> you can’t be attached to the child until they’re old enough to display personality, which comes way later than the toddler stage; I ha just can’t see myself having any attachment before their personality develops
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you can’t be attached to the child until they’re old enough to display personality, which comes way later than the toddler stage; I ha just can’t see myself having any attachment before their personality develops
If that's how you feel, then that's how you feel. I'm gonna hazard a guess that the vast majority of people, especially pregnant/miscarriage/parents do not feel this way.
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you can’t be attached to the child until they’re old enough to display personality, which comes way later than the toddler stage; I ha just can’t see myself having any attachment before their personality develops
If that's how you feel, then that's how you feel. I'm gonna hazard a guess that the vast majority of people, especially pregnant/miscarriage/parents do not feel this way.
This exactly. Everyone is free to grieve in their own way, but i would say for most expecting parents, the attachment starts way before the child is born.