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Anon dates a 19 y/o

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    Exactly! Why the fuck would anyone want to date someone that much younger than them? I will never understand why so many men want to date girl so young.

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    People are feeling all kinds of pressure these days. If they want to have kids they need a lot of resources. But having a lot of resources is really difficult to do when you’re young. So that naturally suggests a compromise: one old with resources and one young with health.

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      People are feeling all kinds of pressure these days. If they want to have kids they need a lot of resources. But having a lot of resources is really difficult to do when you’re young. So that naturally suggests a compromise: one old with resources and one young with health.

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      Wait, but I thought men hated "gold diggers"? And also, that's the result of our fucked up late stage capitalism economic system and not how things should work. A young couple should be able to afford to live comfortably and have children if they want.

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      • daggermoon@lemmy.worldD [email protected]

        I mean, i'd like to date someone that much older than me.

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        Why? (Genuine question if you feel like sharing) Like, I too prefer older partners, but not that much older.

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          Wait, but I thought men hated "gold diggers"? And also, that's the result of our fucked up late stage capitalism economic system and not how things should work. A young couple should be able to afford to live comfortably and have children if they want.

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          People make life choices based on how things are, not how they ought to be.

          Generally a “gold digger” refers to a young woman who marries an elderly rich man with the intent of gaining a large inheritance, not a young woman who marries an established (but still working) man a few decades her senior with the intent of raising a family. A big “gold digger tell” is that the rich guy already has adult children who end up in a feud with his new young wife (because she represents a threat to their inheritance).

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            I think it means something like "this is 'mid' (i.e. uninteresting), I mean it". "fr" seems pretty similar to how a lot of people use honestly/"to be honest"/TBH, just kind of random words for emphasis.

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            thanks that is starting to make sense

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              Why? (Genuine question if you feel like sharing) Like, I too prefer older partners, but not that much older.

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              Honestly, because i'm a 20 something year old man with no life experiences and I don't know how to survive on my own. Someone older with more experience who would be willing to teach me would be nice. It's a big ask I guess. I don't really know what else to do. I'm lonely and i'd like to meet someone kind, caring, and beautiful who can be a friend, lover, and teacher if you will. I haven't told anyone this because it makes me sound desperate and like a lost cause.

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                40 year old here, dating a 19 year old, consensual D/s relationship: she is not for talking. You place a collar on her and then tell her what you want to hear. They need training before they're good at anything.

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                  Nothing but your missed life? You can live a lot of life without a romantic partner, as much I very much understand it can still feel lonely at times.

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                  I missed my entire life. It's not all about that. Though I also regret not experiencing what everyone else did. The mistakes, the heartbreaks, you know, normal people stuff, that's mostly FOMO. What really sucks is I actually missed out on almost everything that makes life worth living. So, now I'm just in the mindset that I should just treat the good things of this world as false, and something that is meant for rich/normal people.

                  I'm just here to work, and fight. I need to make sure no one else ends up the same, ever again. Until then, there's no point in resting.

                  So I went back to seeing myself as unimportant, and putting my mission first.

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                    Meh, I won't put strict age limits on sex. Relationships? I can guess what would and wouldn't work for me, but the world is a big place and people are wildly variable.

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                    Idk man. Isn't screwing someone fresh out of high school a bit creepy? I mean come on, they were considered a kid maybe months ago. It's suspicious if you do that.

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                    • fizz@lemmy.nzF [email protected]

                      The age it lands on is always the grey area age. If youre 19 dating someone 16.5 thats weird but 17.5 most wouldn't bat an eye at.

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                      I mean, maybe 17.5 and 18+, idk about 19. What's the brain difference between some six months of people? You could have been in a perfectly fine relationship before also.

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                        40 year old here, dating a 19 year old, consensual D/s relationship: she is not for talking. You place a collar on her and then tell her what you want to hear. They need training before they're good at anything.

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                        Hi! Sorry to inconvenience you, but I have just one question. The fuck did I just read?

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                          Yeah, at 27, 22 was already like too young for me. Let alone 20.

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                            I mean, maybe if you're a stupid person.

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                              40 year old here, dating a 19 year old, consensual D/s relationship: she is not for talking. You place a collar on her and then tell her what you want to hear. They need training before they're good at anything.

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                              Police? This one right here!

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                              • G [email protected]

                                Found Leo's account.

                                Seriously though why so hostile about this? Of course it's made up, it's a general rule of thumb, and it describes whether people are likely to look at a couple and say, "ew".

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                                One day I mentionned this rule while having a dinner with friends. One of them was a woman I met fir the first time.

                                It turned out his husband was way older than this rule allowed when they met. And now that the rule is fine, she didn’t felt bad about her husband.

                                Seriously, I felt so shitty. Let people loves who they love without discrimination as long as this is consensual between adults.

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                                  People are feeling all kinds of pressure these days. If they want to have kids they need a lot of resources. But having a lot of resources is really difficult to do when you’re young. So that naturally suggests a compromise: one old with resources and one young with health.

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                                  What I mean I've been alive a long time. I'm not sure how I was supposed to accrue resources through that though.

                                  Also who wants to date a 19 year old they'd be really annoying.

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                                    His date:

                                    Source: Brainrot Girlfriend

                                    Bonus:

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                                    It feels wrong to read manga-style art left to right.

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                                      My partner's sister is 19, I'm in my early 30s now. But I met my partner when she was 19, I often ask myself did she come across as this annoying to people in their 30s back then?

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                                        It feels wrong to read manga-style art left to right.

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                                        Took me like 5 mins to figure out what was wrong...

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                                          Idk man. Isn't screwing someone fresh out of high school a bit creepy? I mean come on, they were considered a kid maybe months ago. It's suspicious if you do that.

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                                          One night stands are just animals fucking basically.

                                          It only gets weird one there's an actual relationship and unbalanced power dynamic going on.

                                          But part of being young is being stupid and fucking something you shouldn't have is basically stupid 101

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