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  • F [email protected]

    But its developed by Tankies who wish you and others immediate harm, so definitely a risky longterm strat.

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    A point worth considering 🤔 but i'll still try to coexist x now.

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    • nichehervielleicht@feddit.orgN [email protected]

      They shouldn't be able to do that!

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      How is it not fair? You get to decide what you can see and say. You don't get to decide what I can see and say.

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      • koboldcoterie@pawb.socialK [email protected]

        Imagine a hypothetical situation where I have beef with you. I create a second account and block you. I use this account to scout your posts, then using that other account, I go to all of the posts you're commenting on, and post comments calling you out for being... I don't know, whatever nasty thing I want to call you out for. Because that account has blocked you, you can't see those posts (and presumably not the replies to them, either), and can't defend yourself.

        What problem have we solved?

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        The problem you've solved is that they're not harassing you in your spaces, and your communities.
        If they wanna cry about me in their basement with their own friends, that's ok. But I want to put hurdles, at least some inconveniences, between myself and their ability to harass me in my communities. Force them to manage 30 accounts, etc.

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        • P [email protected]

          I want to stop them from engaging with me. I don't want to let them keep engaging with me without my ability to see what they're saying.

          Edit:
          Give persecuted minorities a way to protect themselves.
          This comes from discussions I've had with minorities about the harassment they face on Lemmy and mastodon, and the current block mute feature is more harmful than helpful.

          If you're using "block" to curate your content, then it works great. If you're trying to prevent harassment, then it's counterproductive

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          Engagement is a two-way street. By blocking them you have stopped engaging with them.

          The fact that you're upset by what other people are doing somewhere that you can't see and that doesn't affect you seems like a you problem, frankly. Just forget about them.

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          • H [email protected]

            My only gripe is that the blocked comment’s replies are also not visible. I want to see what everyone else is saying, even if they’re replying to a blocked user. I just don’t care what the blocked user says.

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            Maybe you don't need a block function to accomplish that, then. Seems you could accomplish it by just not caring about what the user says.

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            • D [email protected]

              If you care what they are saying, you shouldn't block them. If you don't care, you shouldn't care they are commenting on you.

              I don't want other people being able to hide criticism of their posts/comments they don't like from me. Allowing you to completely block engagement with your posts would just strengthen echo chambers and bolster misinformation IMO.

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              What I'm saying also protects vulnerable communities at least a little, and what you're saying leaves them vulnerable.

              If they're able to comment on my content I'm my communities, then I need to be able to see if they're spreading misinformation about me to my friends and acquaintances. Rather than just blind myself to that, I'd rather put barriers between my content and their ability to do that.

              Imo protecting people from harassment is more important than protecting my ability to combat misinformation on some strangers' posts.

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              • P [email protected]

                If I block them, I want to stop them from engaging with me.

                I don't want to let them continue to engage with me and other people in my comments, but just lose my ability to see what they're saying about me.

                That's like saying the purpose of a locked door isn't to keep people out, it's to prevent you from seeing what they're doing in your house

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                The engagement between the two of you is over. He's saying stuff to other people now, not to you.

                I don't want to let them continue to engage with me and other people in my comments, but just lose my ability to see what they're saying about me.

                You want to control what they see and do? No, you don't get to decide that for other people.

                If you don't want to lose your ability to see what they're saying then don't block them.

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                  This isn't about me, this is about what people from persecuted minorities have told me they need, when I bought this exact argument to them.

                  I used to say what you're saying them they described to be the harassment that they face

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                  • R [email protected]

                    For anyone wondering how the blocking feature has been weaponized to spread misinformation, in 2022 a redditor did an experiment: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheoryOfReddit/comments/sdcsx3/testing_reddits_new_block_feature_and_its_effects/

                    Afaik, the blocking feature is still in the same state as in 2022, which makes modern reddit a heaven for spreading misinformation.

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                    My main experience with blocking is when people use it to "get the last word" in an argument. They'll write up a response - often containing questions and challenges to my position - and then immediately block me after posting it so that it will look like I gave up in the face of their arguments.

                    I usually just edit my previous comment with whatever responses seem necessary, playing an Uno Reverse on them since they'll be the ones who never see it.

                    It's still rather annoying, though, because if other people also respond Reddit's brain-dead implementation prevents me from responding to other people who have responded to someone who blocked me.

                    I am glad that the Fediverse has a much more sane approach to blocking that doesn't let it be weaponized like that.

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                    • P [email protected]

                      What I'm saying also protects vulnerable communities at least a little, and what you're saying leaves them vulnerable.

                      If they're able to comment on my content I'm my communities, then I need to be able to see if they're spreading misinformation about me to my friends and acquaintances. Rather than just blind myself to that, I'd rather put barriers between my content and their ability to do that.

                      Imo protecting people from harassment is more important than protecting my ability to combat misinformation on some strangers' posts.

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                      #97

                      Then go to a private platform. This is a platform for public discourse, not private communities.

                      PS: You could even make a community on lemmy and ban people as it's moderator. Although a different platform may still be a better fit.

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                      • P [email protected]

                        What I'm saying also protects vulnerable communities at least a little, and what you're saying leaves them vulnerable.

                        If they're able to comment on my content I'm my communities, then I need to be able to see if they're spreading misinformation about me to my friends and acquaintances. Rather than just blind myself to that, I'd rather put barriers between my content and their ability to do that.

                        Imo protecting people from harassment is more important than protecting my ability to combat misinformation on some strangers' posts.

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                        You might be better served using the "report" button if you are indeed dealing with harassment. That would be the appropriate tool for such things.

                        But I am going to go out on a limb and guess that you want to be able to just unilaterally punish anyone you don't like.

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                          That's not how harassment works.
                          I think you know that, too.

                          Consider it a restraining order.

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                          • D [email protected]

                            Then go to a private platform. This is a platform for public discourse, not private communities.

                            PS: You could even make a community on lemmy and ban people as it's moderator. Although a different platform may still be a better fit.

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                            Yeah, fuck those minorities, amirite? They don't deserve to use Lemmy anyways\

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                            • P [email protected]

                              I used to agree with you until I actually spoke with people from communities that get regularly harassed.

                              Muting is great if all you want to do is hide content you don't like. But if you need to defend yourself against a campaign of harassment, this only gives power to the harassers.

                              Yes all the have to do is make a new account, but it's another hurdle they have to cross. Better than no hurdle and also blindfolding yourself

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                              I used to agree with you until I actually spoke with people from communities that get regularly harassed.

                              Oh great, this again.

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                              • A [email protected]

                                It also makes Lemmy objectively less safe because it's much less effective at limiting stalking and harassment. Especially since way blocks work on Lemmy isn't clearly communicated to the user.

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                                If you block someone you will never see their harassment.

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                                • P [email protected]

                                  This isn't about me, this is about what people from persecuted minorities have told me they need, when I bought this exact argument to them.

                                  I used to say what you're saying them they described to be the harassment that they face

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                                  In that case substitute "they" for "you" in my comment. The meaning remains the same, as does my position.

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                                  • m0op0o@mander.xyzM [email protected]

                                    You might be better served using the "report" button if you are indeed dealing with harassment. That would be the appropriate tool for such things.

                                    But I am going to go out on a limb and guess that you want to be able to just unilaterally punish anyone you don't like.

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                                    That's a limb that wouldn't support your weight.

                                    I used to support your concept of block, until I was in a thread like this one, and someone from a minority community explained to me the consequences of these design decisions

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                                    • m0op0o@mander.xyzM [email protected]

                                      I used to agree with you until I actually spoke with people from communities that get regularly harassed.

                                      Oh great, this again.

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                                      Wtf does that even mean?

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                                      • P [email protected]

                                        That's not how harassment works.
                                        I think you know that, too.

                                        Consider it a restraining order.

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                                        A restraining order is something a judge grants. That'd be a moderator or administrator in the context of the Threadiverse, and they do have the ability to prevent people from posting. Bringing something to their attention is what the "report" link is for, it's their decision after that.

                                        I remain firm in my opinion that giving everybody the ability to unilaterally apply restraining orders to everybody they want to for whatever reason they want to leads to bad outcomes. That's how Reddit does it and it's pretty badly broken over there.

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                                          #107

                                          Oh god, did Lemmy turn into a libertarian hellscape while I wasn't looking?

                                          What are your opinions on community bans, since all your arguments apply equally to those. Let me see you rectify those positions.

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