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USUAL in your country but NOT anywhere else.

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  • starlinguk@lemmy.worldS [email protected]

    They don't protect you against the sun, unless you've got one with a special layer on it.

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    Pretty sure they meant it protects you from the heat of the sun. Like a cowboy hat or rice hat protects you from the sun

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      2024

      Police- 1270

      Mass shootings- 500ish (actually a down year)

      While I agree we need police reform, let's be accurate.

      Both problems need extensive work.

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      Oh whoop, wrong. There's been only 14 deaths. Which one of these are actual mass shootings and not something the FBI defines as one but the media doesn't? Like a bunch of gangbangers shooting at each other, wounding nobody, and causing a stampede that results in people twisting their ankles? That's considered a mass shooting by the FBI.

      I pulled the numbers straight from here. Since 1983, 1176 people were killed in mass shootings.

      Also, implying that the "mass shooting problem" requires "extensive work" is not good optics. All that America needs to do is suppress extremist right wing bullshit and mass shootings will cease to exist. Controlling the police on the other hand would require a lot more political power and a lot of reforms, but it would both reduce the amount of deaths AND curb down mass shootings at the same time because literally every single mass shooter only got to commit it because the cops didn't care.

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        Apparently Germany is one of the few (the only? Who knows) country to prefer carbonated water.

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        It's literally called "Danish water" here in Denmark, though I don't like it

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          what is that you usually do or see in your country or area but is weird to do in other area you have traveled or vice versa??
          like it is unusual to wear footwear indoors in asia.

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          Tipping as a social obligation when eating at dine in restaurants which in turn allows the waiter to be paid less by the employer and theoretically lowers menu prices.

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            I haven't seen anyone using parasols/umbrellas when it's too sunny in UK, but it's pretty common in Korea. I don't think I've seen them in Europe in general either. No idea for anywhere else to be honest.

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            Oh believe me it's coming. UK pays weather roulette a lot, and an umbrella is the perfect weapon

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              Apparently Germany is one of the few (the only? Who knows) country to prefer carbonated water.

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              "klassik oder ohne?"
              "mit scharf bitte, danke"

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                what is that you usually do or see in your country or area but is weird to do in other area you have traveled or vice versa??
                like it is unusual to wear footwear indoors in asia.

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                Two front doors for a single terraced 2 bedroom house.

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                  Italy: always offering (and accepting) food or drinks while visiting. It’s impossible and/or incredibly rude to pass by a friend’s house without getting at least a coffee or a glass of water.

                  Netherlands: cold lunch. Traditionally, you’d have only one hot meal a day, and lunch would be sandwiches. I don’t mean to say that sandwiches don’t happen in other countries, but that hot lunches are basically unheard of in NL.

                  US: everyone has one or multiple cars. Walking to the grocery store means you are basically destitute. (That was quite the culture shock!)

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                  As a clarification, that last one is definitely NOT true about all places in the US, it very much depends on which area you live in. In NYC few people own a car even if they're quite well off. No one here drives to get their regular groceries.

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                    The societal problems if the US has been covered by others, but here are some culture shock ones I've experienced, in no particular order:

                    • still use personal checks
                    • put down knife after cutting your food, move fork to dominant hand
                    • drive through everything, including alcohol purchases
                    • horse and buggy on highway
                    • doorknobs instead of handles
                    • almost everyone has air conditioning, so doors and windows stay closed in summer
                    • double hung windows
                    • carry water bottles everywhere
                    • gas stoves and ovens are by far more popular than electric by a good margin
                    • in sink garbage disposals
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                    put down knife after cutting your food, move fork to dominant hand

                    what the fuuck

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                      Apparently Germany is one of the few (the only? Who knows) country to prefer carbonated water.

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                      Ugh i hated that about Germany. When you ask for a water they bring you a seltzer. If you want water you have to specifically ask for "still water". Like what?! That's crazy nonsense. Water is one of the most basic elements of life as we know it, you can't make the word for water mean anything other than what it's always meant. I mean obviously you can, but it seems insanely dumb

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                        I lived in NJ. When i randomly said i didn’t have a car, some colleagues gave me pitying looks. I heard NY is its own little microcosm, but it seemed in general US is very car centric, so much so that there were areas I literally couldn’t reach by foot.

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                          Cheating on your spouse with someone at the company julefrokost (christmas work thing).

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                          https://cphpost.dk/2016-12-07/news/a-shocking-affair-danes-lead-european-infidelity-charts/

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                          I remember something similar happening in the US recently...

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                            what is that you usually do or see in your country or area but is weird to do in other area you have traveled or vice versa??
                            like it is unusual to wear footwear indoors in asia.

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                            Losing a ground war against flightless birds.

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                              Southern Europe here where the sun is also a deadly laser. Only parasols you can see are held by Asian tourists. Most people don't even wear sunscreen.

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                              I live in Spain, when I started to use an umbrella in my way to work during the worst days of summer I expected to receive weird looks, nope, a couple neighbours even copied me.

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                                what is that you usually do or see in your country or area but is weird to do in other area you have traveled or vice versa??
                                like it is unusual to wear footwear indoors in asia.

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                                Germany: public benches are specifically placed to be full view of the sun for as long as possible, a wild proportion of people have bread slicing machines, and you’re not allowed to prevent someone from using even a private toilet if they really need it.

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                                  what is that you usually do or see in your country or area but is weird to do in other area you have traveled or vice versa??
                                  like it is unusual to wear footwear indoors in asia.

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                                  Hospital bills. I guess some of y'all have some kinda universal health care? Wild. Here, illnesses can lead to bankruptcy. Cool. Yeah.

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                                  • salamencefury@lemmy.worldS [email protected]

                                    Oh whoop, wrong. There's been only 14 deaths. Which one of these are actual mass shootings and not something the FBI defines as one but the media doesn't? Like a bunch of gangbangers shooting at each other, wounding nobody, and causing a stampede that results in people twisting their ankles? That's considered a mass shooting by the FBI.

                                    I pulled the numbers straight from here. Since 1983, 1176 people were killed in mass shootings.

                                    Also, implying that the "mass shooting problem" requires "extensive work" is not good optics. All that America needs to do is suppress extremist right wing bullshit and mass shootings will cease to exist. Controlling the police on the other hand would require a lot more political power and a lot of reforms, but it would both reduce the amount of deaths AND curb down mass shootings at the same time because literally every single mass shooter only got to commit it because the cops didn't care.

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                                    1: Your source uses FBI data.

                                    2: The criteria is clearly spelled out in your own source, and it changed in 2013 to be more strict.

                                    3: Our mass shooting problem definitely requires extensive work.

                                    4: Extremist violence does account for the vast majority, and right wing is the vast majority of extremist violence, especially if you count religious extremists. However, the abundance of guns certainly adds more since we are not the most extreme religious country, nor do we have the most percentage of right-wing idealologically aligned people.

                                    5: Forcing cops to care has never worked because, according to SCOTUS, they're not required to do their job, even while on shift and present. Also, the most red flag sign of gun violence is domestic abuse, which most cops do on the regular, as well as right wing extremist ideation, which most cops engage in already. We'd be better off firing the domestic abusers and domestic terrorists that make up the majority and hiring social workers for most roles.

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                                      Losing a ground war against flightless birds.

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                                      • pika@sh.itjust.worksP [email protected]

                                        Tipping as a social obligation when eating at dine in restaurants which in turn allows the waiter to be paid less by the employer and theoretically lowers menu prices.

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                                        The Asshole Subsidy. Extra money is taken from the people who are kind enough to worry about the waiter getting paid, effectively giving assholes who choose not to tip a discount.

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                                          Cheating on your spouse with someone at the company julefrokost (christmas work thing).

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                                          https://cphpost.dk/2016-12-07/news/a-shocking-affair-danes-lead-european-infidelity-charts/

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                                          How normal are we talking?

                                          Like: "Happy New Year, dear. I cheated on you on Christmas with Sarah from Finance. How is your affair with Fyodor in Marketing going?"

                                          "Oh, Fyodor is so last year. They fired him because he was too loyal to his husband. I went with Peter in Accounting. Here, he bought us cupcakes for our anniversary."

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