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Is fediverse turning into reddit?

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  • raoulduke85@lemmy.worldR [email protected]

    I was banned lol. Oh no! What will I ever do!?

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    He is right, though. He politely asked you to avoid some language at his channel. Why would you downvote that comment?

    Downvotes for disagreements were part of the downfall of reddit.

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    • sterile_technique@lemmy.worldS [email protected]

      Even 'dude' is shifting towards gender neutral.

      As with all of these kinds of discussions, context is key. Getting offended at the mere sight of the word 'bro'? Go suck a dick. Using 'bro' spitefully to misgender someone? Also go suck a dick.

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      I've considered dude gender neutral since 2010-ish, it's just a "hello person I don't feel like specifying for"

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      • raoulduke85@lemmy.worldR [email protected]

        I was banned lol. Oh no! What will I ever do!?

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        rest assured your sacrifice has improved the blocklist of everyone here, bro

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        • raoulduke85@lemmy.worldR [email protected]
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          New awkardtheturtle?

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            As a woman who works with men, "bro" and "man" (thanks, man) seem to signify comradarie that I don't receive. It's not a big enough deal to bring up in the workplace, but I associate it with feeling left out and it makes me sad sometimes. Since you asked.

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            If it makes you feel any better, I don't think those words used in those context are gender specific, that is to say I would totally say "thanks, man" to a woman without batting an eye, and I assume people who use bro would do the same. I know feelings are extremely personal, and if it makes you feel bad it's unlikely to change because some random person online said something, but in my head "thanks, man" is just a construct used to imply comradrie, it has nothing to do with the gender of the word, just like how "see you later, alligator" doesn't exclude human beings.

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              rest assured your sacrifice has improved the blocklist of everyone here, bro

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              • raoulduke85@lemmy.worldR [email protected]
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                bruh..

                bro...

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                • raoulduke85@lemmy.worldR [email protected]

                  I’m not your compadré, amigo

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                  I'm not your amigo, pal

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                  • M [email protected]

                    yup my bad. also found this tho...

                    what a fucking shitshow of a community.

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                    Lol imagine banning stamets of all people

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                    • raoulduke85@lemmy.worldR [email protected]
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                      You can escape the software architecture. You can't escape the people.

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                      • raoulduke85@lemmy.worldR [email protected]
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                        Bro is gonna be a preemptive block. No reason to engage with people like that at all.

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                        • raoulduke85@lemmy.worldR [email protected]

                          Here’s the offensive “bro” speak. What a loser.

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                          I feel like was pretty obvious that "Bro." here was used as an interjection, rather than calling atomicpoet a "bro".

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                          • elgenzay@lemmy.mlE [email protected]

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                            Because he considers the word pro an issue. Did this idiot ever consider that in some communities 'bro' is even considered a sign of respect?

                            Not that I would respect some snowflake that obviously is wrongly placed in an admin position.

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                              This insanely nonsensical behavior is prevalent in tons of communities, and it should be shunned and avoided. These moderators are not worth a fraction of your time.

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                              • P [email protected]

                                He is right, though. He politely asked you to avoid some language at his channel. Why would you downvote that comment?

                                Downvotes for disagreements were part of the downfall of reddit.

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                                He politely asked you to avoid some language at his channel.

                                “Refrain from the bro-speak.”

                                I don’t see a question here, just an unsoftened, unexplained demand.

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                                • thebat@lemmy.worldT [email protected]

                                  That's true.

                                  Source: I'm banned from blahaj instance.

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                                  iirc blahaj has downvotes disabled

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                                  • raoulduke85@lemmy.worldR [email protected]
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                                    Yeah, I've noticed some mods act like twats over here as well.

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                                      Prying into who has downvoted you is just not a healthy habit to get into. If you run your own instance, it's important to just never use that ability.

                                      IMO, this is the kind of DM that is best ignored. I think most of us don't want these communities to work like that; don't give it any oxygen.

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                                      Totally agree.

                                      That's just like lookng for reasons to get angry.

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                                        He is right, though. He politely asked you to avoid some language at his channel. Why would you downvote that comment?

                                        Downvotes for disagreements were part of the downfall of reddit.

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                                        Found atomicpoet's alt account.

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                                        • raoulduke85@lemmy.worldR [email protected]
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                                          This is a friendly warning

                                          I’m not your friend, bro!

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