Anon dates a 19 y/o
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When you call someone born in the late 1990s a boomer though. It might be "hip" or "trendy" to do. But Boomers were born in the 50s man. Young kids calling adults from different generations "Boomers" just makes you sound like you didn't pay attention in history class.
Language transforms. Where before boomer would be a word for the generation born during the babyboom, nowadays it's used for old people who are unable to keep up with the times.
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I was barely 23 and am currently dating the same girl I met who was 19. (Its about to be 2 years woo!)
I had just gotten out of military so most girls in my classes were 3-4 years younger and I wasn't interested in dating (I like women a bit older than me) but she wreckingballed into my life because she saw something she wanted and actively attempted to get it.
This is the best relationship I've ever had but I won't deny that sometimes the response I get to something serious and wanting to plan ahead is met by my partner suggesting I move into the city (alone) to be closer just so she knows what it's like to have a boyfriend in the city.
Her focuses right now are being young and getting her excitement now before she has to square away. She used to think everyone has a stoner era and that was just what people did, so she was surprised how anti-drug/vice I was.
The mental divide is definitely something I would warn people about when dating with age differences.I dont understand the guys that date fresh 18 year olds in their near 30's, I know its legal but I genuinely dont understand what a 30 year old would find so interesting about an 18 year old other than just trying to bang/control them.
In our modern world, i often forget that some guys like to date older too. I have a crush on a guy a couple years younger than me and have just kind of not done anything because we are coworkers and I fear he'll reject me for who i am, but thanks for the reminder
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I'm 54 and most of the people I know are in their early 20s. We get along great and have plenty to talk about.
Sure, but there's a difference between hanging out with some 20 year olds, and being romantically involved with them.
The latter requires a hell of a lot of maturity and being in a similar place in life to deal with things life throws at you. The former just requires laughing at some meme together you both find funny.
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OP is still on 4chan. Lingo aside I'd say he's in his maturity range.
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What if you like having sex with your friends?
Nothing wrong with that, but they're friends. I get a long with coworkers, clients, etc, but inside a romantic relationship is completely different.
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Sure, but there's a difference between hanging out with some 20 year olds, and being romantically involved with them.
The latter requires a hell of a lot of maturity and being in a similar place in life to deal with things life throws at you. The former just requires laughing at some meme together you both find funny.
Lol I got downvoted for saying the same shit. Glad I'm not the only one who can see this.
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Meth does some wild shit to a person’s looks but heroin addicts can look just as fucking gnarly
I'm a city bus driver and I live downtown. I consider myself as a bit of a crackhead effecianado.
Of all the crackheads, I like meatheads the best. They're usually polite, aware of their surroundings. And even when they're so deep in it they're experiencing straight up psychosis, usually nonviolent, keep their bodily fluids to themselves.
Heroine/fentanyl zombies tie for worst place. Move at the pace of glaciers. Completely apathetic and or unaware to what's going on around them. Until they're not. Then you get violence and or disruptive behavior. They're not great at keeping their bodily fluids to themselves. They also frequently require everyone to stop what they're doing to to check up on them. They'll fall down, off the bus. Stumble into traffic. Sleep so deeply you've gotta check for a pulse and try to determine if their ODing, still alive, or just taking a disco nap. They will then react violently and rudely to your seeing if they're still alive. I fucking hate dopers.
And finally we've got good old fashioned drunks. They share most of the characteristics of fentanyl assholes. But they tend to be more disruptive and ass-y. They tie with the fyntanl jerks for biggest drag.
I refer to all as crackheads. They'll all lie, steal, and make everyone's life miserable as a matter of course. They're also walking ecological disasters. What with the litter, needles, and human waste they feel blessed to share with the rest of us.
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OP is still on 4chan. Lingo aside I'd say he's in his maturity range.
Also 19 and 29 are both still Gen Z.
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His date:
Source: Brainrot Girlfriend
Bonus:
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Found Leo's account.
Seriously though why so hostile about this? Of course it's made up, it's a general rule of thumb, and it describes whether people are likely to look at a couple and say, "ew".
That's because it's all based on assumptions and projected morals. Commonly treated as a ultimate truth not as a "rule of thumb" as it is destined to be - hostility is built in this "rule".
In general, this rule essentially dictates the ethics of independent people. Because of this there is no description, it's a requirement to say "ew".
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His date:
Source: Brainrot Girlfriend
Bonus:
Love that we're making imaginary [gen-z/gen alpha/gen whatever the hell arbitrary title] the same way our parents and grandparents made imaginary millennials to get mad at.
The Silent Generation called their kids "Generation Me"
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Yeah, I’m in my mid 30’s and my best friend is nearing 50. His oldest child is the same age as my younger brother. Believe it or not, people can have common interests that aren’t entirely reliant on their age.
Though I will say that age becomes less relevant as you get older… A 29 year old dating a 19 year old is pretty universally creepy, but few people would say the same about a 49 year old dating a 39 year old. Same age gap, but it’s assumed that the 39 year old has enough life experience to actually make their own decisions. Even in my mid-20’s, I was looking at 19 year olds as if they were literal children. There’s a lot of maturing that happens in the late teens and early 20’s.
wrote last edited by [email protected]You mean in the late 20's and early 30's. Not a lot of maturing until 25.
Edit: this assumes middle-european living and cultural conditions.
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Also 19 and 29 are both still Gen Z.
Is 30 the oldest genz or the youngest millennial?
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Exactly, this "rule" is really just equivalent to other forms of snake oil there is. It is baseless and completely made up.
It matches experiences, if you read the other replies.
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Is 30 the oldest genz or the youngest millennial?
wrote last edited by [email protected]The lines are fuzzy, and that's why we have the term "Zilennial". So let's just toss them into that category and call it a day.
Edit: Wikipedia says the cutoff for Millennials is 1996, which would make OP an older Gen Z. But I still think "Zilennial" is still most fitting.
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> be me 34 > decide to look for a hag around my age > most of them have at least one kid, usually the annoying kind, and only see you as a babysitter > same ones are also super focused on their kids, no hobbies, no interests, no life > most of them seem to be super conservative > some of them are so bigoted they can only talk about "those people" > finally found someone who's bearable for more than 20 minutes > never mind, she's alcoholic > finally found someone not alcoholic and is bearable for even more time > never mind, she's both 300+km away and also married How do I find hot singles on the fediverse? I'm not reinstalling Tinder! -
Gotta look after your ticker if you're going to stay active at that age. Condolences and/or congrats to his wife though.
Condolences indeed, he's still alive.
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It matches experiences, if you read the other replies.
I don't quite agree with the replies. The statement "it matches experiences" is baseless as stated in my other reply.
In general, experience ≠ age. This is because experience is influenced by various physical factors such as opportunities, learning environments, etc. Not exactly by age.
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> be me 34 > decide to look for a hag around my age > most of them have at least one kid, usually the annoying kind, and only see you as a babysitter > same ones are also super focused on their kids, no hobbies, no interests, no life > most of them seem to be super conservative > some of them are so bigoted they can only talk about "those people" > finally found someone who's bearable for more than 20 minutes > never mind, she's alcoholic > finally found someone not alcoholic and is bearable for even more time > never mind, she's both 300+km away and also married How do I find hot singles on the fediverse? I'm not reinstalling Tinder!I tried that with Reddit. Parents cockblocked me. Had nothing but my missed life to think about in the meantime, so my mental health slips, and I ask who besides Serial killers and rapists deserves to die (looking for a description of myself in the answers).
Implying someone's life is worth more than others is a big no no on Reddit.
Get permabanned for inciting violence.
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You mean in the late 20's and early 30's. Not a lot of maturing until 25.
Edit: this assumes middle-european living and cultural conditions.
That depends on a lot of factors, e.g. whether they go to college or start working or doing trades directly after highschool.
