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How much do you tip at a restaurant?

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  • W [email protected]

    To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

    Growing up in the 90's, the "minimum acceptable" tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I've heard these days it's not unusual to tip up to 40%!

    What do you usually do?

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    15% flat always. Canada has sadly embraced tipping culture so I'll not deny anyone the going rate or judge them at their workplace - but Vancouver is also expensive as fuck and anything over 15% starts putting meals close to the 100$ mark.

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    • zak@lemmy.worldZ [email protected]

      In the USA: 20%. In Europe: 10%. If service is exceptional or bad, I adjust up or down.

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      Please don't fucking tip in Europe, tipping culture isn't normalized there and servers actually get a fair wage.

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      • W [email protected]

        To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

        Growing up in the 90's, the "minimum acceptable" tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I've heard these days it's not unusual to tip up to 40%!

        What do you usually do?

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        I have generally tipped at least 20%. But tipped workers in my state just fought to keep their sub-minimum wage, because republicans convinced them that people would stop tipping if they were paid more. Tipped minimum wage was going up to $6, but now it's only going up to $4.74. I've been tipping too much, and will bring it back down to max 15%.

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        • W [email protected]

          To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

          Growing up in the 90's, the "minimum acceptable" tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I've heard these days it's not unusual to tip up to 40%!

          What do you usually do?

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          I'm almost always a 25%. I used to work in the industry in a previous lifetime, and tips were what kept me afloat. Now I'm an overpaid professional, and have no qualm paying it forward.

          The only situations a will tip much less is if:

          • Service was just absolutely fucking abismal due to very clear negligence.
          • It's one of these new hipster restaurants that keep popping up, where you order and pay for your food upfront and are expected to tip then as well, without knowing how service will be. I'm not talking about food carts or kiosks either, these are actual restaurants. I hate the expectation that I should just pay an extra premium without even having a chance to evaluate the experience.
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          • W [email protected]

            To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

            Growing up in the 90's, the "minimum acceptable" tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I've heard these days it's not unusual to tip up to 40%!

            What do you usually do?

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            Usually 20-25% unless the service is inexcusably bad (like 1-5% of the time, and even then I'll tip like 15%). I'll typically approximate 20% and round up to the nearest dollar, then maybe add a dollar or two. I remember 15% being standard with it being acceptable to go down to 10 or up to 20; 18% was sorta my standard at the time, and I'd only go as low as 15%. I've only ever asked to speak to a manager three times that I can remember, and both times were due to what the kitchen sent out to me. I still tipped fully to the server since it wasn't their fault. I was a chef for years, so I know how stressful it gets back there, but there's still no excuse for the dishes I've sent back. There's usually an offer to cook something else, but if I'm sending food back it's because I don't trust the kitchen to send out food that won't give me food poisoning.

            Tipped minimum wage here (and therefore all tipped wage) is $2.17/hour. I believe that these businesses should be forced to pay proper wages, but stiffing your server doesn't achieve that. These people are on their feet running around for hours and they usually don't have enough support or leadership to do their job as well as they'd like to, and then they're too exhausted and broke to study or work to break into another industry. We're gonna have a lot of 30-50 year old servers living paycheck to paycheck until their knees and back give out. I'm down with tipping an extra couple bucks so they can get some Dr Scholl's.

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            • W [email protected]

              To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

              Growing up in the 90's, the "minimum acceptable" tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I've heard these days it's not unusual to tip up to 40%!

              What do you usually do?

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              100-200% depending on how good the service was.

              Downside to this is I can't afford to go out as often. :C

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              • kalcifer@sh.itjust.worksK [email protected]

                Zero. I believe that the negotiations of an employee's market value are between the employee and their employer. I don't believe that it is my responsibility to charitably subsidize a company through the subsidization of their employees' wages through tips.

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                Your choice not to tip will make no difference to the company, but every difference to a person who suffers through customer service for a living.

                "I don't want to subsidize a company" is just you inventing a convenient way to justify what is essentially theft. Why stop at not tipping? You could probably get away with stealing IDK, playground equipment too.

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                • paequ2@lemmy.todayP [email protected]

                  but Iโ€™ve heard these days itโ€™s not unusual to tip up to 40%!

                  That seems pretty unusual to me.

                  I normally tip 20%.

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                  Iโ€™m usually 25 and round up. Probably closer to 30.

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                    Please don't fucking tip in Europe, tipping culture isn't normalized there and servers actually get a fair wage.

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                    As a Romanian, tipping here does very much help Hospitality/Delivery workers, as our wages are deep down the toilet.

                    Our tipping culture is (or was, at least) pretty similar to the US's, 10-15% as a standard tip, 20% if you're flush and the service was notable (checking up on you occasionally, helping you make sense of things if need be, polite, nothing over-the-top). Same thing goes for delivery people.

                    Nowadays, I suspect people have somewhat maintained the ratios, although this comes mostly as an anecdotal observation - I started tipping 20-25%, or even double that if I'm ordering groceries (because I stock up for weeks, so it's quite a bit to carry), and a LOT of delivery people have remarked that it was the largest tip they'd ever received (as an average example, about a 20RON ~ $4 tip to a 100RON ~ $21 food order).

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                    • W [email protected]

                      To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

                      Growing up in the 90's, the "minimum acceptable" tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I've heard these days it's not unusual to tip up to 40%!

                      What do you usually do?

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                      15 pct is what I do now on average. No tip for takeout.

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                      • W [email protected]

                        To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

                        Growing up in the 90's, the "minimum acceptable" tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I've heard these days it's not unusual to tip up to 40%!

                        What do you usually do?

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                        0%. We do not have a tipping culture, nor will I ever move in the direction of us having one.

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                        • W [email protected]

                          To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

                          Growing up in the 90's, the "minimum acceptable" tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I've heard these days it's not unusual to tip up to 40%!

                          What do you usually do?

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                          If i was still there I'd still tip 20% cash preferred. (Card/electronic transactions are more often stolen by management)

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                          • W [email protected]

                            To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

                            Growing up in the 90's, the "minimum acceptable" tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I've heard these days it's not unusual to tip up to 40%!

                            What do you usually do?

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                            Nothing I live in Australia

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                            • W [email protected]

                              To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

                              Growing up in the 90's, the "minimum acceptable" tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I've heard these days it's not unusual to tip up to 40%!

                              What do you usually do?

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                              When I have been in the us I used to tip around 15%. Accepted that as a weirdness of the us.

                              On my home country tipping is just weird and unheard of, so 0%.

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                                15% flat always. Canada has sadly embraced tipping culture so I'll not deny anyone the going rate or judge them at their workplace - but Vancouver is also expensive as fuck and anything over 15% starts putting meals close to the 100$ mark.

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                                Don't pay it. In Australia they're trying, and I remind them they get paid well, get paid overtime, get paid a pension, and get paid more to take holidays. After being paid all that, why is the shitty machine prompting a tip?

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                                  Please don't fucking tip in Europe, tipping culture isn't normalized there and servers actually get a fair wage.

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                                  Tipping at restaurants is already normal in Germany, France, and Italy if there is not a service charge on the check.

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                                  • I [email protected]

                                    Your choice not to tip will make no difference to the company, but every difference to a person who suffers through customer service for a living.

                                    "I don't want to subsidize a company" is just you inventing a convenient way to justify what is essentially theft. Why stop at not tipping? You could probably get away with stealing IDK, playground equipment too.

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                                    Not tipping is theft now? Is everything ok bud?

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                                    • zak@lemmy.worldZ [email protected]

                                      In the USA: 20%. In Europe: 10%. If service is exceptional or bad, I adjust up or down.

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                                      Stop tipping in EU. Last time someone asked me to tip in Germany got a 1 star review.

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                                      • W [email protected]

                                        To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

                                        Growing up in the 90's, the "minimum acceptable" tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I've heard these days it's not unusual to tip up to 40%!

                                        What do you usually do?

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                                        • W [email protected]

                                          To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

                                          Growing up in the 90's, the "minimum acceptable" tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I've heard these days it's not unusual to tip up to 40%!

                                          What do you usually do?

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                                          I avoid restaurants that require tipping. When I do have to tip, I give way too much if the service was good. IMO, good service is to not try to talk to me too much, and to be responsive to what I need done (refilling drinks, taking additional requests). Bonus tip if I know they're overworked and handling it well.

                                          15% floor. Throw an additional $10 sometimes. Always direct to the worker because these places steal tips. Also I tip cooks sometimes.

                                          But I avoid going to these restaurants.

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