but i dont think it would feel like hanging out since we'd both just sit quietly and watch it.

                              so yeah, i would hang out with myself, and i wonder how rock-paper-scissors would go

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                                people seem to like the version of myself that I currently project

                                The more times I read this, the deeper it gets.

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                                • P [email protected]

                                  No. I get introduced to people who are "like me" and I don't like them off the hop.

                                  I recently hung out with my own father, and when he would say words that were in my head, they sounded awful.

                                  People like me. I have friends. I like my friends. But I do question their judgement being friends with me.

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                                  I recently hung out with my own father, and when he would say words that were in my head, they sounded awful.

                                  Yeah. I get that with some of my family members. I try to use it as an opportunity to be more open and learn to like myself more, but it rarely works. I'd prefer it if they didn't act the way I think.

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                                    I don't see how "kill" could be in any other place than last.

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                                    That's a good sign.

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                                    • K [email protected]

                                      Just came across this question on reddit and tbh....i don't know

                                      People have always told me(including my parents) that i am very antisocial, i don't know how to speak, i don't smile often, i'm shy, i look very judgemental or i'm just too egotistic....so i don't know if i'm actually someone worth hanging out with

                                      And no i didn't make all these things up i have heard it all my life from my parents, teachers, friends etc.

                                      I don't know if its just my luck or something about my looks or the way i speak but people don't really hold back against me

                                      So what about y'all?

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                                      #27

                                      Fuck yeah! I guess we might get a bit bored since most of the time I socialise I spend it preaching/arguing and we'd agree on all points? At least I'd have someone to nerd out over things like Legend of the Galactic Heroes at great lengths (not my wife's fault she can't do it for me, I'm not particularly interested in listening to podcasts about yet another crazy murderer either 🤷😅).

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                                      • K [email protected]

                                        Just came across this question on reddit and tbh....i don't know

                                        People have always told me(including my parents) that i am very antisocial, i don't know how to speak, i don't smile often, i'm shy, i look very judgemental or i'm just too egotistic....so i don't know if i'm actually someone worth hanging out with

                                        And no i didn't make all these things up i have heard it all my life from my parents, teachers, friends etc.

                                        I don't know if its just my luck or something about my looks or the way i speak but people don't really hold back against me

                                        So what about y'all?

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                                        wrote on last edited by
                                        #28

                                        No. Spending time around people different from myself offers me different perspectives, interesting conversations etc.

                                        Hanging out with someone exactly the same would be like living in an echo chamber with a yes man.

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                                        • K [email protected]

                                          Just came across this question on reddit and tbh....i don't know

                                          People have always told me(including my parents) that i am very antisocial, i don't know how to speak, i don't smile often, i'm shy, i look very judgemental or i'm just too egotistic....so i don't know if i'm actually someone worth hanging out with

                                          And no i didn't make all these things up i have heard it all my life from my parents, teachers, friends etc.

                                          I don't know if its just my luck or something about my looks or the way i speak but people don't really hold back against me

                                          So what about y'all?

                                          K This user is from outside of this forum
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                                          wrote on last edited by
                                          #29

                                          i would probably hate myself

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