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What is your personal threshold for being grossed out by owning an object that was once part of a living being, and why?

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  • arcanepotato@crazypeople.onlineA [email protected]

    I've been browsing antique jewelry a lot lately and wonder about this. With jewelry specifically I think about hair, coral, pearls.

    Then that extends out to animal skins, bones, human relics, etc.

    What makes one thing gross but the other okay?

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    I mean... how far down the rabbit hole are we going with 'once part of a living being?' Leather/wool/down?

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    • arcanepotato@crazypeople.onlineA [email protected]

      I've been browsing antique jewelry a lot lately and wonder about this. With jewelry specifically I think about hair, coral, pearls.

      Then that extends out to animal skins, bones, human relics, etc.

      What makes one thing gross but the other okay?

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      I think it's more about presentation for me. For instance I have a turtle skull covered in snake skin on my desk. It make it look like a sick dragon head. So like a slab of human meat would be disgusting just sitting there. However if it was old skin preserved using a specific technique and presented in an artful way then I'd be down with it

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        I think it's more about presentation for me. For instance I have a turtle skull covered in snake skin on my desk. It make it look like a sick dragon head. So like a slab of human meat would be disgusting just sitting there. However if it was old skin preserved using a specific technique and presented in an artful way then I'd be down with it

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        I mean, what else should we expect from cryptTurtle?

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        • arcanepotato@crazypeople.onlineA [email protected]

          I've been browsing antique jewelry a lot lately and wonder about this. With jewelry specifically I think about hair, coral, pearls.

          Then that extends out to animal skins, bones, human relics, etc.

          What makes one thing gross but the other okay?

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          Ethics are the big line for me. The human remains market is pretty infamous for having dubiously sourced parts - people who did not consent to having their body bought and sold.

          The exhibit Body Worlds, which travels to different museums, is an example of this. Some of the bodies are likely executed prisoners, who did not consent to have their bodies displayed in this way. The US has a horrible history of treating indigenous peoples corpses with disrespect. Two of the children who died in the MOVE bombing ended up in a universities collection without the knowledge or consent of their relatives.

          I would be willing to have a skeleton or preserved organs as teaching materials, if I knew the individual involved gave their consent for that use. If I ever can afford a hysterectomy I would love to preserve my uterus for that purpose. I’d love to be an articulated skeleton in a science classroom after I’m done here on earth.

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          • arcanepotato@crazypeople.onlineA [email protected]

            I've been browsing antique jewelry a lot lately and wonder about this. With jewelry specifically I think about hair, coral, pearls.

            Then that extends out to animal skins, bones, human relics, etc.

            What makes one thing gross but the other okay?

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            No limits, but no interest, either.

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            • lowspeedchase@lemmy.dbzer0.comL [email protected]

              I mean... how far down the rabbit hole are we going with 'once part of a living being?' Leather/wool/down?

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              Cotton? Oil?

              Plastic?

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                Cotton? Oil?

                Plastic?

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                That's a plant. Not an animal.

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                • arcanepotato@crazypeople.onlineA [email protected]

                  I've been browsing antique jewelry a lot lately and wonder about this. With jewelry specifically I think about hair, coral, pearls.

                  Then that extends out to animal skins, bones, human relics, etc.

                  What makes one thing gross but the other okay?

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                  Stuff I associate with prolonged suffering would be my threshold. I know the solemn nature of killing for food and survival. In that experience, limiting suffering is essential. It is an experience that often pushes me more towards veganism. Things that remind me of the failures to limit suffering in any being conjure great melancholic empathy that I would struggle to ameliorate.

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                    Cotton? Oil?

                    Plastic?

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                    Well done! Rubber/latex?

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                    • arcanepotato@crazypeople.onlineA [email protected]

                      I've been browsing antique jewelry a lot lately and wonder about this. With jewelry specifically I think about hair, coral, pearls.

                      Then that extends out to animal skins, bones, human relics, etc.

                      What makes one thing gross but the other okay?

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                      Mostly everything from an animal is gross. I still have some stuff like leather shoes or Merino Wool Underwear for hiking but that's only because I haven't found vailable alternatives.

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                        That's a plant. Not an animal.

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                        was once part of a living being

                        He did not say animal.

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                          I think human parts are a hard no for me, but I'm general good with anything, though usually much less so if the product isn't being produced incidentally.

                          This means cow leather is generally a okay, but crocodile is something I'll shy away from.

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                          I think human parts are a hard no for me

                          I'm pretty confident we still have the kids' baby teeth stored somewhere in a box of mementos in the basement (where all our treasured family memories / water heater are stored). I think that is my personal threshold.

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                            I think human parts are a hard no for me

                            I'm pretty confident we still have the kids' baby teeth stored somewhere in a box of mementos in the basement (where all our treasured family memories / water heater are stored). I think that is my personal threshold.

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                            You might want to move your memories some place else a little safer. You know, just in case you have an incident with your water heater.

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                            • arcanepotato@crazypeople.onlineA [email protected]

                              I've been browsing antique jewelry a lot lately and wonder about this. With jewelry specifically I think about hair, coral, pearls.

                              Then that extends out to animal skins, bones, human relics, etc.

                              What makes one thing gross but the other okay?

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                              I personally think keeping things that used to be part of someone else is a bit creepy at best. Bones, skin, feathers, fur, it's all not something I need to have in my home. For example, I saw this guy had turned a family member's bones into a guitar once and it just squicked me the fuck out.

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                              • lowspeedchase@lemmy.dbzer0.comL [email protected]

                                I mean... how far down the rabbit hole are we going with 'once part of a living being?' Leather/wool/down?

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                                I think that's my question, but I am realizing it could be two or more questions.

                                Does owning/using something that was part of a living being gross you out?

                                Either way, what do you consider to have been part of a living being? I think this is an especially interesting question if you do say it does gross you out.

                                If some things gross you out but others don't, why?

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                                  I personally think keeping things that used to be part of someone else is a bit creepy at best. Bones, skin, feathers, fur, it's all not something I need to have in my home. For example, I saw this guy had turned a family member's bones into a guitar once and it just squicked me the fuck out.

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                                  Hello comrade 😊

                                  Of the examples I gave pearl and coral are a hard no, but I was kind of surprised by how horrified I was at the idea of owning something with human hair in it. It made me wonder how other people draw that line.

                                  I would also like to avoid bones, plz.

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                                    I think human parts are a hard no for me, but I'm general good with anything, though usually much less so if the product isn't being produced incidentally.

                                    This means cow leather is generally a okay, but crocodile is something I'll shy away from.

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                                    Here's a fun story... Mark Gruenwald, the creator of the Marvel superhero team "Squadron Supreme" (a pastiche of DC's Justice League) passed away.

                                    As part of his will, he requested that he be cremated and his ashes mixed in with the black ink on a reprint of Squadron Supreme.

                                    https://screenrant.com/marvel-comic-printed-creators-ashes-squadron-supreme-gruenwald/

                                    His wife was also stamping his signature in books with the ash ink.

                                    https://teddyandtheyeti.blogspot.com/2019/05/mark-gruenwalds-ash-o-graph-in-squadron.html?m=1

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                                    • jordanlund@lemmy.worldJ [email protected]

                                      Here's a fun story... Mark Gruenwald, the creator of the Marvel superhero team "Squadron Supreme" (a pastiche of DC's Justice League) passed away.

                                      As part of his will, he requested that he be cremated and his ashes mixed in with the black ink on a reprint of Squadron Supreme.

                                      https://screenrant.com/marvel-comic-printed-creators-ashes-squadron-supreme-gruenwald/

                                      His wife was also stamping his signature in books with the ash ink.

                                      https://teddyandtheyeti.blogspot.com/2019/05/mark-gruenwalds-ash-o-graph-in-squadron.html?m=1

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                                      Okay, that's quite a cool memento. I might not mind that.

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                                      • arcanepotato@crazypeople.onlineA [email protected]

                                        I've been browsing antique jewelry a lot lately and wonder about this. With jewelry specifically I think about hair, coral, pearls.

                                        Then that extends out to animal skins, bones, human relics, etc.

                                        What makes one thing gross but the other okay?

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                                        Imagine a sentient tree looking around your home at the table, the chairs, the cabinets, the books...

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                                        • arcanepotato@crazypeople.onlineA [email protected]

                                          I've been browsing antique jewelry a lot lately and wonder about this. With jewelry specifically I think about hair, coral, pearls.

                                          Then that extends out to animal skins, bones, human relics, etc.

                                          What makes one thing gross but the other okay?

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                                          Lampshades made of human skin. How about no.

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