How are you really doing?

[drunkanroot@sh.itjust.works]

im surviving off of pbr and dry ramen

[timecircleline@sh.itjust.works]

I feel guilty. I boarded my cats today to go on my first vacation in years. We kept it local so we can come back pretty easy if something happens, and the facility is super bougie, with webcams and daily photo and video updates. One of my cats has special needs and it makes it difficult to have her watched by a friend or family. Logically I know they are safe and looked after but damn I miss them and I don't know how I'm going to sleep without my little purring weighted blankets

[afallinganvil@lemmy.ca]

That's reassuring, thank you.
She has agreed to do a couple sessions of couples therapy with me after we move in to help establish a solid foundation for living together and get used to communication before there's anything stressful to communicate about.

She's coming from a household with pretty garbage communication styles so I'm hoping it helps her reset so to speak and get a fresh start.

[carrmyncarnage@lemmy.blahaj.zone]

The horrors persist but so do I.