Anon dates a 19 y/o
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Found Leo's account.
Seriously though why so hostile about this? Of course it's made up, it's a general rule of thumb, and it describes whether people are likely to look at a couple and say, "ew".
One day I mentionned this rule while having a dinner with friends. One of them was a woman I met fir the first time.
It turned out his husband was way older than this rule allowed when they met. And now that the rule is fine, she didn’t felt bad about her husband.
Seriously, I felt so shitty. Let people loves who they love without discrimination as long as this is consensual between adults.
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People are feeling all kinds of pressure these days. If they want to have kids they need a lot of resources. But having a lot of resources is really difficult to do when you’re young. So that naturally suggests a compromise: one old with resources and one young with health.
What I mean I've been alive a long time. I'm not sure how I was supposed to accrue resources through that though.
Also who wants to date a 19 year old they'd be really annoying.
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His date:
Source: Brainrot Girlfriend
Bonus:
wrote last edited by [email protected]It feels wrong to read manga-style art left to right.
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My partner's sister is 19, I'm in my early 30s now. But I met my partner when she was 19, I often ask myself did she come across as this annoying to people in their 30s back then?
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Hi! Sorry to inconvenience you, but I have just one question. The fuck did I just read?
Either the most unwholesome Dom and sub description iv ever seen in my life or a rape fetish relationship?
Either way as sonic would say. THATS NO GOOD
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It feels wrong to read manga-style art left to right.
Took me like 5 mins to figure out what was wrong...
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Idk man. Isn't screwing someone fresh out of high school a bit creepy? I mean come on, they were considered a kid maybe months ago. It's suspicious if you do that.
One night stands are just animals fucking basically.
It only gets weird one there's an actual relationship and unbalanced power dynamic going on.
But part of being young is being stupid and fucking something you shouldn't have is basically stupid 101
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Either the most unwholesome Dom and sub description iv ever seen in my life or a rape fetish relationship?
Either way as sonic would say. THATS NO GOOD
Is it usually wholesome? Genuine question. I hope it is.
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That's the mindset of plenty of people at 25 or 30 even. I think personal development/priorities are to blame more so than the age gap
Ngl I'm 29 and definitely prefer getting high and watching stuff than actually doing real things.
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What I mean I've been alive a long time. I'm not sure how I was supposed to accrue resources through that though.
Also who wants to date a 19 year old they'd be really annoying.
Maybe you need to flip the idea and date a rich 19y/o Instead
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This is how I perceive the 28 year old to be.
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What I mean I've been alive a long time. I'm not sure how I was supposed to accrue resources through that though.
Also who wants to date a 19 year old they'd be really annoying.
The question is “why would anyone want to date someone much younger than them (presumably up to a couple decades)?” not specifically about dating a 19 year old.
Not everyone can accrue a bunch of resources over time of course. But your odds of doing so are much better in your working years than when you’re in school.
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All agreed! At 52 I considered a relationship with a 26-yo friend. If she didn't have 3 tiny children, maybe? But no, just couldn't see it working. I'd be 80 and her at 54? I'd be robbing her of her youth when she could have had a younger man to share that life with.
Funny enough, my Filipino wife is 6-months older than I, and she was fucking horrified to learn that. Her friends are all married to white dudes 20+ years older. Cultural thing.
Sometimes trading partnership for security is the way people go. I'm not saying it can't work, but it's rare that those partnerships are equal. The power imbalance is on display.
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I missed my entire life. It's not all about that. Though I also regret not experiencing what everyone else did. The mistakes, the heartbreaks, you know, normal people stuff, that's mostly FOMO. What really sucks is I actually missed out on almost everything that makes life worth living. So, now I'm just in the mindset that I should just treat the good things of this world as false, and something that is meant for rich/normal people.
I'm just here to work, and fight. I need to make sure no one else ends up the same, ever again. Until then, there's no point in resting.
So I went back to seeing myself as unimportant, and putting my mission first.
So I went back to seeing myself as unimportant
If that's how you see yourself, imagine what people think when they don't even know you and meet you for the first time. Focus on what you have to offer other people, not what other people have that you want.
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And now you understand why older men dating young girls is creepy, even if legal.
They have nothing in common. There's no way. It's pure physical attraction above all else.
Edit: Seemingly a lot of older people down voting this are in denial about how much they have in common with some 18 year old girl/guy as a romantic partner. You understand you're not fooling anyone, right? Not even other people like you. Underneath, you all know what you're about.
A lot of people are downvoting this because a 19 year old is an adult who can make their own choices and you are insinuating that there's something so objectively wrong with dating an older person that it should be illegal.
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A friend of friend I’ve met a couple times is into me. They’re 23 and I’m 30 and I still don’t have an interest. They’re perfectly nice, but…
I think after 28-30 it starts to really not matter that much but before that even smallish gaps can be pretty questionable. And any dude that would consider someone their age to be a “hag” probably largely dates younger because mature, experienced women can tell they’re really just garbage man-children.
I agree with this. For me, so so much integral growth happens between ages 20 and 26-28 or so, and I don't really think people in general know who they are or what they want in life until then. Not true for everyone of course. All the people I know who married young are either divorced or super unhappy though so it may skew my perception a bit.
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Exactly! Why the fuck would anyone want to date someone that much younger than them? I will never understand why so many men want to date girl so young.
They do it because the primary motivation they have for seeking the "relationship", for lack of a better word, is mostly concerned with indulging in the form/condition/use of the person's body and has little concern for the form/condition/use of the their personality.
This means, of course, that any other time they have to spend with the person, that doesn't involve indulging in hedonistic physical pursuits, will be a constant reminder that they have little in common with, and no interest in, the mind/personality of the person they're diddling at all.
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Reading brainrot girlfriend has made me desire this.
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Exactly! Why the fuck would anyone want to date someone that much younger than them? I will never understand why so many men want to date girl so young.
younger partners are easier to control.
and less worldly experience means they won't notice their dull personality.
lack of maturity and life milestones to date similar age ranges.
over emphasis on bodily needs.
and i repeat, control.
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Maybe she was rich and could stay high and watch musicals for the rest of her life. What a lucky girl she was.
Not in the slightest. She was already 12k in credit card debt when I met her.
