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Mutual aid spam is becoming a problem on the Fediverse.

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  • atomicpoet@atomicpoet.orgA [email protected]

    Mutual aid spam is becoming a problem on the Fediverse.

    And to be sure, I'm not against mutual aid. What I am against is spam.

    This person has not verified who she is -- or even if the profile picture is hers. Additional research on her name states she is a scammer with a record of grifting. I am therefore skeptical that any donations will help anyone in need.

    Folks, please be cautious with mutual aid requests. Yes, people sometimes need help. But people also lie.

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    Who is seriously stupid enough to fall for this?

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    • atomicpoet@atomicpoet.orgA [email protected]

      Mutual aid spam is becoming a problem on the Fediverse.

      And to be sure, I'm not against mutual aid. What I am against is spam.

      This person has not verified who she is -- or even if the profile picture is hers. Additional research on her name states she is a scammer with a record of grifting. I am therefore skeptical that any donations will help anyone in need.

      Folks, please be cautious with mutual aid requests. Yes, people sometimes need help. But people also lie.

      @[email protected]

      pugjesus@lemmy.worldP This user is from outside of this forum
      pugjesus@lemmy.worldP This user is from outside of this forum
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      #12

      I was just offered 500$ to be someone's friend. Of course, I refused - my friendship is worth much more than that!

      But it's... concerning that we've got this sudden spike in spam.

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      • punchshark@lemmy.caP [email protected]

        Who is seriously stupid enough to fall for this?

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        #13

        My cat just died chewing through the power cable on my graphics card so I need a new 5090, please help brother

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        • atomicpoet@atomicpoet.orgA [email protected]

          Mutual aid spam is becoming a problem on the Fediverse.

          And to be sure, I'm not against mutual aid. What I am against is spam.

          This person has not verified who she is -- or even if the profile picture is hers. Additional research on her name states she is a scammer with a record of grifting. I am therefore skeptical that any donations will help anyone in need.

          Folks, please be cautious with mutual aid requests. Yes, people sometimes need help. But people also lie.

          @[email protected]

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          #14

          Yep I've already gotten a couple messages like this with an image of a random lady attached:

          Hi, I’m Nicole! I’m a proud Polish girl from Toronto (29 y/o)

          I’m currently taking the pre-health sciences program at George Brown College hoping to get into the medical field someday!

          You can add me on Friendica: [REDACTED]

          and join my discord here: [REDACTED]

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          • atomicpoet@atomicpoet.orgA [email protected]

            Mutual aid spam is becoming a problem on the Fediverse.

            And to be sure, I'm not against mutual aid. What I am against is spam.

            This person has not verified who she is -- or even if the profile picture is hers. Additional research on her name states she is a scammer with a record of grifting. I am therefore skeptical that any donations will help anyone in need.

            Folks, please be cautious with mutual aid requests. Yes, people sometimes need help. But people also lie.

            @[email protected]

            I This user is from outside of this forum
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            I would just reply with a guide to shoplifting 😉

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            • m_f@discuss.onlineM [email protected]

              I don't think mutual aid can work well like that on the internet. Works great in person, works OK for GoFundMe-type stuff like "I had something happen to me that will take a lot of money to fix". Too easy to scam and grift for small stuff like this though, where for all you know they're just a very clever dog on the internet.

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              I for one am not willing to feed a milk-bone addiction, no matter how good a boy he is.

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              • atomicpoet@atomicpoet.orgA [email protected]

                Mutual aid spam is becoming a problem on the Fediverse.

                And to be sure, I'm not against mutual aid. What I am against is spam.

                This person has not verified who she is -- or even if the profile picture is hers. Additional research on her name states she is a scammer with a record of grifting. I am therefore skeptical that any donations will help anyone in need.

                Folks, please be cautious with mutual aid requests. Yes, people sometimes need help. But people also lie.

                @[email protected]

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                I blocked MutualAid-related tags months ago because there is only so much begging and sob stories that a person can take.

                I feel sorry for people who have problems and situations so desperate that they feel the best way to fix them is asking random people on the internet for money, but I just don't know if I can trust them and I absolutely know I can't help everyone.

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                • atomicpoet@atomicpoet.orgA [email protected]

                  Mutual aid spam is becoming a problem on the Fediverse.

                  And to be sure, I'm not against mutual aid. What I am against is spam.

                  This person has not verified who she is -- or even if the profile picture is hers. Additional research on her name states she is a scammer with a record of grifting. I am therefore skeptical that any donations will help anyone in need.

                  Folks, please be cautious with mutual aid requests. Yes, people sometimes need help. But people also lie.

                  @[email protected]

                  B This user is from outside of this forum
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                  #18

                  Don't boost it. If it violates your instance's rules (e.g. it's a scam), report it. Unfollow people that boost it. Mute/block the poster or their content.

                  I don't might seeing it, and I don't think it is a problem (yet).

                  Agree that caution is warranted for any request of funds, whatever the requestor wants to call it.

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                  • atomicpoet@atomicpoet.orgA [email protected]

                    Mutual aid spam is becoming a problem on the Fediverse.

                    And to be sure, I'm not against mutual aid. What I am against is spam.

                    This person has not verified who she is -- or even if the profile picture is hers. Additional research on her name states she is a scammer with a record of grifting. I am therefore skeptical that any donations will help anyone in need.

                    Folks, please be cautious with mutual aid requests. Yes, people sometimes need help. But people also lie.

                    @[email protected]

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                    This is nothing, on hexbear there's a person pretending to be like half a dozen different Palestinians with different fraudulent GoFundMe. They cook up a new persona like every other week using pictures they scrape from the media and then run it through an AI filter.

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                      Yep.

                      I feel the fediverse should lean towards “overly aggressive” when combatting spam, before it takes root, even with all the negatives that brings.

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                      I agree. E-mail is the original federated service. And 50 years later, e-mail spam remains a big problem. I hope Fedi projects can get spam mitigations on-par with email, before spammers start getting serious about this place.

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                      • pugjesus@lemmy.worldP [email protected]

                        I was just offered 500$ to be someone's friend. Of course, I refused - my friendship is worth much more than that!

                        But it's... concerning that we've got this sudden spike in spam.

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                        Tell them I'll do it for $495

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                          My cat just died chewing through the power cable on my graphics card so I need a new 5090, please help brother

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                          I can mail you a brand new cat. Good enough?

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                          • medicpigbabysaver@lemmy.worldM [email protected]

                            I can mail you a brand new cat. Good enough?

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                            Careful! Might be a bobcat.

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                            • m_f@discuss.onlineM [email protected]

                              I don't think mutual aid can work well like that on the internet. Works great in person, works OK for GoFundMe-type stuff like "I had something happen to me that will take a lot of money to fix". Too easy to scam and grift for small stuff like this though, where for all you know they're just a very clever dog on the internet.

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                              I don’t think mutual aid can work well like that on the internet. Works great in person,

                              That can be an incredibly privileged position to be in to say. Some people are in situations so bad in their meatspace life that "the random internet" is actually more trustworthy.

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                              • povoq@slrpnk.netP [email protected]

                                Charity is not the same as mutual aid anyways, even though I have also seen "mutual aid" requests on the Fediverse that were clearly asking for charity.

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                                How would you differentiate the two?

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                                • atomicpoet@atomicpoet.orgA [email protected]

                                  Mutual aid spam is becoming a problem on the Fediverse.

                                  And to be sure, I'm not against mutual aid. What I am against is spam.

                                  This person has not verified who she is -- or even if the profile picture is hers. Additional research on her name states she is a scammer with a record of grifting. I am therefore skeptical that any donations will help anyone in need.

                                  Folks, please be cautious with mutual aid requests. Yes, people sometimes need help. But people also lie.

                                  @[email protected]

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                                  Whoa, is this from Mastodon?

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                                    Whoa, is this from Mastodon?

                                    atomicpoet@atomicpoet.orgA This user is from outside of this forum
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                                    @[email protected] No, this account is from Akkoma. I can submit a post to Lemmy by mentioning the community handle in my post. Such is the magic of the Fediverse.

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                                    • medicpigbabysaver@lemmy.worldM [email protected]

                                      I can mail you a brand new cat. Good enough?

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                                      Dear brother in Christ I appreciate your generosity, is it a Siamese cat? I have allergies and my graphics card and the graphics card helps to clear the hair.

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                                      • xnx@slrpnk.netX [email protected]

                                        How would you differentiate the two?

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                                        https://theanarchistlibrary.org/library/dean-spade-solidarity-not-charity

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                                          Tell them I'll do it for $495

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                                          I’ll be their mate if they pay me £400.

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