Why Gen Z Is Ditching Dating Apps
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TL;DRs:
many Gen-Z daters cite fear of rejection and being cringe amongst their top concerns.
Gen-Z daters may have a harder time putting themselves in the vulnerable position online of seeking partnership only to get passed over or ghosted.
dating a friend or someone from their community may actually reduce those feelings of stress and anxiety that Gen-Z face in the dating app environment.
Social media has become a place for meeting potential partners. Visually-driven apps like Instagram and TikTok allow users to get a sense of who people are (or who they want to be seen as)
Another interesting dating trend involves sharing detailed information about yourself and what you’re looking for in a personalized Google doc, linked in your social media bio.
Self-doxxing? Wtf?!
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Latest Gen-Z trend is messaging your name, dob, and bank details to me.
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So.. it’s definitely their fault somehow and not…. I don’t know… enshitification?
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Self-doxing is a major reason why I never tried dating sites/apps. You don't have any chance there without a photo of yourself, and having my face posted online is a strict "no". Especially since I don't really look like an adult, which might attract some... unwanted kind of attention.
But mostly it's the fact that pretty much all men want sex there.
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I ditched it just because fpr the few contacts I could establish all of them ghosted me after the first outreach.
Like okay, why even give mw a thumbs up if you don't care anyway.
Thus I purged the app and live my life happier by just not giving a fuck about that.
If the situation offeres the opportunity I'll take it. Else it's whatever. -
Yeah, what happened to the good old:
a/s/l? -
pretty much all men want sex
thereFTFY
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They figured out it's all catfishing, bots, and now AI?
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lol . . . thanks TIME.
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The article says as much. But it's also definitely both. While the dating app scene has been abysmal for the last 10 years or so, Gen Z is also a lot less sexually active than previous generations were at their age. There've been a few reports on how Gen Z is having less sex, and how they have less demand for sex in media because they grew up inundated with sexualized media their whole lives. It's pretty interesting to see the attitude shift toward sex with the generations.
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Is Gen Z becoming the new Millennials?
"Gen Z is ruining the Dating App Market!"
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pretty much all
mennon-asexuals want sexFTFY
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I was told that women are indeed horny after forming a deep emotional connection with somebody. Yet to experience that. Most men are just horny at nobody in perticular tho
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It's got nothing to with "generations". Young people don't need dating apps as much because their social lives are better. Wait until they're 28 working at a shit job with minimal human interaction. They'll be on those apps.
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Dating is for people with a future. We have all realized in our subconscious that there is no future anymore. At least, not a good one.
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I can’t blame enshittification on this one. The dating app model doesn’t work, period. Even in the case of a completely free, non-profit app, you still have the problem that as people pair off they leave the dating pool.
The fundamental problem is that there’s a nonzero subpopulation of people who either have no interest in or are incapable of forming a stable long term relationship. As the dating pool filters over time, these folks get more and more concentrated in the population. This leads to the experience getting worse and worse for people who are interested and capable because they keep matching up with the wrong people.
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Women are very capable of being horny for horny's sake.
Women generally have to be much more selective for safety. The stats on sexual assault in US would astound anyone. Given how likely it is for a girl to be SA'd, or know someone who has, its no wonder they don't openly express desire as much. Guys don't have to worry about what happens if they change their mind at any poiny. At least not even close to the same degree.
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Yeah, very fair points. Just that lacking this desire entirely is very consistent with my experience, so I still prefer to assume most women only "unlock" it under said conditions.
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I think strip clubs are the counterpoint to "both sexes are equally horny."
Yes, male strip clubs exist but the vast majority are for people to ogle naked women.
