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Seriously what's that idea?

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  • L [email protected]

    What I'd really like is if comment downvotes were public.

    Edit: Thanks to Optional, here are the users who downvoted this comment (also lists users who upvoted).

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    #51

    They are on some instances.

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    • alecsargent@lemmy.zipA [email protected]

      Not sure what the best course of action is, perhaps just reporting, then blocking and hoping moderators make justice.

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      #52

      Dunno either, maybe just confronting...

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      • nichehervielleicht@feddit.orgN [email protected]

        They can see, and they can comment, want screenshots?

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        #53

        They are not refuting you. They are talking about how it is on Bluesky, as a point of reference. They are not talking about the fediverse.

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        • nichehervielleicht@feddit.orgN [email protected]

          My experience is, I see that there's a comment, I can't read it, I can't upvote or downvote it, and I couldn't report it, wonderful!

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          #54

          Why would you want to read a comment by someone you've blocked, and why would you want to upvote, downvote, or report a comment that you haven't read?

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          • nichehervielleicht@feddit.orgN [email protected]

            Thanks
            Final conclusion, no offence:
            Blocking is rather useless in the Fediverse, unless you submit to complete ignorance.

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            #55

            That's mostly true; it's optimized for wide dissemination of information, and the idea of keeping a specific person from seeing information that's shown to the rest of the world isn't very compatible with that. It doesn't really work on Reddit or web forums that are visible without logging in either since a person you've blocked can still view your posts anonymously.

            A bit more looking brings me to the ActivityPub spec. Your server should tell the blocked user's server about the block, and the blocked user's server shouldn't allow them to interact with your posts or comments (that doesn't mean they shouldn't be able to see your posts or comments).

            The thing is, in network protocol documents, should means the behavior is optional. Fediverse software doesn't have to support blocks at all according to the protocol.

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            • nichehervielleicht@feddit.orgN [email protected]

              They shouldn't be able to do that!

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              #56

              It... Makes perfect sense?

              YOU blocked them. They didn't block you.

              It's like when you were a kid and told to ignore the kid bullying you; except that it actually works.

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              • kolanaki@pawb.socialK [email protected]

                It... Makes perfect sense?

                YOU blocked them. They didn't block you.

                It's like when you were a kid and told to ignore the kid bullying you; except that it actually works.

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                #57

                I love you, but I hate you!

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                • A [email protected]

                  Why would you want to read a comment by someone you've blocked, and why would you want to upvote, downvote, or report a comment that you haven't read?

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                  #58

                  Ask yourself that question when it's about time.

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                  • N [email protected]

                    if so many of the sane users block the same nutjobs, then there won’t be anybody to downvote or refute those nutjobs

                    Don't worry, a lot of us never block anybody, specifically so we can do exactly that.

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                    #59

                    i used to do that, but my sanity suffered, now i block liberally

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                    • nichehervielleicht@feddit.orgN [email protected]

                      They shouldn't be able to do that!

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                      #60

                      Because neener-neener & too bad so sad?

                      Seriously, though, you shouldn't get to decide for everyone who to censor.
                      Just because you don't want to see it doesn't mean the rest of us don't.
                      That would be tyranny of the overly sensitive.

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                      • nichehervielleicht@feddit.orgN [email protected]

                        Ask yourself that question when it's about time.

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                        I have on occasion unblocked people just to see what was in a thread. I've never really been glad that I did so. I blocked them for a reason. I shouldn't want to engage with their posts. I'm happier and it makes things more calm when I'm not fighting with morons over shit anyone can see is wrong.

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                        • S [email protected]

                          I think the way it works is good.

                          1. If the blocked user browses on another account (or not logged in at all), they can’t tell that you have blocked them.

                          2. Bot/spam accounts can’t use the blocking system to stop users who target these accounts to call them out on their disguised malicious behavior. This became a problem on Reddit when they changed their blocking system away from what we have here.

                          Edit: I guess there is a downside of if so many of the sane users block the same nutjobs, then there won’t be anybody to downvote or refute those nutjobs

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                          But the nut job will be stuck in his own bubble unable to talk to everyone, which is more sane than engaging them

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                          • nichehervielleicht@feddit.orgN [email protected]

                            But they can still mock you without you witnessing.

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                            #63

                            What if someone is posting nonsense and you want to refute them? You want to silence others.

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                              Thank you for explaining to me why I didn’t like blocking but couldn’t express why.

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                              • rickyrigatoni@retrolemmy.comR [email protected]

                                Blocks work the way you want them to on Reddit. And all it did was allow people with fringe political beliefs and misinformation fetishes to stop decent people from refuting them. This is for the best.

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                                #65

                                It also makes Lemmy objectively less safe because it's much less effective at limiting stalking and harassment. Especially since way blocks work on Lemmy isn't clearly communicated to the user.

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                                • P [email protected]

                                  But they are leaving you alone

                                  But they're really not though, if they're commenting on your post, whether or not you can see it

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                                  #66

                                  Technically, that's still leaving YOU alone. They're just talking behind your back. And people I've blocked probably have, but I don't know and I don't care. I don't need to silence others to stop listening to them.

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                                  • P [email protected]

                                    But they are leaving you alone

                                    But they're really not though, if they're commenting on your post, whether or not you can see it

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                                    #67

                                    When you have blocked someone, and they comment on your post, do they come to your front door and start yelling?

                                    Are they standing across the road with a large, vulgar sign?

                                    Do you get a phone call?

                                    Do you in any way get notified?

                                    Can you even see their comment?

                                    If you answer "no" to the above, then you are left alone. They are no longer your concern. If you're still concerned, then that's a problem in your head.

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                                    • nichehervielleicht@feddit.orgN [email protected]

                                      They shouldn't be able to do that!

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                                      Here's how I frame it to myself: that person is basically screaming into the void after I block them. Sure, other people on here can see what they wrote, but 99.9% of them won't care or remember. I was their "intended target" and I'll never see their stupid comment. If it makes you feel any better, I've noticed a lot of troll types really hate being blocked and complain about it fairly regularly. You blocked them, you won the peace of them no longer existing for you.

                                      Also, if you've blocked them for being obnoxious, others probably have, too.

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                                      • nichehervielleicht@feddit.orgN [email protected]

                                        But they can still mock you without you witnessing.

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                                        Oh no! The potential that someone is mocking me, behind my back, without me witnessing or knowing it, really keeps me awake at night!

                                        I mean, really. If you've gone so far as to block someone, do you even care that they're mocking you?

                                        If so, why? And are you aware that someone can mock you, or spread crap about you behind your back, without explicitly needing the ability to comment on your threads?

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                                        • nichehervielleicht@feddit.orgN [email protected]

                                          They shouldn't be able to do that!

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                                          Hopefully people migrating from lemmy to Piefed eventually fixes a lot of these core issues.

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