It sounds like you're not the type of person who wants to have kids.
-
It sounds like you're not the type of person who wants to have kids. And that's fine, you do you.
But if you're interested in another perspective: I had close friends of mine lose one of their twin daughters at only a couple months of age. I played a song at their funeral. And it was, by a large margin, the saddest funeral I have ever attended. In addition to the parents definitely having a strong connection to the child, there's something tragic about a young innocent life being snuffed out so early.
As another poster mentioned, this may have something to do with cultural differences. Which again is fine, just take the opportunity to have a serious conversation with your husband about what parenthood means to both of you. It's one of the most difficult things you'll ever do, and being caught by differing expectations (especially to this degree) when you're exhausted with sleep deprivation is not ideal.
