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USUAL in your country but NOT anywhere else.

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  • salamencefury@lemmy.worldS [email protected]

    Abundance of guns does not indicate that the country is more prone to violence, though. Switzerland has significantly laxer laws on who can own a gun than over 20 US states, EVERYONE is obligated to own a fully automatic SG550 from their military service, and a vibrant gun culture, and yet, no one's going around shooting people. It's a result of right wing extremism, decades of propaganda running on people's TVs, toxic right wing gun culture that is not countered by responsible gun culture from the left because liberals hate guns (and only because it became a problem for them after school shootings became common), and the refusal of government to address those issues. To add to that, white liberals literally take over ANY gun control talk and make it about their white feelings. That's exactly what's happening here with you. Despite minorities being the lead in support for gun control, we literally do NOT ever get to talk about our experiences. The only thing that matters in gun control discussions is white liberals putting their feelings and their feelings ONLY in the table, and advocating for assault weapon bans (which wouldn't matter), universal background checks (that already exist) and "common sense gun control" (which they change the definition every time to suit what they think). And liberal politicians also add fuel to the fire by EXCLUDING COPS FROM CERTAIN BANS and giving them more and more budget to "fight crime" every year.

    There is no such thing as a "mass shooting problem" because it literally kills less people per year than GETTING STRUCK BY LIGHTNING. The media turns every single one of those into a spectacle and that's why the majority of people think it's such a problem. Police violence, on the other hand, is NOT statistically insignificant, and especially not for POC. After the assassination of the UHC CEO, the media literally turned every other time a CEO died into just a damn footnote, BECAUSE THEY DID NOT WANT COPYCATS. The media can stop making those mass shootings a spectacle, but they won't, because IT GIVES THEM MONEY.

    The gun control movement has a HUGE problem with white supremacy, including from people who THINK they're not being racist, and then proceed to support liberal politicians with tough on crime policies who give 12 gorillion dollars to the cops of big cities so they can purchase MRAPs, IFVs, fully automatic rifles and tons of other shit they don't fucking need. And the SCOTUS ruling doesn't matter, just get yourselves a SCOTUS that would rule cops have an obligation to help and investigate everything.

    Please listen to us. Common sense cop control WILL solve all of this shit you mentioned without ever touching gun laws.

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    Not sure why you're being downvoted. I'll try and do a better response later when I have some time.

    In an ideal world we could replace SCOTUS members who, for example, lied under oath to congress. That would allow a lot of problems that seem impossible to solve to be pretty easily solved. I think the US is an example of a cascading system of measures to make it hard to undo the rot. For example: We need better rulings on cops, so we need a better supreme court, so we need to pack the court or get rid of the fascists on it, so we need a majority progressive congress, so we need campaign finance reform, so we need more people to vote, so we need laws against electioneering... I mean there are things that could be done that ate lynch pins for huge progress, but the system is certainly stacked against us. Not a reason to give up, but it explains a lot of the nihilism generally in our culture.

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      Wearing thongs (flip flops) in a grocery store.

      Kangaroos littering the side of the road (they have about 4 neurones and all of then are suicidal)

      The only place I have seen young kids (think 6 years old) swear similarly to here in Australia is in Scotland, and they are just as feral as we are.

      Walking down the street at night. In the UK and USA it was apparently just not a thing you did. Here I will walk home at 2am no worries, and tonnes of people walk home from the pub drunk enough to not always make it home and sometimes just pass out on the footpath. Never had a problem, never been mugged or similar in that situation, and after living in the UK and visiting the USA I can definitely say I would never do that there.

      Wearing swimmers (bikini or budgie smugglers) and going for food and drink on the same trip. The number of times I've gotten coffee, had lunch, or jumped into the bank while dressed for the beach is uncountable, but never ever outside Australia.

      Hitting your kids is rare here. Spanking is not really normal and is definitely not common in public compared to my visit to the USA or my time in the UK. In both of those people would cuff their kids or slap their hand when they were being unruly. That is uncommon here and I have seen people intervene when someone was hitting their kid in public on more than one occasion. The same goes for animals, people don't like you hitting your dog either. Not to say it doesn't happen, but it is not considered OK.

      Healthcare. We have it. We love it. In the UK the NHS was OK, not great, and the USA is terrifying. My meds would cost me about $310 per month but end up costing a max of $38, unless I spend $1200 in the year at which point the rest are free. As in, no cost, just pick them up, zero dollars. Mine are half medically necessary and half for better function, but for some people they are way more necessary and I am so happy they can just go get them, no risk of rationing meds.

      People do talk about politics and religion here, but not with random people and not in public. If someone isn't interested you are generally going to back off quickly and leave it be. Religion and politics are mostly private and the few people who do talk tend to not be too intense about it. Certainly most don't become a registered Labor or Liberal party member with the group identity associated. It is much more loosely held and less culturally relevant.

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      First of all,
      You fuckers need to bring out your own dictionary.
      Budgie smugglers? I thought that's Australian for Gum Boots. Turns out, it kinda is actually, but for your Johnson & co.
      Secondly,
      When wearing a thong (the real sexy kind) in a grocery store becomes a norm in your part of planet, I'm moving there permanently.
      Third,
      Lunch\Cafe in your beachwear?
      Bro, you should've started with this.
      Imma land there now.

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      • rammer@sopuli.xyzR [email protected]

        Almost everyone has a sauna or at least access to one at or near their home.

        Finland for those wondering.

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        So you get naked for using the sauna in your home?
        You sluts!

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          Being very touchy and physical.

          Cheek kisses are usual for strangers. And it's normal to touch people you barely know or have a small friendship.

          Country is Spain.

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          How small does the friendship need to be for me to casually smooch all the pretty members of your society?

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            Losing a ground war against flightless birds.

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            @[email protected] , meet @[email protected]...
            dude's airing your dirty laundry in public.
            I'm more than happy to replace him in your country. I'll blend in 'swimming-costume-wearing-at-lunch' in no time.

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            • routhinator@startrek.websiteR [email protected]

              Poutine.

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              I was in Canada and I wanted to poutine. I could hardly find any. Ask I had just gravy on fries

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                what is that you usually do or see in your country or area but is weird to do in other area you have traveled or vice versa??
                like it is unusual to wear footwear indoors in asia.

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                Our scientific branch of government telling people paracetamol (acetaminophen) can cause autism and leucovorin (a anti cancer treatment regimen) may cure autism. Also legelise ivermectin (worm pills) over the counter for COVID

                Our government endorses them.

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                  @[email protected] , meet @[email protected]...
                  dude's airing your dirty laundry in public.
                  I'm more than happy to replace him in your country. I'll blend in 'swimming-costume-wearing-at-lunch' in no time.

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                  As long as you use those swimmers in the pool we named after the prime minister who drowned at a beach.

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                    what is that you usually do or see in your country or area but is weird to do in other area you have traveled or vice versa??
                    like it is unusual to wear footwear indoors in asia.

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                    France.

                    You're at the grocery store and want to buy a single bottle of milk or coke, but they're only sold in packs of 6? Just tear open a pack and take one bottle.

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                      Indoors meaning a home, right? Because i doubt everyone is kicking their shoes off once they get to school/work/grocery stores

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                      I had to take off my shoes in multiple resturants, "hotels" and museums in Japan for example.

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                      • somethingburger@jlai.luS [email protected]

                        France.

                        You're at the grocery store and want to buy a single bottle of milk or coke, but they're only sold in packs of 6? Just tear open a pack and take one bottle.

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                        Austria - same.

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                          How small does the friendship need to be for me to casually smooch all the pretty members of your society?

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                          Depends on the region. Where I live mostly as soon as they know your name.

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                            France.

                            You're at the grocery store and want to buy a single bottle of milk or coke, but they're only sold in packs of 6? Just tear open a pack and take one bottle.

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                            I see that lots in Canada as well, but often the 6-pack is way cheaper per unit, to the point where sometimes a 6-pack is the same price as a single.

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                              I was in Canada and I wanted to poutine. I could hardly find any. Ask I had just gravy on fries

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                              Where in Canada? That sounds like a 'berta thing lol. I can go to just about any random restaurant here and if they serve fries, chances are they have some sort of poutine option

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                                Congratulate everyone with someone else's birthday. Netherlands.

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                                Gefeliciteerd.

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                                • gerryflap@feddit.nlG [email protected]

                                  Being able to go basically anywhere by bike, foot, or public transport. And just our bike infrastructure in general. I honestly don't know how I could live in most other countries because it seems like basically everything happens by car or foot. Being able to bike anywhere is so much nicer and gives a lot of freedom from an early age.

                                  Strangely we Dutch people also seem to be quite alone in our view that helmets on normal bikes are not really necessary. They make bikes more prevalent imo, because you don't have to drag a helmet along everywhere. You just park you bike and the only thing you have with you because of it is a key, no special clothes, helmets, etc. I think that's also possible because of our bicycle infrastructure and culture.

                                  Kids learn to bike from a young age, in traffic. You see very young kids just cycle on their smol little bike with a parent on the outside sort of shielding them from traffic. Safely on bike roads, but also just on shared roads with cars. In general kids are quite free to just play outside. I live close to a school and I see plenty of kids all across the neighborhood, just playing without parental supervision. It's what we did back in the day too, without mobile phones or anything. We'd usually be home on time for dinner or our parents would find us somewhere in the neighborhood and tell us it was time to get home.

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                                  Dutch isn't a country, therefore the utopia you describe doesn't exist and is impossible to create.

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                                    First of all,
                                    You fuckers need to bring out your own dictionary.
                                    Budgie smugglers? I thought that's Australian for Gum Boots. Turns out, it kinda is actually, but for your Johnson & co.
                                    Secondly,
                                    When wearing a thong (the real sexy kind) in a grocery store becomes a norm in your part of planet, I'm moving there permanently.
                                    Third,
                                    Lunch\Cafe in your beachwear?
                                    Bro, you should've started with this.
                                    Imma land there now.

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                                    Secondly, When wearing a thong (the real sexy kind) in a grocery store becomes a norm in your part of planet, I’m moving there permanently.

                                    I want you to pause for a second and think what the average person looks like.

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                                      How small does the friendship need to be for me to casually smooch all the pretty members of your society?

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                                      Please immediately stop this line of thinking. It is verging on creep territory.

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                                        Mass shootings are likely now what we all imagine. I think most of us are imagining the left side of this chart. And I'd say the leftmost three sources are hardly conservative. 🙂

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                                        Yeah, the "high schooler shoots up a school" or "crazy guy shoots up a mall" school shootings are incredibly rare. The majority of "mass shootings" are gang related violence. And even if you include all the instances and assumed you were equally likely to be involved in any of them (you aren't), it would still be incredibly unlikely for you to ever be involved in such a situation.

                                        Gun deaths in general are not what most people imagine they are. 2/3 of them are suicides. Of the remaining 1/3, they will almost certainly be perpatrated by someone the victim had a pre-existing relationship with.

                                        Not to say that gun violence is not a problem. But the view some of the lunatics on this site seem to have - that going out to eat lunch in America is more dangerous than living in Gaza - is just completely false.

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                                          Germany: public benches are specifically placed to be full view of the sun for as long as possible, a wild proportion of people have bread slicing machines, and you’re not allowed to prevent someone from using even a private toilet if they really need it.

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                                          It's so pleasant that DM has clean toilets for when I've poorly planned my liquid intake, shops in France don't generally have toilets for the public and the malls that do don't really care if they're clean it seems.

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