Skip to content
  • Categories
  • Recent
  • Tags
  • Popular
  • World
  • Users
  • Groups
Skins
  • Light
  • Brite
  • Cerulean
  • Cosmo
  • Flatly
  • Journal
  • Litera
  • Lumen
  • Lux
  • Materia
  • Minty
  • Morph
  • Pulse
  • Sandstone
  • Simplex
  • Sketchy
  • Spacelab
  • United
  • Yeti
  • Zephyr
  • Dark
  • Cyborg
  • Darkly
  • Quartz
  • Slate
  • Solar
  • Superhero
  • Vapor

  • Default (No Skin)
  • No Skin
Collapse
Brand Logo

agnos.is Forums

  1. Home
  2. Ask Lemmy
  3. Is fediverse turning into reddit?

Is fediverse turning into reddit?

Scheduled Pinned Locked Moved Ask Lemmy
asklemmy
290 Posts 208 Posters 0 Views
  • Oldest to Newest
  • Newest to Oldest
  • Most Votes
Reply
  • Reply as topic
Log in to reply
This topic has been deleted. Only users with topic management privileges can see it.
  • M [email protected]

    I'm a trans girl and I hate being called bro. Lots of people say it without thinking because it's a habit

    H This user is from outside of this forum
    H This user is from outside of this forum
    [email protected]
    wrote last edited by
    #172

    Bro hasn't meant "brother" in a very long time.

    It is just as gender-neutral as: dude, guys, mate, bitch and dick.

    M 1 Reply Last reply
    23
    • P [email protected]

      Totally agree.

      That's just like lookng for reasons to get angry.

      F This user is from outside of this forum
      F This user is from outside of this forum
      [email protected]
      wrote last edited by
      #173

      Are you even a “progressive” if you’re not constantly actively looking for things to be offended/outraged about so you can try and censor someone who has a different opinion?

      4 1 Reply Last reply
      0
      • H [email protected]

        Bro hasn't meant "brother" in a very long time.

        It is just as gender-neutral as: dude, guys, mate, bitch and dick.

        M This user is from outside of this forum
        M This user is from outside of this forum
        [email protected]
        wrote last edited by
        #174

        Okay but you can't choose how other people feel about the words you call them

        T P killeronthecorner@lemmy.worldK 3 Replies Last reply
        16
        • F [email protected]

          You can escape the software architecture. You can't escape the people.

          U This user is from outside of this forum
          U This user is from outside of this forum
          [email protected]
          wrote last edited by
          #175

          Isn't the software architecture supposed to promote certain ways to interact? The medium is the message kind of thing?

          1 Reply Last reply
          0
          • F [email protected]

            From what I’ve seen Piefed seems to be just Lemmy but packed full of every pro-censorship tool you could ever imagine to aid in creating a “safe space” echo chamber for pussies.

            v4ld1z@lemmy.zipV This user is from outside of this forum
            v4ld1z@lemmy.zipV This user is from outside of this forum
            [email protected]
            wrote last edited by
            #176

            Now that's a take

            R 1 Reply Last reply
            6
            • W [email protected]

              Exactly... And then banned them for something they did on a different community. It's crazy to have such little power and still abuse it.

              F This user is from outside of this forum
              F This user is from outside of this forum
              [email protected]
              wrote last edited by [email protected]
              #177

              I’ve upset a prominent mod on Lemmy.world so much by simply having a differing opinion that they banned me from their sub instantly and permanently (with no ban reason given) and then must have vine and asked their other mod buddies to ban me from their communities that I’d literally never so much as even visited lol. Within probably 15 mins of the initial ban I was banned from 3 other communities permanently, and that mod wasn’t a mod on them.

              I messaged a few of the other mods on the main sub to let them know what he did, but didn’t hear so much as a peep from them.

              C H 2 Replies Last reply
              4
              • M [email protected]

                No joke, Periodic changing of mods might be a better long term strategy. Or like you said a small election from time to time.

                goldholz@lemmy.blahaj.zoneG This user is from outside of this forum
                goldholz@lemmy.blahaj.zoneG This user is from outside of this forum
                [email protected]
                wrote last edited by
                #178

                Any position of power should be chosen by the people of that community, not picked by the others already in power

                gerryflap@feddit.nlG 1 Reply Last reply
                6
                • M [email protected]

                  Okay but you can't choose how other people feel about the words you call them

                  T This user is from outside of this forum
                  T This user is from outside of this forum
                  [email protected]
                  wrote last edited by
                  #179

                  You can choose not to be offended tho.

                  N 1 Reply Last reply
                  19
                  • A [email protected]

                    Taking action against someone or even just DMing them because of downvotes is some weak shit.

                    F This user is from outside of this forum
                    F This user is from outside of this forum
                    [email protected]
                    wrote last edited by
                    #180

                    People like that seem to be who piefed is made for.

                    H 1 Reply Last reply
                    0
                    • C [email protected]

                      We had a community for the fediverse chick on our home instance. That went pretty bad, pretty fast. People there tried to find out who she is and where the spam is coming from. They ended up receiving disturbing gore in their DMs..

                      S This user is from outside of this forum
                      S This user is from outside of this forum
                      [email protected]
                      wrote last edited by
                      #181

                      Wait what? That is some insane lore. Was it sent from fediverse chick accounts??

                      C 1 Reply Last reply
                      0
                      • A [email protected]

                        Unpopular opinion: y'all call everything you don't like "reddit" (while the average Lemmy user is a lot of what people who don't use either dislike about reddit)

                        F This user is from outside of this forum
                        F This user is from outside of this forum
                        [email protected]
                        wrote last edited by
                        #182

                        Well 95% of all the people on the fediverse came from Reddit, so it’s bizarre when people pretend that it’s any different here. The only difference is in popularity.

                        1 Reply Last reply
                        2
                        • raoulduke85@lemmy.worldR [email protected]
                          This post did not contain any content.
                          godric@lemmy.worldG This user is from outside of this forum
                          godric@lemmy.worldG This user is from outside of this forum
                          [email protected]
                          wrote last edited by
                          #183

                          Apart from the silly ass mod abuse; yes!

                          Lemmy is the concentration of Reddit energy people.

                          1 Reply Last reply
                          9
                          • M [email protected]

                            post the guys name so i can proactively block him

                            F This user is from outside of this forum
                            F This user is from outside of this forum
                            [email protected]
                            wrote last edited by
                            #184

                            I’m going to tag him in voyager to remind myself to reply to any comment of his that I see and have the word bro in there at least once.

                            1 Reply Last reply
                            0
                            • M [email protected]

                              Okay but you can't choose how other people feel about the words you call them

                              P This user is from outside of this forum
                              P This user is from outside of this forum
                              [email protected]
                              wrote last edited by
                              #185

                              Yet, you can't ban normal words just because someone, somewhere feels insulted.

                              M 1 Reply Last reply
                              14
                              • raoulduke85@lemmy.worldR [email protected]
                                This post did not contain any content.
                                P This user is from outside of this forum
                                P This user is from outside of this forum
                                [email protected]
                                wrote last edited by
                                #186

                                Let's make something clear. Admins are just people. There is no school you have to finish to be an admin. You don't have to pass any logic or IQ tests. Most admins do not reason properly; in fact, they are terrible at it. They act like they have a master's degree in community administration, but they don't.

                                1 Reply Last reply
                                26
                                • T [email protected]

                                  sensitive snowflake, what are the chances he ones of the political extremes. if this was reddit, the person making an unsoliciated messaged wouldve been banned, or both because reddit has a very aggressive AI moderation system, plus thier spam/bot filters are easily triggered by any number of things, this would severely reduce the number of users on Lemmy if they had this.

                                  F This user is from outside of this forum
                                  F This user is from outside of this forum
                                  [email protected]
                                  wrote last edited by
                                  #187

                                  ones of the political extremes

                                  And let’s not pretend we don’t know exactly which extreme he is on. He’s probably crying about Kimmel being “cancelled for free speech” as we speak.

                                  1 Reply Last reply
                                  0
                                  • raoulduke85@lemmy.worldR [email protected]
                                    This post did not contain any content.
                                    db0@lemmy.dbzer0.comD This user is from outside of this forum
                                    db0@lemmy.dbzer0.comD This user is from outside of this forum
                                    [email protected]
                                    wrote last edited by
                                    #188

                                    Already featured in YPTB

                                    A random mod being unreasonable doesn't turn us all into reddit though. Unlike reddit, we can always open another comm with the same name and avoid the bastards.

                                    stinky@redlemmy.comS 1 Reply Last reply
                                    51
                                    • P [email protected]

                                      Yet, you can't ban normal words just because someone, somewhere feels insulted.

                                      M This user is from outside of this forum
                                      M This user is from outside of this forum
                                      [email protected]
                                      wrote last edited by
                                      #189

                                      That's not really the typical situation I see people arguing over. It's usually the person being called it who's upset, and they don't want a ban, they just want kindness

                                      H 1 Reply Last reply
                                      1
                                      • M [email protected]

                                        Okay but you can't choose how other people feel about the words you call them

                                        killeronthecorner@lemmy.worldK This user is from outside of this forum
                                        killeronthecorner@lemmy.worldK This user is from outside of this forum
                                        [email protected]
                                        wrote last edited by
                                        #190

                                        Yeah, words like "slut" for example

                                        1 Reply Last reply
                                        0
                                        • raoulduke85@lemmy.worldR [email protected]
                                          This post did not contain any content.
                                          daggermoon@lemmy.worldD This user is from outside of this forum
                                          daggermoon@lemmy.worldD This user is from outside of this forum
                                          [email protected]
                                          wrote last edited by
                                          #191

                                          That warning doesn't seem very friendly.

                                          1 Reply Last reply
                                          1
                                          Reply
                                          • Reply as topic
                                          Log in to reply
                                          • Oldest to Newest
                                          • Newest to Oldest
                                          • Most Votes


                                          • Login

                                          • Login or register to search.
                                          • First post
                                            Last post
                                          0
                                          • Categories
                                          • Recent
                                          • Tags
                                          • Popular
                                          • World
                                          • Users
                                          • Groups