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How much do you tip at a restaurant?

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  • W [email protected]

    To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

    Growing up in the 90's, the "minimum acceptable" tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I've heard these days it's not unusual to tip up to 40%!

    What do you usually do?

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    I avoid restaurants that require tipping. When I do have to tip, I give way too much if the service was good. IMO, good service is to not try to talk to me too much, and to be responsive to what I need done (refilling drinks, taking additional requests). Bonus tip if I know they're overworked and handling it well.

    15% floor. Throw an additional $10 sometimes. Always direct to the worker because these places steal tips. Also I tip cooks sometimes.

    But I avoid going to these restaurants.

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    • W [email protected]

      To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

      Growing up in the 90's, the "minimum acceptable" tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I've heard these days it's not unusual to tip up to 40%!

      What do you usually do?

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      15-25% usually 20%. I have worked for tips so I get it.

      My wife tipped 25% at an ice cream parlor last night. Which I thought was ridiculous considering he just pulled three pints out of a freezer behind him.

      It's too many places now.

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      • F [email protected]

        While your argument is sound, a server can't feed their children or care for disabled parents with sound arguments and principled stances.

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        Yeah the idea is ultimately that you help enable the system by participating. Ultimately nothing changes by a couple cheap assholes refusing to tip like this guy, so you should, it would only work if everyone decided not to. It would force the industry to adapt.

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        • W [email protected]

          To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

          Growing up in the 90's, the "minimum acceptable" tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I've heard these days it's not unusual to tip up to 40%!

          What do you usually do?

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          I don't live in the US but I tip around 20%, sometimes more or less depending. Tbh I'm never sure what tipping etiquette is supposed to be here, but if it's obvious how much the worker is getting (eg ride shares or food delivery where you can see the delivery fee), I tip them how much I think is reasonable to be paid for that job, which is usually quite a bit more than I'm charged for the service. And ofc not all of the initial charge goes to the worker anyway.

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            0%. We do not have a tipping culture, nor will I ever move in the direction of us having one.

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            Still a good answer πŸ˜†

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            • W [email protected]

              To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

              Growing up in the 90's, the "minimum acceptable" tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I've heard these days it's not unusual to tip up to 40%!

              What do you usually do?

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              I usually try to tip relative to the cost of the food. If I bought something really cheap (few dollars) for a few dollars I might tip up to 40% but if I got something more expensive I will usually tip like 15%. I try to consider how much effort the server has put in since I think it makes sense that way. If I only see the server 3 times but they deliver a really expensive plate of food I don't think they deserve as much as someone who might have delivered multiple plates or had to do extra work like splitting the check.

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              • W [email protected]

                To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

                Growing up in the 90's, the "minimum acceptable" tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I've heard these days it's not unusual to tip up to 40%!

                What do you usually do?

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                brazilian restaurants tipically charge a 10% optional service tax, it's up to you to give it or not. my problem with it is that we don't know if it goes to the waiter or the owner cashes it to its pocket.

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                • D [email protected]

                  Stop tipping in EU. Last time someone asked me to tip in Germany got a 1 star review.

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                  I do what I want.

                  Tipping in restaurants is normal in Germany; here's the German Wikipedia article on the subject. Staff asking for a tip doesn't seem normal though, and I'd find that rude.

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                  • W [email protected]

                    To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

                    Growing up in the 90's, the "minimum acceptable" tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I've heard these days it's not unusual to tip up to 40%!

                    What do you usually do?

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                    always 15% regardless of service. best or worst, i don't care. im not going to judge anyone. i just want a meal and consider the 15% to be a convoluted tax for meals here in the US.

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                    • zak@lemmy.worldZ [email protected]

                      Tipping at restaurants is already normal in Germany, France, and Italy if there is not a service charge on the check.

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                      Hmm, fair enough, I've spent the most time in Spain.

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                      • paequ2@lemmy.todayP [email protected]

                        but I’ve heard these days it’s not unusual to tip up to 40%!

                        That seems pretty unusual to me.

                        I normally tip 20%.

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                        Generally keep a baseline 20% unless service is either outstanding or abysmal.

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                        • W [email protected]

                          To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

                          Growing up in the 90's, the "minimum acceptable" tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I've heard these days it's not unusual to tip up to 40%!

                          What do you usually do?

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                          I did round up a few times. It seems strange to base the tip off a percentage.

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                          • W [email protected]

                            To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

                            Growing up in the 90's, the "minimum acceptable" tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I've heard these days it's not unusual to tip up to 40%!

                            What do you usually do?

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                            20 standard

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                            • W [email protected]

                              To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

                              Growing up in the 90's, the "minimum acceptable" tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I've heard these days it's not unusual to tip up to 40%!

                              What do you usually do?

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                              i live in vietnam. it's a poor country. but restaurant workers here get paid in money so they don't need to work for gratuity

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                                20 standard

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                                15 should be standard. Menu prices are raising, why should tip raise roo?

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                                • F [email protected]

                                  15 should be standard. Menu prices are raising, why should tip raise roo?

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                                  Because all their living expenses also increased

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                                    Because all their living expenses also increased

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                                    ...yes. do you miss the fact that menu prices going up means the tip is going up even at the same percentage?

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                                    • W [email protected]

                                      To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

                                      Growing up in the 90's, the "minimum acceptable" tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I've heard these days it's not unusual to tip up to 40%!

                                      What do you usually do?

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                                      Followup question, how much do y'all tip your landlords /s

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                                      • W [email protected]

                                        To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

                                        Growing up in the 90's, the "minimum acceptable" tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I've heard these days it's not unusual to tip up to 40%!

                                        What do you usually do?

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                                        I typically calculate a 20% tip and then round up. For demographic purposes, I'm a millennial in the US.

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                                        • F [email protected]

                                          15 should be standard. Menu prices are raising, why should tip raise roo?

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                                          20's been standard for me for like 20 years

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