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why the hell cant men stay out of women-only spaces?

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  • originalucifer@moist.catsweat.comO [email protected]

    im so sick of seeing reports regarding men posting in women-only communities and i cant help but get annoyed with these guys.

    the rules are clearly presented. either youre not paying attention or youre just an asshole who purposefully throws their opinion in a place explicitly not wanting it.

    what the fuck is wrong with you guys?

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    Why the hell SOME women can't stop generalizing men's behaviour?

    What the fuck is wrong with you, guys?

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    • originalucifer@moist.catsweat.comO [email protected]

      im so sick of seeing reports regarding men posting in women-only communities and i cant help but get annoyed with these guys.

      the rules are clearly presented. either youre not paying attention or youre just an asshole who purposefully throws their opinion in a place explicitly not wanting it.

      what the fuck is wrong with you guys?

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      Honestly the varied mobile platforms don't always present the channel/groups rules in advance. Especially if one is just browsing trending topics. There can potentially be no way for some users to be informed enough before they see a topic they want to interact with.

      Best solution I found for similar issue is polite advisement of the rules via dm or other preferred method and helping them learn and have better internet etiquette.

      Calling folks out publicly can get alot of negative associations with it as well which might end with you group on the wrong end of a troll.

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      • originalucifer@moist.catsweat.comO [email protected]

        im so sick of seeing reports regarding men posting in women-only communities and i cant help but get annoyed with these guys.

        the rules are clearly presented. either youre not paying attention or youre just an asshole who purposefully throws their opinion in a place explicitly not wanting it.

        what the fuck is wrong with you guys?

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        That's a bit of an overreaction.

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        • originalucifer@moist.catsweat.comO [email protected]

          im so sick of seeing reports regarding men posting in women-only communities and i cant help but get annoyed with these guys.

          the rules are clearly presented. either youre not paying attention or youre just an asshole who purposefully throws their opinion in a place explicitly not wanting it.

          what the fuck is wrong with you guys?

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          TIL there is women only spaces on the internet. How do you even enforce it?

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            Why the hell SOME women can't stop generalizing men's behaviour?

            What the fuck is wrong with you, guys?

            originalucifer@moist.catsweat.comO This user is from outside of this forum
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            irrelevant. its none of your business what they converse amongst themselves

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            • originalucifer@moist.catsweat.comO [email protected]

              im so sick of seeing reports regarding men posting in women-only communities and i cant help but get annoyed with these guys.

              the rules are clearly presented. either youre not paying attention or youre just an asshole who purposefully throws their opinion in a place explicitly not wanting it.

              what the fuck is wrong with you guys?

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              "Why the hell can't blacks stay out of white only spaces"

              Successful woman-focused spaces incorporate men, because men are fathers of daughters; brothers of sisters; sons of mothers; and partners, friends, coworkers, mentors, and teammates of women. Men are relevant and important to addressing women's issues.

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                TIL there is women only spaces on the internet. How do you even enforce it?

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                • originalucifer@moist.catsweat.comO [email protected]

                  im so sick of seeing reports regarding men posting in women-only communities and i cant help but get annoyed with these guys.

                  the rules are clearly presented. either youre not paying attention or youre just an asshole who purposefully throws their opinion in a place explicitly not wanting it.

                  what the fuck is wrong with you guys?

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                  How do you know they're guys?
                  Who decides who's a woman?

                  originalucifer@moist.catsweat.comO otter@lemmy.dbzer0.comO 2 Replies Last reply
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                  • originalucifer@moist.catsweat.comO [email protected]

                    irrelevant. its none of your business what they converse amongst themselves

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                      TIL there is women only spaces on the internet. How do you even enforce it?

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                      Mandatory penis inspection, obviously.

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                        "Why the hell can't blacks stay out of white only spaces"

                        Successful woman-focused spaces incorporate men, because men are fathers of daughters; brothers of sisters; sons of mothers; and partners, friends, coworkers, mentors, and teammates of women. Men are relevant and important to addressing women's issues.

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                        this says more about you than the original topic

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                          How do you know they're guys?
                          Who decides who's a woman?

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                          they tend to self identify in various, context specific ways. language is powerful

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                          • originalucifer@moist.catsweat.comO [email protected]

                            this says more about you than the original topic

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                            Don't like what you see in the mirror?

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                              are you one of the people doing this or should you have just stfu to start with as you have no actual information to contribute?

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                              • originalucifer@moist.catsweat.comO [email protected]

                                they tend to self identify in various, context specific ways. language is powerful

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                                How do you know they're not women trolling as men?

                                Isn't gender a social construct based on self-identification (rather than your physical body) that can be fluid & vary from day to day?
                                Isn't a woman anyone who claims to be?

                                Some activists even say there is no such thing as a “male body”

                                A penis is not a male body part. It’s just an unusual body part for a woman.

                                Messages are genderless.

                                Are you complaining about unverifiable gender claims on here?
                                Seems somewhat pointless & untenable.

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                                • originalucifer@moist.catsweat.comO [email protected]

                                  im so sick of seeing reports regarding men posting in women-only communities and i cant help but get annoyed with these guys.

                                  the rules are clearly presented. either youre not paying attention or youre just an asshole who purposefully throws their opinion in a place explicitly not wanting it.

                                  what the fuck is wrong with you guys?

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                                  Say I'm a trans female. Can I post then? Trans man? Gay man? Gay woman?

                                  It's self policing. If they're being obnoxious or killing the environment or culture of the space, downvote/block/report and move on.

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                                    Don't like what you see in the mirror?

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                                    purple!

                                    not sure how tossing irrelevant info matter, but there ya go!

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                                    • originalucifer@moist.catsweat.comO [email protected]

                                      im so sick of seeing reports regarding men posting in women-only communities and i cant help but get annoyed with these guys.

                                      the rules are clearly presented. either youre not paying attention or youre just an asshole who purposefully throws their opinion in a place explicitly not wanting it.

                                      what the fuck is wrong with you guys?

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                                      the rules are clearly presented

                                      I use Voyager. Community rules are hidden unless you specifically go to that community page, open the menu, and select "sidebar". It's incredibly easy to miss.

                                      If a community only wants some people posting then a quick fix is to not allow just anyone to post to it.

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                                      • originalucifer@moist.catsweat.comO [email protected]

                                        purple!

                                        not sure how tossing irrelevant info matter, but there ya go!

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                                          Knowing that he loved coke and alcohol at this time makes this hairstyle make sense.

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