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What's the best way of dealing with Maga hatred, white power, genocide denial and other things you see a Lemmy user espousing?

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    If I ignore/block them, it allows them to continue unchallenged. I hate getting into it with them, since they are a baseline idiot.

    I guess that's it. I saw a person with a 6 month account spouting garbage, was gonna block but thought perhaps that wasn't morally responsible. Wondering what the options were.

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    i find this very satisfying: gently disagreeing with them via a short single positive message like "gay people do deserve respect", then letting them throw a very lengthy, time-invested tantrum before gently and completely disagreeing with their comment with another short sentence, over and over until they get tired.

    i find that both very funny and I'm putting out positive messages that negate their bigotry without too much time or effort.

    that's just if you have the time and inclination to engage, you aren't morally obligated to subject yourself to abusive behavior.

    if it's real bad, they're probably violating a rule, and reporting them will get them banned

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      You're not gonna change their mind.

      You'd be better spending your time breaking a brick wall with your skull.

      Fuck em. Block em.

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      Sometimes, it's not about changing their mind, but influencing the many others who are less certain in their beliefs who are just reading along.

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      • M [email protected]

        If I ignore/block them, it allows them to continue unchallenged. I hate getting into it with them, since they are a baseline idiot.

        I guess that's it. I saw a person with a 6 month account spouting garbage, was gonna block but thought perhaps that wasn't morally responsible. Wondering what the options were.

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        Realistically I think your options are to ignore/block, or confront them against your better judgement. Which, as you know will likely constitute going circles for hours before having to bow out because your brain is coming out of your ears. The problem with both these options is that they likely have the same outcome. However, the latter will also leave them resenting you and the rest of the “online leftists” even more than they already do. In fact, it will probably embolden them in their pursuit of radical centrism just to own the “tankies”.

        That’s just my experience and observations tho…

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          Sometimes, it's not about changing their mind, but influencing the many others who are less certain in their beliefs who are just reading along.

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          If someone can be convinced into racism and hatred they were predisposed to assholery anyway.

          Fair though.

          Suppose I am too jaded to entertain them anymore. Can only hear so much before entertaining the nonsense wears on my mental.

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            If I ignore/block them, it allows them to continue unchallenged. I hate getting into it with them, since they are a baseline idiot.

            I guess that's it. I saw a person with a 6 month account spouting garbage, was gonna block but thought perhaps that wasn't morally responsible. Wondering what the options were.

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            I'm here for entertainment, as I assume most people are. If seeing that sort of rhetoric is a negative to you, block it. Marie Kondo your online life and yeet anything out the window that doesn't spark joy. Put your anti-MAGA efforts towards improving your IRL community where you don't have to futilely battle pseudonymous trolls.

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              If I ignore/block them, it allows them to continue unchallenged. I hate getting into it with them, since they are a baseline idiot.

              I guess that's it. I saw a person with a 6 month account spouting garbage, was gonna block but thought perhaps that wasn't morally responsible. Wondering what the options were.

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              blocking/not blocking doesnt 'allow' them anything cept maybe free rent in your brain... doesnt affect them at all.

              i tend to ignore them. my blocklist is very small

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                Sometimes, it's not about changing their mind, but influencing the many others who are less certain in their beliefs who are just reading along.

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                how is blocking someone helping influence other people? youre the only human the block affects. its no different than ignoring them.

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                  If I ignore/block them, it allows them to continue unchallenged. I hate getting into it with them, since they are a baseline idiot.

                  I guess that's it. I saw a person with a 6 month account spouting garbage, was gonna block but thought perhaps that wasn't morally responsible. Wondering what the options were.

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                  You may feel that they go unapposed and therefore you should be a countering force, but really your efforts are moot. People have their beliefs that won’t be changed online, at least not from some internet stranger. You can make the best arguments in the world and the opposition will simply ignore your point, move the goalposts, and implement the next logical fallacy to keep proving you “wrong” or “an idiot”.

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                    blocking/not blocking doesnt 'allow' them anything cept maybe free rent in your brain... doesnt affect them at all.

                    i tend to ignore them. my blocklist is very small

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                    We have different psychologies. Ignoring is less of an option for some of us. But "out of sight, out of mind."

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                    • vanth@reddthat.comV [email protected]

                      I'm here for entertainment, as I assume most people are. If seeing that sort of rhetoric is a negative to you, block it. Marie Kondo your online life and yeet anything out the window that doesn't spark joy. Put your anti-MAGA efforts towards improving your IRL community where you don't have to futilely battle pseudonymous trolls.

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                      But "all that is required for evil to prosper is that good men do nothing?" Or something?

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                        But "all that is required for evil to prosper is that good men do nothing?" Or something?

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                        That's why I said this part

                        Put your anti-MAGA efforts towards improving your IRL community where you don't have to futilely battle pseudonymous trolls.

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                          i find this very satisfying: gently disagreeing with them via a short single positive message like "gay people do deserve respect", then letting them throw a very lengthy, time-invested tantrum before gently and completely disagreeing with their comment with another short sentence, over and over until they get tired.

                          i find that both very funny and I'm putting out positive messages that negate their bigotry without too much time or effort.

                          that's just if you have the time and inclination to engage, you aren't morally obligated to subject yourself to abusive behavior.

                          if it's real bad, they're probably violating a rule, and reporting them will get them banned

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                          Ooo, that's good.

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                          • M [email protected]

                            If I ignore/block them, it allows them to continue unchallenged. I hate getting into it with them, since they are a baseline idiot.

                            I guess that's it. I saw a person with a 6 month account spouting garbage, was gonna block but thought perhaps that wasn't morally responsible. Wondering what the options were.

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                            When Lemmy first got popular and all debates happened and such, I kept debating politely while they kept bashing, insulting and all that. I’m over that.

                            When I see such opinions now, I block them. They are seriously not worth my time, energy and effort. Let them wallow in their misery.

                            They won’t realize it but everything bad they hope happening to others will certainly bite them back sooner or later. The moment they do not fit their (own) ideology of fascism just a tiny bit, it’ll bite them back.

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                              You may feel that they go unapposed and therefore you should be a countering force, but really your efforts are moot. People have their beliefs that won’t be changed online, at least not from some internet stranger. You can make the best arguments in the world and the opposition will simply ignore your point, move the goalposts, and implement the next logical fallacy to keep proving you “wrong” or “an idiot”.

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                              Wow, yeah I think this was playing in my mind. You hit the nail on the head. I'll just block the idiot.

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                              • M [email protected]

                                If I ignore/block them, it allows them to continue unchallenged. I hate getting into it with them, since they are a baseline idiot.

                                I guess that's it. I saw a person with a 6 month account spouting garbage, was gonna block but thought perhaps that wasn't morally responsible. Wondering what the options were.

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                                Find some place... as an example, hexbear's instance has c/slop... to drop a link to the offending user's comment or post and whatever happens... happens.

                                You've got the option of Reporting the post/comment to the moderators. Which will require you knowing the moderation rules of the community in question to take advantage of.

                                Short bullet point/talking point responses. Replies with things like, "This is racist/sexist/genocide denial/etc", then disengage. You don't need to get into a long drawn out comment war/debat bro situation.

                                Make fun of them for being a goober.

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                                  how is blocking someone helping influence other people? youre the only human the block affects. its no different than ignoring them.

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                                  I think they mean not letting the ideas go unchallenged. If someone is reading through and sees a bunch of Nazis posting hate all up somewhere with no one else saying anything, they might assume that sort of behavior is just tacitly accepted and influence their perception of the community as a whole.

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                                  • M [email protected]

                                    If I ignore/block them, it allows them to continue unchallenged. I hate getting into it with them, since they are a baseline idiot.

                                    I guess that's it. I saw a person with a 6 month account spouting garbage, was gonna block but thought perhaps that wasn't morally responsible. Wondering what the options were.

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                                    On the internet, you're not likely to change their mind, like at all. But in person, if you can connect with someone and bring it back to family, and community, you can slowly change someone's mind and show them that they've been lied too. It doesn't happen overnight, but it can be done.

                                    On the interwebs, don't even bother.

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                                      If I ignore/block them, it allows them to continue unchallenged. I hate getting into it with them, since they are a baseline idiot.

                                      I guess that's it. I saw a person with a 6 month account spouting garbage, was gonna block but thought perhaps that wasn't morally responsible. Wondering what the options were.

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                                      Politely as them to snap a pic of their hog and post it.

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                                      • M [email protected]

                                        If I ignore/block them, it allows them to continue unchallenged. I hate getting into it with them, since they are a baseline idiot.

                                        I guess that's it. I saw a person with a 6 month account spouting garbage, was gonna block but thought perhaps that wasn't morally responsible. Wondering what the options were.

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                                        Very rarely do people like this actually want to discuss why they are the way they are. They don't care about your opinion, and will actively react negatively to any push back. Of course, you can always block them, but there is another choice sicko-hexbear-crowd

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                                          If I ignore/block them, it allows them to continue unchallenged. I hate getting into it with them, since they are a baseline idiot.

                                          I guess that's it. I saw a person with a 6 month account spouting garbage, was gonna block but thought perhaps that wasn't morally responsible. Wondering what the options were.

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                                          Bang with the ban gun get em outta herestalin-gun-1stalin-gun-2

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